Chapter 196: That's a Taboo!
Grandpa suddenly put the teacup on the table and seemed to be a little angry.
Although Grandpa was a little angry, Yin Zixuan admired Grandpa's insight very much.
"Grandpa, do you know what I'm here for?"
"I must feel that I don't care enough about you, I want to tie up someone permanently, I want to marry her!
"Grandpa, I want to get married, but I don't want to tie her up as you said, I just want her to understand that she is the person I choose in this life, the person who wants to spend her life, and the most important person in my life, and I don't want her to always have any misunderstandings about me, which will hurt our feelings.
I am afraid that one day, for the sake of a false misunderstanding, we will be forced to go further and further, and finally be forced to separate, and thus become the regret of eternal life!"
was hit by his grandfather to the point, and Yin Zixuan bluntly expressed his worries, his concerns, and his sincerity to An Liran.
"Are you sure you don't regret it?" said Grandpa, staring into his eyes.
"How can I regret it, I don't regret it!" Yin Zixuan's eyes were very determined.
"Divorce is not allowed in our Yin family, you know?"
Yin Zixuan didn't know about this rule, but he felt that it didn't contradict whether he was married or not, and of course he wouldn't divorce.
Grandpa saw that Yin Zixuan definitely didn't know about this rule, and slowly explained, "Our descendants of the Yin family, once they get married, no matter whether the two people are suitable or not, they are not allowed to divorce, if they violate this rule, there is no reason, they must leave the house and never return to the Yin family!"
Therefore, the children and grandchildren of the Yin family do not get married easily, they all focus on their careers, and they do not get married until they are mature after years of baptism.
For the descendants of the Yin family to marry before the age of thirty, it is considered an early marriage, and you are not yet 25 years old, you have to think carefully. β
"Grandpa, I didn't know about this rule, but I never thought I would leave An Liran, no matter what happened, I would stay with her until I grew old, and I would never regret it!"
Yin Zixuan has not been with his parents since he was a child, of course no one told him about these things, for several elders of the Yin family, although it is like a mystery-like experience, but no one in the huge Yin family will mention it, and no one in the Yin family dares to mention anyone's privacy.
That's a taboo!
But after listening to his grandfather's words, his consciousness became more firm, as if this rule was tailor-made for himself.
Because he will never change his mind, in this world, he, Yin Zixuan, will only marry An Liran as his wife!
After listening to Yin Zixuan's words and seeing Yin Zixuan's firm eyes, the grandfather believed his grandson's words, because he had been a promise since he was a child!
But the Yin family's rules are not easy to change, as long as they get married, no matter which party has problems, the result is the same, and there are no special circumstances.
Yin Zixuan must still be young, especially that girl, it looks good, but she must be too young, just eighteen years old, life is so long, will they really stay together until they are old?
He can't let his personally trained successor take this risk!
After careful consideration, Grandpa solemnly spoke, "I believe in you, but the marriage of our Yin descendants is too grand and will attract the attention of people from all walks of life, you are not engaged to get married, it is too hasty, I think you have to get engaged first!"
"Grandpa, we're already engaged, have you forgotten, that time for our Yin family's anniversary celebration, I had already formally proposed to An Liran, and that was already our engagement banquet!"
"How can it be counted that time? Without the presence of the elders of both sides, the engagement banquet of our Yin descendants, especially my grandson, should be very grand, invite people from all walks of life to attend, and I will personally preside over it. β
"Is it necessary? I think there were people from all walks of life who attended, and it was very formal, and I wanted to have a wedding, and I didn't want to make a big difference!"
"I understand your intentions, although our family is not allowed to withdraw from the marriage after getting engaged, but the Yin Group is not allowed to lose faith with others, so even if it is engaged, it has achieved the goal you want, and it can be regarded as announcing to people from all walks of life that Miss An Liran is famous and belongs to Mr. Yin Zixuan.
In this way, there will be no bold and reckless people, or people who do not open their eyes to covet the future Mrs. President of the Yin family, if there is really someone like this, it is equivalent to taking the Yin Group as an enemy, and it is easy for us to drive him out of the city, without your action. You're not at ease?"
"Grandpa, I don't mean that, I ......" Yin Zixuan was a little embarrassed to be told about his inner worries by Chi Guoguo, and he couldn't admit that he was in a hurry to get married because he was afraid that others would covet the little girl!
But grandpa is right, if both families are present and formally engaged, the meaning is indeed different.
"What do you mean, maybe I can't guess it in the business field, admit that you are blue, but I almost expected it as soon as you called, and even when you came to the house that day, I saw that you would understand that there would be such a day. β
"Why?"
