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Regarding women's dedication to the family, they have seen too much in the past ten years, and a large part of it is involuntary, all for the family, when they are at home, they have to start doing things at a very young age, and their sons are relatively expensive. When there is an unexpected event that is beyond the capacity of a family, it is they who are sacrificed first, and in a family, it is always the girl who is sold first, and if it is not enough, it is the woman.
If you are unlucky, you will be a cow and a horse all your life, and if you don't accept your fate, you will resist within your ability, but more people attribute it to all this because of their bad life, reincarnated as a woman, and all they can think of is a positive idea, but they hope that their life will be better in the next life and they can generate a man.
There are only a few people who are willing to give themselves, although their families are poor, but the family members have deep feelings for each other, and they choose to sacrifice themselves when someone must sacrifice in the family in exchange for the life of more people.
However, no matter what it is, it's because they have long been brainwashed by the survival mode at this time, because most of the girls who are sold are those who recruit brothers, so they have encountered them no matter what the situation is. Reasonable and unreasonable, pitiful and lamentable, Zhao Di will not question the choices of others, but he is especially glad that he was born in a free and equal society.
Happiness is all comparative, when survival comes first, emotion or something, that's really not important.
Brother Zhao is only sure of one thing, she is willing to work hard for her family, even if she is not afraid of hardship, but she has always not understood those who think that she sacrificed everything for her family, including dignity and life.
Maybe people have a hero complex, the more they pay, the more tragic the result, the more they feel tragic, it doesn't matter if they are moved by others, anyway, they are deeply moved by their own choices, they feel that they are particularly great, and their image is even more lofty, the more people who live at the bottom, the more willing they are to prove their worth in this way, because in addition to this, they can't find any other way.
In Zhaodi's mind, if the family has deep feelings and does what they can, it is right, but for this to make their lives miserable, it must be something that the family does not want to see, and it is impossible to build their happiness on this kind of sacrifice, and they will not be comfortable enjoying the benefits they get.
And if you don't treat your family sincerely, then there is no need to sacrifice yourself so much, it's really not worth it.
But she didn't expect that she would face such a choice.
And this thing is so coincidentally stuck at a point. She doesn't need to endure hardship, nor does she need to suffer, and even in the eyes of others, this is not a sacrifice, but luck and falling into the nest of blessings, and it is to enjoy happiness.
It's just that she probably can't get over the hurdle in her heart, even if she doesn't expect love, no woman would want her marriage to become a transaction. Especially the so-called high marriage, people who worship money will feel that they have what they want, while recruiting younger brothers will only feel that they are like goods like this, which is particularly difficult to accept.
Marrying into the palace, Li Chengye will feel that he has an explanation for his elders, and it is not in vain for him to bow his head this time. The younger siblings and her family's industry will really have a backer who can't be messed with, modern marriage is not afraid of breaking up, ancient marriage is really good for two surnames, and it is more inclined to combine interests than to be happy with each other. As Li Chengye said, there are no disadvantages in all benefits.
On the contrary, I believe in Tang Heng'an's character, there will be no excessive actions, but there will always be an impact, and they will inevitably be a little more difficult, but as long as they work hard, there should be no problem, after all, they are not just fatherless and motherless orphans now, but also have a good background.
To marry or not to marry?
Li Chengye said that he should let Brother Zhao think about it, but he didn't have time to give Brother Zhao, and the conversation between the two came to an end.
The person who came rushed to stand beside Brother Zhao, raised his head and glared at Li Chengye, and said viciously: "The eldest sister is from our family, so I won't listen to you to go to someone else's house!"
After Mama Xia's adjustment and training, the professional quality of the people below is advancing by leaps and bounds, plus there are Li Chengye's secret guards, the two are very relieved about the conversation environment, but there are always exceptions to everything.
Brother Pan, who came back rarely, originally wanted to surprise the eldest sister, she began to practice since she was a child, since she worshipped the divine doctor as a teacher, the two often have to run to the deep mountains and old forests, and the kung fu practice is even harder, choosing the family, in addition to the younger brother, it is her kung fu is good, although Li Chengye's guards saw her, but before the two talked, Li Chengye did not have special instructions, and they also followed the previous practice, when the master's family is together, do not need to make a special notice and do not disturb, let Brother Pan pass.
When Brother Pan approached, it was the time when the dispute between the two was at its worst, and even Li Chengye didn't pay attention to it because of his anger and relaxation in a safe place, causing Brother Pan, who wanted to surprise people, to be frightened first.
In their family, everyone knows that no matter what the circumstances, they can't make the eldest sister emotional, Zhao Di has been excited about amnesia several times, and the younger brother is young, and there is no impression in front of him, so he was frightened for the last time, angry and sad = amnesia = I don't know them, plus the grief of losing my father, and the hesitation of no one to rely on, so that this fear of emotion is infinitely amplified, although Zhao Di's body has become better later, and he is no longer the glass doll before, but they have formed a deep-rooted impression that will not change a bit.
Brother Pan is more active, and after a lot of methods of divine medicine, there are some secondary two, recruiting younger brothers to take incentive education for younger brothers and sisters, and they have to praise a little bit of good, not to mention that Brother Pan has really done a lot of things.
When she didn't learn medicine yet, she tossed out the dye by mistake. At this time, there were few brightly colored dyes, and Pan Di not only got it, but also found a formula with excellent color fixation and gloss, these two things alone made the brocade produced by their family not worry about selling no matter how expensive it was.
The result of excessive praise is that Brother Pan's self-confidence is infinitely inflated to arrogance, because she got a lot of self-protection powder out, but Brother Zhao didn't deliberately hit her, as long as she is not crooked, she has a rod in her heart, knows what to do and what not to do, and she will not be in danger of life, be proud, and someone will always teach her what it means to "have people outside the sky".
As a result, I heard Li Chengye say that they actually rely on others, and let the eldest sister marry for their younger siblings, obviously the eldest sister is unwilling, and the younger brother is angry!