Chapter 1020: Don't Judge Me
Li Biting said "brother-in-law", and his heart was full of joy when he learned the Tao, and he asked, "When did you come over?"
Li Biting said: "I heard that you were coming, I came early in the morning, and my parents were also upstairs. ”
Bian Xuedao smiled and said, "This is going to be judged in three sessions?"
Li Biting said: "I don't all want to meet you as a legend. ”
The door is not the place to speak, and Bian Xuedao said, "Go up and talk about it." ”
According to the security plan, the bodyguard team left behind in Tianhe has generally figured out the residents of the Xu family in this unit. Before the convoy entered the community, the entire community and the entire unit were filtered by the bodyguards several times, basically eliminating potential hidden dangers.
Xu's house is an old community, the floors are not high, the highest is six floors, there is no elevator, and the stairs are also very narrow.
Bian Xuedao and Li Biting went upstairs, only Tang Genshui, Li Bing and Mu Long followed.
Hearing the sound of footsteps going upstairs, Xu Shangxiu opened the door and stood by the stairs to look down.
One went upstairs, the other looked down, and when they looked at each other, Bian Xuedao showed a cheerful smile on his face, and then winked mischievously at Xu Shangxiu.
Seeing Bian Xuedao's small movements, Xu Shangxiu, who was originally a little nervous, relaxed, and she whispered, "You're here." ”
Bian Xuedao said, "I'm here." ”
At the door of Xu's house.
It was the first time I saw Xu Wan, who was learning the Tao of the real person, and her eyes were full of little stars.
Before, she heard her daughter say how tall and handsome she was to learn the Tao, but this time she saw it with her own eyes and realized that what her daughter said was not an exaggeration at all. In Xu Wan's opinion, the biggest feature of Bian Xuedao is that he has a strong aura, and at a glance he can feel that he is not an ordinary man, although he is laughing, he still exudes a strong sense of oppression.
Xu Kangyuan and Li Xiuzhen saw Bian Xuedao for the first time, and the two of them couldn't help but look at the prospective son-in-law in front of them while greeting them into the house.
In his previous life, he was a son-in-law for the two for four years, and Bian Xuedao had a natural sense of closeness to Xu Kangyuan and Li Xiuzhen, and said "Hello uncle" and "Hello aunt", he took the box containing gold bars from Mu Long's hand and walked into the house naturally.
Bian Xuedao entered the house, but Tang Genshui and the three couldn't enter.
It was not good to block the doorway, so the three of them went up half a floor and smoked in front of the stairwell window.
door.
Bian Xuedao looked around and said, "The house layout is good." ”
Xu Kangyuan said while pouring tea: "The old-fashioned layout, and now the newly built houses are not designed like this." ”
took the teacup handed over by Xu Kangyuan, said "thank you", and said: "The old-fashioned is not necessarily bad, and the new-style is not necessarily good, the main thing is to see if you like it or not." ”
As they were talking, Xu Shangxiu and Li Biting walked into the living room with two large plates of fruits and put them on the coffee table. ”
Belch......
Brother-in-law?!
The same title, called out on different occasions, is completely two feelings.
Today, Bian Xuedao came to the door for the first time, and the protagonist didn't know what he meant, but let Li Biting say "brother-in-law" first, which seemed to be a bit reversed.
As soon as the words came out, she realized that she seemed to have said the wrong thing again, Li Biting stuck out her tongue, said "I'll go to the kitchen to help", and ran away.
Two minutes later, Li Xiuzhen and Xu Wan brought the third plate of fruit and beckoned everyone to taste it.
When Li Xiuzhen also sat down, she took a sip of tea, put down the teacup, and said straight to the point: "Uncle and aunt, I will officially introduce myself now...... My name is Bian Xuedao, I am the same age as Shang Xiu, from Xuan Son City, Bac Giang Province, I am the only child in the family, and my parents are still alive. Shang Xiu and I met in 2002 and we are university alumni. I have been pursuing Sang-so since 2002, until a few months ago, Sang-so finally agreed to be my girlfriend......"
Speaking of this, Bian Xuedao looked at Xu Shangxiu.