"Your personality has been known since I was a child, there is nothing you love that you must have, whether it is a toy or something else, you can give up for the sake of the big picture, or you can hide your preferences, as if you are afraid that people will catch your weakness. β
Grandpa stood up as he spoke, walked to the window, and was silently distracted, as if he was recalling Yin Zixuan's appearance when he was a child, from the child's eyes, he never saw what the expression was, he never knew his joys, sorrows, and sorrows, and never knew what he was fond of.
Only the thunderous habits of life, only the various courses, he thundered and achieved amazing results.
At that time, he knew that this grandson was really unusual, a person who did great things.
At the same time, I feel very sorry for this child, he seems to have never had a childhood.
Grandpa paused for a while, and then said, "But that day, when you looked at Miss An's eyes, there was no disguise, that kind of love came from the bones, and I knew that you couldn't do without that child in this life."
I also liked the kid and accepted this granddaughter-in-law and gave her your grandmother's heirloom.
Do you know that your grandmother explained before her death that the necklace was given to her future granddaughter-in-law. β
Grandpa's words shocked Yin Zixuan very much, he once only knew that in this world, except for his mother, only his grandfather loved him, but he didn't know that his grandfather understood himself like this.
He knows himself better than he knows himself.
Yin Zixuan's eyes were as deep as black Zhai Shi, misty.
"Grandpa!" The voice also trembled, the grass was everywhere, and it was difficult to find a bosom friend, this grandfather who loved him was still his bosom friend.
At this time, Yin Zixuan's heart was warm, and all his feelings were in that "grandpa".
There is touching, respect, shock, respect, and deep love!
"But I also knew that one day you would have a problem and you would come to me, but I didn't expect it to be so soon. β
I was just moved, but now I am shocked again, how does grandpa know that they will definitely have a problem?
Seeing Yin Zixuan's puzzled eyes, Grandpa patted him on the shoulder and continued, "Your personality determines the problems between you. β
"My character? and ask my grandfather for advice. Yin Zixuan has a feeling, "A conversation with you is better than reading a book for ten years."
"You think it's a very simple thing for two people to fall in love, you think you have a heart for her, she should understand!"
"Isn't it easy for two people to fall in love?
"Let me ask you, if you have An Liran, will you still like others?"
"Of course not, why does grandpa ask like that?" I just felt that grandpa was very wise, why did he suddenly ask such a childish question.
"You must think that my question is naΓ―ve, but how can others know what you think? How can An Liran know? She doesn't know what kind of character you are, and even if she knows, the more people who love each other, the more suspicious they are, because of their own uncertainty. β
"Because of your own uncertainty?" Yin Zixuan looked dazed.
"Yes! Because you have given everything to the other party, and you don't know if the other party loves you like this, you will be uncertain, you will misunderstand, and you will leave immediately. β
"It's going to be like leaving..."Yin Zixuan repeated this sentence, his thoughts drifting far away.
Thinking that He An Liran was fine, she suddenly ignored herself, thinking that every time he thought that the two of them had reconciled as before, she was still lukewarm the next day, and thinking that the closer he got, she seemed to want to run away again......
"I also know that my grandson is not very emotionally intelligent, he is not a master of falling in love, he has never been in love at the age of 25, it seems to be a blank slate, so I know you will be at a loss. β
"Grandpa, you know everything, but now I have no choice, I want to marry her, I want to tell her that I just want to spend my life with her. β
"I understand, if Ann Yatou is not sure about you, this is a way, but it is not the only way, nor is it the best way, marriage is just a promise!"
"So what should I do?"
"Let her believe in you, don't guess when you encounter things, and ask for clarification. β
"I asked, and she wouldn't say why she was angry, why she alienated me, and every time she said she was busy, or why she couldn't refuse. β
"It seems that this girl is also a very thoughtful child, but she is a little similar to you, and it will be very hard for two people who are too similar to each other to be together. β
"I'm not afraid of hard work, I'm just afraid that I can't be with her. β
"Let's get engaged first, and I'll arrange it right away. "Grandpa seems to have made up his mind.
"Grandpa, next month is your seventieth birthday, and we will announce our engagement at your birthday banquet, is it okay?"
"No, I said that the engagement should be specially selected for a time to be grand, otherwise it will be fine last time, why bother to do it again. β
"That's the month. Yin Zixuan blurted out.
"Are you in too much of a hurry?" said Grandpa back to half-joking.
Yin Zixuan also felt that he was really a little anxious, and his face was a little hot, but he really wanted to announce to the world immediately that An Liran belonged to him.
"Have you asked their family for permission?" The sentence made Yin Zixuan a little stunned. yes, how did you forget about that?