The circle of friends wrapped in "fat powder".
I was once fortunate to be a colleague with a beautiful woman, and I was pleasing to the eye when I was working every day. Pen %Fun %Pavilion www.biquge.info One day I suddenly found that this beauty was discolored, and the person was still that person, but how to look at it was not as pretty as usual. I was surprised but didn't dare to ask, so I could only wonder in my heart. After a long time of being so bored, I suddenly realized that this beautiful woman came to work without makeup for some reason that day. There is no fat powder decoration on the face, and even the appearance has changed greatly.
After discovering this secret, I looked at the female colleague's appearance carefully, and felt that she was just a middle-aged person. The five views are quite correct, but they are not beautiful in any way. Because I was used to seeing the pretty faces of my female colleagues in the past, I suddenly saw her true face and felt a little unacceptable, and even felt a little hateful. Aware of the changes in his heart, even he was startled, and secretly thought: It turns out that women don't wear makeup, and they feel that the gap is so big!
After this experience, when I saw beautiful women again, I couldn't help but think, "If I didn't wear makeup, would she still be so beautiful?"
As my experience grew, I found that people not only use makeup to embellish their appearance, but also beautify their behavior, thoughts, morals, etc. through various shows. In recent years, after the popularization of WeChat, all kinds of profound and beautiful words are everywhere like a dazzling array of cosmetics in stores. People often retweet these texts to express their opinions. There are also people who use these words to beautify their conduct in the same way that they decorate their faces with cosmetics. Maybe it's because people who really do well often don't need to beautify themselves, so the more people who have bad conduct, the more enthusiastic they seem to be to forward this kind of text. So when you understand the real life of the publisher behind those beautiful words, it's not an exaggeration to express your shock with a mouthful of words.
For example, a person who cheats on food and drink, and thinks about taking the fruits of other people's labor as his own all day long, but preaches fairness and justice in the circle of friends. Another example is a person who does not keep his word and does not repay his debts, but talks about ethics in the circle of friends. Another example is an extremely hypocritical person, but he flaunts sincerity in the circle of friends. Another example is a person who often coerces his other half to satisfy his desires, but discusses how to harmonize family relationships in the circle of friends. Another example is a group of indifferent and affectionate people, but they constantly post old photos in the circle of friends, reminiscing about the good times spent together. And so on and so forth.
If you accuse them of saying one thing and doing another. They will have a thousand reasons to justify themselves. But no matter how fanciful they say, one look at their behavior reveals their true colors. They either don't do what they say best, or they go around and around to achieve their personal goals.
So, when you see a person making profound remarks in the circle of friends, you can't believe that his character is just as noble. Because judging a person's character by simply looking at the text of the circle of friends is the same as judging the beauty and ugliness of a woman by simply looking at her face with makeup, which is a very unreliable thing.