Xu's father, Xu's mother, Li Zhengyang and Xu Wan in the living room also looked at Xu Shangxiu.
Seeing that everyone was looking at him, Xu Shangxiu looked at Bian Xuedao for a few seconds and nodded slowly.
Xu Kangyuan and Li Xiuzhen saw it, and the big stone in their hearts fell to the ground at the same time.
Bian Xuedao's words convey two meanings:
One of them is your daughter who I took the initiative to chase.
Second, I chased her for 6 years before I got it.
The opening remarks were not long, which gave Xu Shangxiu enough face, and also gave Xu's father and mother a lot more confidence.
If you don't really like it, how can you chase it for 6 years?
How can it be bad for her daughter to like her daughter like this?
Bian Xuedao continued: "I came today, in fact, I want to meet my uncle and aunt, and then I hope that the two of you will agree to my relationship with Shangxiu. I will open up our relationship to the outside world at a time that both Sang-so and I feel are appropriate. Please believe that my love for Sang-so is sincere, and I will do my best to care for Sang-so, protect Sang-so, and support Sang-so, so that she will be happy and happy all her life. ”
After Bian Xuedao finished speaking, Li Xiuzhen held Xu Shangxiu's hand and was speechless for a long time.
After thinking for a while, Xu Kangyuan opened his mouth and said, "We as parents will not interfere too much in the affairs of your young people. But since you said the word 'love' just now, your aunt and I have only one request...... Don't let love turn into hurt in the end. ”
Knowing that the critical moment for his statement had arrived, Bian Xuedao said solemnly: "Please rest assured, I have spent 6 years pursuing Shangxiu, and I will spend the rest of my life to take care of her and not let her suffer a trace of grievance." ”
After listening to Bian Xuedao, Xu Kangyuan put down the teacup and said: "As an elder, I want to say that I am personally very satisfied with Xiaobian, and I believe that Shang Xiu's mother also has the same idea." We support the two of you in your relationship, and hope that you can get along in harmony, enter the marriage hall hand in hand as soon as possible, be more considerate of each other, be more accommodating, more tolerant, respect and love each other, and grow old together. ”
Final word!
Two men, one making a request, the other giving a promise, a few words, and the matter was settled.
At this point, even if he has not officially proposed marriage, even if the parents of the two sides have not met, but with the status of Bian Xuedao, his attitude is the biggest threshold.
Today, since Bian Xuedao personally came to the door to say this, it is equivalent to having crossed the most difficult threshold, and the rest is a matter of course.
In other words, from today onwards, Xu Shangxiu can date Bian Xuedao generously and don't have to lie to his family. As for Bian Xuedao, he can call the Xu family justifiably, or go to the door of the Xu family.
Seeing that the business was finished and the conversation was straight to the point, Xu Wan interjected at the right time and said, "Okay, Xiaobian comes to the house for the first time, don't be so serious." Xiaobian, I'm Xiuxiu's aunt, and I received a gift from Xiuxiu from Hong Kong, and I haven't thanked you in person. ”
Bian Xuedao said with a smile: "You are an elder, and you should bring gifts." ”
Li Zhengyang glanced at his watch and said, "It's time for lunch, go out to eat or eat at home?"
As soon as the question came out, Xu Kangyuan and Li Xiuzhen looked at Xu Shangxiu, and Xu Shangxiu looked at Bian Xuedao.
Bian Xuedao said: "Eat something simple at home, I always eat out, and my stomach is uncomfortable when it touches the oil of the restaurant." ”
Xu Wan and Li Xiuzhen got up at the same time when they heard this, and Xu Wan asked, "What kind of food does Xiao Bian like to eat?"
Bian Xuedao said: "I don't have taboos, I eat everything, just make some at will." ”
The women all went to the kitchen.
Fortunately, knowing that Bian Xuedao was coming, the Xu family prepared various vegetables in advance.
Preparing vegetables is one of the two preparations, mainly because Li Zhengyang felt that Tianhe's restaurant was difficult to enter the eyes of Bian Xuedao, and it was best to eat a family banquet for the first time, so he drove out to buy a lot of vegetables in the morning, and as a result, Li Zhengyang guessed correctly.
