Episode 8
Speaking from the heart, Guo Jingtao has always treated her well, and emotionally he thinks so.
His family background is average, similar to Su Xing's family, the difference is that one lives in a big city and the other was born in a small town. Knowing that their son had made a mistake with the girl, the Guo family's parents saw that the two had a stable income and that their future daughter-in-law was smart, so they agreed to let Su Xing get started.
Su Xing was just an adult and couldn't register, so the two parties put the fact that the wedding was successful.
Knowing that her daughter-in-law Su Xing was going to take the postgraduate entrance examination, she was still young, and the Guo family's parents liked to hear about it, and asked their son to continue to take the exam. In the eyes of the elders, these two people work to accumulate experience, unlike migrant workers, who work as hard as migrant workers, and continue to study to create a better future.
This is what parents expect from their children, and the young couple is full of joy.
A year later, Guo Jingtao failed the postgraduate entrance examination and went to his father's small company to start from the bottom and learn management.
Su Xing was admitted and was able to continue her studies.
So here's the problem.
If the couple stands at the same starting point, the Guo family's parents are very relieved. Now that Su Xing's studies are progressing, her son can only go back to the company to work, and the old man is worried that his daughter-in-law will look down on his son in the future.
In the eyes of the second elder, literati always hate people who smell of copper. In addition, the cost of graduate school is not low, what if the daughter-in-law dislikes her husband's low education in the future? Wouldn't the money be spent in vain?
So, the second elder was reluctant.
In-laws are good people, but it can be seen from this that no matter how good the in-laws are, they are also other people's parents, and once their own interests are involved, they will first consider their children.
Su Xing expressed her understanding, so she paid for her own studies without financial support from her husband's family.
In fact, when she was in high school, she often wrote articles that were accepted and published by some publishing houses, and her living expenses during college were all paid by herself.
Since her sophomore year, she didn't even have to pay tuition at home.
When she was in college, she was carefree, she liked to be sad when she had nothing to do, and she always pursued spiritual satiety, so she had no place to spend money.
This is also one of the reasons why the Su couple love their daughter, showing off her sensible and well-behaved in front of relatives and friends all day long.
In addition to her own money, the Su couple also gave their daughter a big surprise.
They not only gave Su Xing a property, but also saved a sum of money for their daughter as an education fund every year. It's not the kind of insurance, the flow of funds is poor and inconvenient to use, and the second elder wants to make it convenient for his daughter.
In fact, Su Hai also has it, as soon as the two children were born, the far-sighted parents saved money for them. It's just that Su Haishu reads averagely, and after graduation, the Su couple stopped saving money for him, and the previous savings were used as a start-up fund for him, and they were finally squandered.
The brother and sister didn't know this.
Su Xing only learned in the last semester of her senior year that her parents had saved her money for further study. The cost of graduate school is expensive, and she saw that her parents were getting old, and she couldn't bear to increase the burden on her family, so she proposed to work for a year or two before going to graduate school.
The Su couple, who were afraid of delaying their daughter's future, hurriedly told her, but unfortunately they had missed the opportunity to take the postgraduate entrance examination and had to wait for the next time.
Fate made people, and now that her parents are gone, there is no time to wait for her good news.
All in all, Su Xing is financially independent, and she can do whatever she wants, and the Guo family has nothing to say. Seeing that his son was obedient to his daughter-in-law, he was very worried, so the second elder had to urge his son to be more motivated in his work, so as not to be underestimated by his daughter-in-law in the future.
After getting married, the couple moved to the apartment bought by Guo's parents to live in a two-person world, living a harmonious and beautiful life.
Soon after, Su Xing found out that she was pregnant, and the whole family was excited for a while.
Su Xing is a student of history and has a deep understanding of world history and ancient Chinese history. Especially in ancient Chinese history, she finally obtained a doctorate in the future, and went to a foreign university graduate school to study Western history and historical comparative linguistics.
But her deepest attainment is still ancient Chinese literature, which is quite liked by her tutor, and often asks her to study ancient Chinese books with her.
Once, out of nowhere, the instructor got a scan of silk cloth that resembled a classical cheat. No one could read the words on it, so the tutor specially asked her to restore the handwriting with her, and she studied it at school for a full week before going home.
When she came home early in the morning, she found that her husband had given her a great "joy".
He cheated, and she also knew the cheating partner.
It is said that fire, theft and girlfriends, she used to just laugh when she heard it, and someone inadvertently reminded her that her husband was a little close to his friends, but she never thought so.
She believes that rumors stop at the wise.
I never expected that the strength of the slap in the face would be so heavy.
She was pregnant, and she was well taken care of when she was doing research at school, so she wasn't too tired, and she would have been fine after taking a break. Unexpectedly, as soon as I came back, I saw my husband and his friends rolling in a mess in the living room, and the sudden blow came too suddenly, and she had a miscarriage.
Because of this, Su Xing, who was fragile, reconciled with her eldest brother. Su Hai took his two cousins to G City and beat Guo Jingtao, ordered him not to associate with Xiao San anymore, and asked the Guo family to make mental compensation to Xiao Mei.
Guo Jingtao really likes Su Xing, he knows that he is wrong, he admits punishment one by one, and regardless of his parents' obstruction, he attributes all the property in his name to Su Xing's name.
However, he does not divorce.
The Su clan also strongly opposed Su Xing's divorce, and they persuaded her that there is no man in this world who does not steal, and it will end up the same if she changes to someone else, maybe it is not as good as this. Guo Jingtao is willing to attribute everything to her name, proving that he is truly repentant.
They say that men can make mistakes whenever they have the opportunity, whether they have money or not.
They say that marrying depends on the character of the partner, as well as the virtue of the in-laws. The Guo family treats her well, and the couple gets married and gives money and a house, and allows her to continue her studies, but other people's families may not.
It is the consensus of most people in society that a woman can only be considered perfect if she marries.
No matter how high Su Xing's education is, she can't escape the shackles of some old concepts.
Therefore, she listened to her relatives and forgave Guo Jingtao.
There was another reason why she forgave him, this man had a stubbornness to what he insisted on until he reached his goal. For example, he has liked her since his freshman year, and his heart has persisted for four years.
As for the matter between him and his girlfriend, he said that it was a complete misunderstanding.
Because of Su Xing's relationship, he had a certain friendship with her best friend, and later had more accidental encounters in public, and the friendship gradually deepened.
That day, Guo Jingtao asked his best friend to come out and pretend to be his wife to socialize, but the two were drunk too much. One thought that the other party was his wife who hadn't come home for a long time, and the other thought that Guo was his boyfriend, so they rolled together.
Regardless of whether this is true or not, since he chooses to forgive, he will not delve into it, this is Su Xing's attitude towards things.
She hated dwelling on one thing for too long.
As for girlfriends, they naturally broke up and broke off their relationship.