Even the palace father already knew that when he was seriously ill, his wife ran to the eldest brother's house to ask for help, and except for some cynicism, he did not borrow a penny, but this could not change his stubborn understanding.

In his deep-rooted cognition, no matter what his eldest brother and sister-in-law do to him, he must do his duty as a younger brother. That's how he behaves. No matter how much he suffered or suffered, he treated people with sincerity.

Of course, if his eldest brother gets along with him in a different place, Father Gong can't do the kind of thing that his eldest brother does. But this does not affect him, he still takes care of his eldest brother as the closest person to his family.

Father Gong's thinking directly led to Gong Jian's mother, who also responded to the needs of the eldest brother and sister-in-law's family without complaints. Gong Jian's mother is a weak woman who takes her husband as the sky. Since she married into the palace family, she has always listened to her own words, and in her attitude towards her uncle's family, she has completely obeyed the attitude of being a family.

At the same time, she also educates her children in this way, and wants to educate them to be like her husband and wife, and to her eldest brother and sister-in-law's family.

Fortunately, the three Gong Jian brothers and sisters, although they have been taught by their father and mother since they were children, they have not treated others unprincipledly like them.

Gong Yue and Gong Yu even hated their uncle and aunt so much that their teeth itched, and when they mentioned them, their brothers and sisters were full of endless hatred and disgust.

That is, later, the brother and sister, under the leadership of their eldest brother, looked at things from a much broader perspective. They also realize that the people around them cannot be changed by their preferences and hopes, and they are all individuals. Then, everyone's principles of doing things, everyone's temperament, and temperament are all determined by themselves, and they just need to master their own principles.

It's not that they hate the uncle's family less, but they have realized that if their hearts are full of hatred and disgust, and their eyes are full of settling accounts with the uncle's family, it is actually the biggest punishment for themselves.

That kind of person is not worth it, too much of himself. If you deal with them, you can only say that you have lowered yourself to the same level as them.

It was after knowing this that the brother and sister slowly let go of their hatred for the uncle's family.

Treat them only as familiar, familiar strangers. Of course, if the uncle's family still wants to take advantage of their own family as before, it is simply impossible.

The three brothers and sisters all adhere to the same principle on this point. That is, this kind of white-eyed wolf that can't be fed. Don't let them feel like they have meat in their hands, you can let them take a bite as they please. If they want to open their mouths, it's best to give them a rock and let them know how good they are.

Therefore, since Gong Jian began to support his family, Gong Jian's life has been getting better and better, but they have never let Gong Jian's family take any advantage from their own family.

The last time Gong Jian and his family decided to popularize the knowledge and methods of breeding rabbits in the village, if it wasn't for the strong request of Gong Jian's father to put Gong Jian's family on the list, in fact, no one in the family would want to teach them the method of breeding rabbits.

And after that, the reason why Gong Jian and the others finally gave them twenty breeding rabbits was entirely because if Gong Jian only gave them to the village chief's family, then the villagers said that they were flattering the village chief, and everyone would not say anything on the surface, but there would be a lot of people who said sour things in private.

Besides, these twenty rabbits were given to the uncle's family, and Gong Jian also planned it well at that time, at least with these rabbits, they could ensure that their family was in the village, and they could live this last year without interference. When the family moved to the county to live, no matter how much the uncle's family wanted to make trouble, they couldn't make trouble in front of them.

Aren't relatives paying attention to the smell of being close to each other? Then Gong Jian is far away from them. It also saves such a disgusting family, hanging around their own family all day long. Gong Jian is not afraid that they will come to the door, but he is afraid that they will keep appearing and disgusting others in front of him.

But today, on the thirtieth day of the Chinese New Year's Eve, Uncle Gong Jian and his wife still appeared in their own home. Obviously, this was beyond Gong Jian's expectations. It seems that the twenty rabbits still can't appease the uncle's family, this month's days. No, now they haven't just found their own home.

Gong Jian is also quite disgusted with the uncle's family. This mainly comes from his disdain and contempt for the character of that family. For him, Gong Jian is not like a younger brother and sister who is usually at home, and has experienced all kinds of evil behaviors of the uncle's family and his own family.

But even he doesn't have so much hatred for his uncle's family. But even to take care of the emotions of his younger siblings, he also has to kick the uncle and his wife out of his home as soon as possible.

But at the same time, Gong Jian also has to take care of the feelings of his father and mother. After all, the two still treat the uncle's family as serious relatives. Among them, the palace father even regarded his eldest brother as the eldest brother who played with him and took care of himself when he was a child.

Gong Jian can also understand his father's feelings. But at the same time, he is also deeply aware that he can't be like the palace father, who believes that one thing will not change for the rest of his life. You must know that if he and Gong Yu reach the situation of his father and uncle in the future, then he will definitely not forgive his brother so easily.

As a brother, he may reach out and pull him when the other party is in trouble and needs help urgently. However, since the other party made such a ruthless decision, it almost caused an irreparable result. So no matter who it is, even if it is a brother, you must take your own responsibility.

Gong Jian has never been able to do it, and he has abandoned his past suspicions like his father. Now that the disaster had passed, he hospitably entertained his brother as if nothing had happened.

In this sense, Gong Jian admits that his mind is not as broad as his father. But he doesn't think this is his own shortcomings, on the contrary, he feels that like himself, even if it is a relative, he must clearly and calmly understand everyone's character.

So as to adjust the way you treat each other. There's nothing wrong with that. At least he took care of his family's emotions.