Although Li Zhengyang is a contractor in a small city, he is relatively open-minded, makes friends, likes to travel, domestic places of interest, Southeast Asia, Europe, North America, he has basically traveled all over, in terms of vision, and Xu Kangyuan, who has never been out of Bac Giang Province in his life, is completely different.
The so-called "reading 10,000 books is better than traveling 10,000 miles", there are many places to go, there are many customs and people to see, and people's way of thinking will naturally change, so when chatting, Li Zhengyang can barely keep up with the thinking of learning the Tao, and Xu Kangyuan can only laugh with him.
Seeing that his future father-in-law couldn't interject, Bian Xuedao intended to guide the topic to Xu Kangyuan, but there was no way, the two were very different from their living environment to their life experiences, and if they talked about a topic for more than three sentences, they would find that everyone's thinking was not on the same channel.
For example, starting with Xu Shangxiu, after a while, we talked about Xu Shangxiu's graduate study of "Chinese as a Foreign Language", and then naturally talked about where she would go for employment after graduation, and then talked about who learned Chinese in foreign countries, and then talked about the country that Li Biting has always wanted to study in - the United States.
Speaking of the United States, Li Zhengyang felt a lot of emotion.
He said that a friend's brother sold his family property in China and immigrated to the United States, but found that the preliminary investigation was still too hasty, and when he passed, he found that life was not like that at all. When I was in China, I didn't walk a few steps downstairs to restaurants and supermarkets, and it was convenient to eat and buy anything, and when I arrived in the United States, I bought a single-family-house, which looked very cool, but the problem was that I couldn't go to the village and didn't have a store, and it took at least 10 minutes to drive to buy a tube of toothpaste for a meal.
Xu Kangyuan has never been to the United States, but he has heard a lot in the news, and Zhengse said: "Don't let Biting go to the United States, read the news that the United States is not peaceful, today's tornado, tomorrow's heavy snowstorm, shootings occur at every turn...... You say that everyone there has a gun, and if you go out in the morning and go home at night, you will be fine at home, why do you suffer from that crime?"
Glancing at Bian Xuedao, Li Zhengyang did not refute his eldest brother directly, but said: "As the old saying goes, hearing is false, seeing is believing, and when Xiuxiu graduates, your family of three will go out for a walk and see the world with your own eyes, maybe there will be some new ideas." ”
Xu Kangyuan turned his head and asked, "What do you think?"
Bian Xuedao poured a cup of tea for each of the three and said: "There has never been a perfect society in ancient and modern China and abroad, so there is no such thing as a perfect country. The so-called good and bad are nothing more than synonymous with fit and unsuitable. Some people like to be screws, and it doesn't feel boring to fix them in one place for the rest of their lives. Some people are dandelions, which take root wherever they drift with the wind. I've been to the United States a few times, and each time I didn't stay long, and as far as I can see, the laws and rules in the United States are quite perfect, and foreigners can break the law if they are not careful. On the other hand, the scale of this country is relatively relaxed in some aspects, and the multicultural social atmosphere, everyone can make more flexible adjustments according to their own ideas, that is, they can do some choices and strange things that seem incredible to outsiders, as long as they are not illegal, and they feel happy, they can rightly say Dont-judge-me.
Hearing this, Li Zhengyang asked Xu Kangyuan a question: "What does this sentence mean in English?"
Bian Xuedao explained with a smile: "There can be many interpretations, the literal translation is 'don't judge me', the more complex translation is 'don't use your worldview and outlook on life to define what kind of person I am', and the refreshing translation is 'about your birds?'"
What's the matter with you?
A foul word that was not very elegant came out, Xu Kangyuan and Li Zhengyang were stunned at the same time, and then they were in a good mood.
Both of them have lived for half their lives, and they still understand one truth: when a "big man" speaks without taboos in front of you, it only shows one thing, he doesn't treat you as an outsider.
While chatting, Bian Xuedao sent a text message to Tang Genshui: You go to dinner.
