Chapter 155: Impossible
I think this is a very disrespectful approach to me, let them, a qualified father-in-law and mother-in-law, is this kind of thing to communicate with your husband, then why do I have my living environment and my own life plan, I have my own rhythm of life.
"It's my parents-in-law, we respect each other, but you don't have the right to plan my life, let alone give me any tasks, you two are my leaders, my leaders have to start from reality, and you have to manage employees scientifically from the perspective of management. ”
This really regards myself as the patriarch, I have great power over the children in the family as long as I am the elders, you have a private court, this is really ridiculous, okay girl, let's talk about it here?
Will continue to be filial.,I think it's good in all aspects.,But he has some living habits that are very bad.,He has some ideas about what the male protagonist is outside the female protagonist and the female protagonist is such a point of view.,Under the ideological education of your father-in-law and mother-in-law.,Your husband will be a little machismo Okay.,Then let's just say it.,Say it and say that you want you to think.,But it's not that I think I want me to think about you.。
It's better for the two of us to seek common ground while reserving differences, you can keep your ideas, but you can't force me to do things I don't want to do, this is the principle, he doesn't understand how to teach him, he doesn't listen to talk about it.
The family has been helping him for two years, I feel very tired, and I don't guarantee when it will be effective, you tell others that this is a craft is not easy to cultivate, he is the main force, but other peripheral things are you are making contributions, you two are half, but you say, in fact, the income of this project is not equal compared with the pay, and the return is relatively small.
However, the project itself should have development, but this job is something you don't like, you used to have your own job, but two years ago in order to help your husband do the current business business, I feel very tired, and the most important thing is that you don't like this thing, you now have the opportunity to work, the income is not low, you also want to have more contact with the outside world, want to have your own world, want to ask how to talk to your husband.
I've talked about it two or three times, and we've had a lot of arguments about it, and we've talked about divorce if we can't do it, but I don't want to get divorced so much, where is the divorce? If you don't do this, then we will have a bad life in the future, then I will not be able to do this now, and I will not be happy.
It's not the life I want, it's not the job I like, I think it's very painful, it's like a year, do you think it's interesting for my life? I can say this, it's a job that I was very happy to accept before I was cultivated, but after two years of doing it, I felt very hard and long, and it was so much of a benefit, I was tired, and now the most important thing is what is my focus?
You know that the important thing about the lady is that in this process I care about whether you are happy or not, you have to bite him accurately in this matter, what is called not very happy, you only say to your husband, you say that I am very unhappy in this matter, unhappy, I don't like that sentence There is a sentence in it that I don't like it is better not to give birth.
He has a lot of meaning in this life, that is, in this world, we have to be for our own favorite position, you like the goal, and he has a lot of meaning in this life.
It's something that you enjoy for you, but it's painful for me, so why do you have to tie it to your family? Isn't it good for all of us to do what we're happy about? You can find other people to help you do the periphery, and I will also have a part of the income training, I think I am training two people with him, and then we will help him, and then I don't have to delay, what I go to work is work, that is, I am really very entangled in my heart that I was particularly willing to do this job two years ago, but I will feel that I don't want to do it if I have something else.
Why do you have this idea, I am just tired alone, I think the reason why he cares more about me, or what are you talking about? Do you think that in the process of working together between the two of you, he has a lot to offer you.
I feel like I'm dizzy for a day, but if you don't need to take this medicine, you have to give it to you, then of course it's a bad situation.
Eat something that nourishes your stomach or strengthens your stomach to increase your appetite. Appetite medicine is not to be taken, I don't know why your family is there, so I suggest you go to the adaptation department to see a doctor. I actually want to have a situation like this, so how can it be good? I feel that in the end, I just didn't take medicine, I seem to have adjusted, and I was hospitalized.
I regulate my nerves or something, if you feel bad about taking medicine, don't take medicine for the time being, it's okay to do some psychological counseling?
If you feel very uncomfortable taking medicine, you will stop for a while all day. Let's just say that you couldn't sleep at night when you didn't take medicine before, and you don't necessarily have to take this kind of medicine if you can't sleep. Let's do some dietary therapy, such as drinking a glass of milk before going to bed at night, or reading a book, and looking at it makes you sleepy?
It's better than taking medicine to the body, you take medicine and get injections now, it's been four months next week, you see you're leisurely talking to me with melon seeds, you still feel like you?
It's just not like that for a while, if you feel bad, but you still have to pay attention to the adjustment, such as the body itself.
Is there such an incoherent way of speaking? There are some questions that you don't answer very clearly. This at least I think you might not be too thoughtful about the problem. I really want to ask what is the deal with anxiety and depression? Anxiety and depression I've said before, I said it's an emotional state, and an emotional state comes from my bad mood, because we have a lot of problems with us.
Do we still know what we think about a lot of problems? The medicine that the doctor looks at says is that it helps to feel good or something, but the doctor doesn't say that, how do you take the medicine? But I said that the effect of psychotropic drugs is to relieve the symptoms. For example, some people are very anxious and irritable. So taking some drugs may inhibit and improve this state, but the problem is still that I often give a very vivid example, you dry a pile of carpet with less garbage, and then you can't see it, is it gone?
Of course, it's not that after a while, the garbage stinks and the stalls are broken. The function of psychotropic drugs is to increase the dosage or change the dressing in two layers.
I want you to come back and talk to him this week, I don't know where I want to consult, communicate with him and talk to him, because I didn't do well in many places when I was in junior high school, and I was able to take the initiative to hand over my phone this time is a positive attitude, right?
After reading it, you can secretly not hand it in, right? You are now in this state when you have a mobile phone, and two mobile phones appear in this state, because mobile phones are sometimes very cheap now, and you may be able to buy them for a hundred or ten dollars. If his classmates and his family are too loose, several mobile phones at home are idle.
None of them are hard things to come by. Let's not blame and complain more about this issue, because if you do, the communication may not be able to continue, right?
What you want to say is that I heard the teacher say that you took the initiative to throw away your phone today, and my mother knows about the mobile phone. I bought it from my classmates or with my own pocket money, which is the first point we want to say, and the second point is that we have to discuss with our children, or when it is more difficult to find a sense of existence in reality with a person.
will look for it through the virtual world, but the virtual world is just okay. If you think about something that you can't do in a big way, can you discuss it?
More care and more expression of love in life, when the child is older, communicate more and less blame and nag? And the teacher in our class really wants to talk, say or not communicate with the two of us, there will be a reason why he doesn't talk to us about anything, the reason he knows what you will say. So what will we say?
In addition to seeing him badly, we began to constantly ask him and accuse him of being dissatisfied with him. Lots and more to admire him affirm him. He has a very good and friendly attitude, a very respectful attitude, right? If these habits are formed in the child, it stands to reason that the parents are the most trusted people in the child, and he has no reason to refuse.
So we pay attention to the methods and attitudes, I don't doubt your love, but I suspect that you plus the child is not self-motivated and too lazy to do anything in terms of learning, I suggest that you have the opportunity or if you are willing, you convince him to participate in some motivation this winter.
I still have children now, sometimes especially this kind of thing, this kind of one-child family, or the parents are busy with business and don't have time to take care of the children. Parents who manage their children or lack effective knowledge of their children's education will end up with a bunch of years old, lacking the most obvious characteristics, and there are some problems with responsibility and cooperation. We parents may not be fully equipped to guide us. If you really understand these things, I hope you can communicate with him again and then contact us, I hope that after this place can help him to have a good self-awareness of himself, in the face of some confusion in life can no longer be so casual to escape, to face it bravely.