After seeing the text message, Tang Genshui, Li Bing, and Mu Long divided everyone into three groups, each leading a group, and took turns to be on guard, eat, and rest in the car.
The atmosphere at lunch was very good, eating and drinking casually, and most of the time was occupied by Li Biting to talk about the interesting things that happened in her school.
After eating, after resting for half an hour, Bian Xuedao asked Xu Shangxiu in a low voice: "The first time you came, take me to visit Tianhe?"
Xu Shangxiu glanced at his parents and nodded slightly.
With Xu Shangxiu's consent, Bian Xuedao turned his head and said to Xu's father and Xu's mother: "Uncle and aunt, Songjiang still has a job, I have to return in the afternoon, the first time I come to Tianhe, I want Shangxiu to take me around, at most two hours, I will send people back." ”
The difference is evident at once.
A few days ago, Sister Cai wishfully wanted her son Wang Zhicheng to pull Xu Shangxiu out, but the entire Xu family objected.
Today, Bian Xuedao proposed to let Xu Shangxiu accompany him out for a walk, and the Xu family all agreed.
Of course, Bian Xuedao and Wang Zhicheng are completely different things.
Bian Xuedao and Xu Shangxiu have known each other for many years, but Xu Shangxiu has no impression of Wang Zhicheng at all.
On the other hand, Bian Xuedao asked Xu Shangxiu's opinion before proposing an idea, which reflected his respect for the woman. Sister Cai's mother and son were more rude, almost "giving orders".
Standing at the door, watching her cousin and Bian Xuedao go out, Li Biting wanted to follow, but reason told her that she must not be a light bulb at this time.
Carrydry, or Li Bing drove, and Muron sat in the co-pilot.
Back.
Bian Xuedao held Xu Shangxiu's hand and said, "Did I come too suddenly?"
Xu Shangxiu looked at the street outside the car window and said, "My dad said that you didn't even give him time to buy clothes." ”
Bian Xuedao listened to the music: "Today is very handsome, how handsome does he want to be? If he is more handsome than me, what can I do?"
Xu Shangxiu pinched Bian Xuedao's fingers: "Poor mouth." ”
Bian Xuedao took Xu Shangxiu's hand and pulled Xu Shangxiu to his side until the two were side by side, and he said, "It will be wonderful to be my wife, you have to be mentally prepared." ”
Looking at Bian Xuedao's eyes, Xu Shangxiu asked, "What kind of psychological preparation do you need?"
Bian Xuedao said: "Be unaffected by anyone or anything, be yourself." ”
Xu Shangxiu asked, "Anyone, including you?"
Bian Xuedao nodded and said, "Yes." ”
Xu Shangxiu asked, "Why?"
Bian Xuedao said: "I don't want to be your shackles one day in the future. ”
Xu Shangxiu hooked the corners of her mouth and said, "You are the dream lover of thousands of girls, how can it be a shackle?"
Bian Xuedao said with a smile: "Fame and fortune itself are shackles. What kind of dream lover, I'm just a rich man, if I don't have this net worth, how many people will take me as my dream lover? ”
Xu Shangxiu asked, "Do you really think so?"
Bian Xuedao said: "The end of the money is nothing, and I have only recently figured it out. ”
After being silent for a while, Xu Shangxiu said: "I saw a sentence on the Internet...... May there always be a light in your eyes and live the way you want. ”
Bian Xuedao put his arm around Xu Shangxiu's shoulders and said meaningfully: "May we all have light in our eyes, and not only live as others want." ”
The atmosphere in the car was amazing.
Bian Xuedao even felt that he could take the opportunity to kiss Xu Shangxiu.
As a result, when he was brewing emotions, Xu Shangxiu suddenly asked, "Do you have a 6-digit QQ number?"
Bian Xuedao said without thinking about it: "Yes." ”
Xu Shangxiu asked, "How many?"
Bian Xuedao said: "One, do you want it?"
Xu Shangxiu didn't answer, and then asked, "What's the number?"
Just about to say the number, a thought suddenly flashed in Bian Xuedao's mind: I seem to have used the 6-digit QQ number to talk to Shang Xiu, if I remember correctly, I was a freshman at the time, and now I will report the number, Shang Xiu will check it, how to explain that I knew her name at that time?
Mess around with a 6-digit number?
Say you haven't used it for too long, and you can't remember the number clearly?
What to do?
At the same time......
In front of several elders, Li Biting used the password that Bian Xuedao told her before leaving to open the box that Bian Xuedao left in the Xu family.
"Click! Click!"
Three rings in a row, and the box opened.
Then, the few people gathered around the coffee table were all stunned.
Golden bars!
A box of golden bars!
Ren Xu Kangyuan and Li Xiuzhen wanted to break their heads, but they couldn't imagine that this prospective son-in-law would actually give such a cheesy meeting gift.
Send gold bars......
Simply so!
After counting the number of gold bars, Li Zhengyang looked at Xu Kangyuan and said, "20, a total of 10,000 grams, 20 catties." I just picked it up, and I was thinking about what was so heavy inside, I really didn't expect that he actually sent gold bars, it was really ...... The vulgarity is unexpected. ”
Li Biting grew up so big and saw so much physical gold for the first time, she asked with a little suspicion, "This is for my sister?"
Looking at a box of gold bars, Xu Wan sighed and said, "Wan Jin begs you Xu family daughter, top 10 daughters, sister-in-law, it's a lie to say that I don't envy you." ”
Li Zhengyang looked at his wife and quipped: "When you go to Hong Kong, you can see the 'Shang Dao Garden' named after your niece." ”
At this moment, Sister Cai's angry and sharp shout suddenly came from downstairs outside the window: "You let go...... Xu Kangyuan! Li Xiuzhen! You come out for me...... Why did you snatch my camera...... Oops, the people from the Xu family beat people!!"
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(Thank you for your blessings, the results of my mother's examination are out, it is benign, and it can be surgically removed.) In addition, I know that everyone is looking forward to the plot of returning home, but all things considered, it is better to be engaged or married. )
…… What's the number?"
Just about to say the number, a thought suddenly flashed in Bian Xuedao's mind: I seem to have used the 6-digit QQ number to talk to Shang Xiu, if I remember correctly, I was a freshman at the time, and now I will report the number, Shang Xiu will check it, how to explain that I knew her name at that time?
Mess around with a 6-digit number?
Say you haven't used it for too long, and you can't remember the number clearly?
What to do?
At the same time......
In front of several elders, Li Biting used the password that Bian Xuedao told her before leaving to open the box that Bian Xuedao left in the Xu family.
"Click! Click!"
Three rings in a row, and the box opened.
Then, the few people gathered around the coffee table were all stunned.
Golden bars!
A box of golden bars!
Ren Xu Kangyuan and Li Xiuzhen wanted to break their heads, but they couldn't imagine that this prospective son-in-law would actually give such a cheesy meeting gift.
Send gold bars......
Simply so!
After counting the number of gold bars, Li Zhengyang looked at Xu Kangyuan and said, "20, a total of 10,000 grams, 20 catties." I just picked it up, and I was thinking about what was so heavy inside, I really didn't expect that he actually sent gold bars, it was really ...... The vulgarity is unexpected. ”
Li Biting grew up so big and saw so much physical gold for the first time, she asked with a little suspicion, "This is for my sister?"
Looking at a box of gold bars, Xu Wan sighed and said, "Wan Jin begs you Xu family daughter, top 10 daughters, sister-in-law, it's a lie to say that I don't envy you." ”
Li Zhengyang looked at his wife and quipped: "When you go to Hong Kong, you can see the 'Shang Dao Garden' named after your niece." ”
At this moment, Sister Cai's angry and sharp shout suddenly came from downstairs outside the window: "You let go...... Xu Kangyuan! Li Xiuzhen! You come out for me...... Why did you snatch my camera...... Oops, the people from the Xu family beat people!!"
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(Thank you for your blessings, the results of my mother's examination are out, it is benign, and it can be surgically removed.) In addition, I know that everyone is looking forward to the plot of returning home, but all things considered, it is better to be engaged or married. )
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