The moonlight shines quietly on the green grass, quiet flowers, and dense branches like a flowing moon.

The square building in the north wing of the palace, with a pillar gate in the Gothic architectural style, a lonely beauty stands against the door.

The white floor-length dress made this young woman with long blonde hair look particularly tall and curvy.

Seeing Elizabeth II and Yang Weiping suddenly appear from the corner of the green belt planted with violets, from far to near, the figure of the beauty in the white dress moved slightly, but then returned to its original state, as if she wanted to leave but for some reason she didn't move.

"Hasn't Charles come back yet?" asked Elizabeth in a deep voice with an old face.

The beauty in the white dress tugged at the hem of her skirt with both hands, bent her knees slightly and performed a traditional European court etiquette, and replied softly in a voice as crisp as a yellow bird: "Diana asked His Majesty Xià to say goodbye, Charles didn't come back, I don't know where he went." ”

"Good evening, Diana. Yang Weiping stepped forward, gently held Diana's slender right hand, which was as white as jade, kissed her lightly on the back of her hand, and smiled gently: "Are the children asleep?"

"Yes, Your Excellency, William and Harry Jr. are asleep. Diana smiled, "Are you here to find Charles? ”

Looking at the faint melancholy on Diana's peerless face, which seemed to be finely carved, Yang Weiping secretly sighed in his heart, but his usual friendly smile was maintained on his face, "I'm here to see Little Harry, as Little Harry's godfather, I think I should make a special trip to see my godson." Diana, is it convenient now?"

"It's no inconvenience that you're here to visit Harry Jr., it's his pleasure. Diana said as she turned to go inside. "I'll go and wake him up. ”

"Don't wake him up, Diana, I haven't seen what little Harry looks like when he's asleep!" Yang Weiping waved his hand and smiled: "I heard Charles say that you take good care of both children and are a very good mother." ”

"Did he really think of me that way?" a look of disbelief flashed in Diana's eyes, which were as clear as two sapphires.

"Of course!" Yang Weiping nodded without hesitation and said, "He praised you for being a great mother." From birth to the present, you have carefully cared for and educated the two children, and he has silently watched them. Keep it in mind. ”

"He doesn't love me anymore. I can only transfer all my love for him to my children......" Diana lamented faintly.

"Ahem!" Elizabeth coughed lightly, as if to remind her daughter-in-law not to say such inappropriate things in front of distinguished guests.

"Your Majesty, if you think my character is okay, I want to talk to the princess alone, you shouldn't mind, right?" Yang Weiping turned around slowly, looked at Elizabeth II, and smiled indifferently.

Elizabeth II was stunned at first, but soon nodded and smiled: "You and Charles are good friends, how could I mind!"

That being said, But Elizabeth II was secretly slandering in her heart. The heart said that you Yang Dayuan Capital said to this part, if I say I mind, wouldn't I suspect that there is something wrong with your character!

After speaking, Elizabeth II raised her feet and walked to the palace gate, and said as she went: "You talk slowly here, and I will go and see my two precious grandchildren." ”

After seeing the back of Her Majesty disappear inside the palace gate, Yang Weiping smiled and said to Diana, "Let's go over there." Diana, I know you're feeling bad. Perhaps, I can help you. ”

"Thank you, Your Excellency. Diana nodded bitterly and smiled: "Whether you can help me or not, but at least you have this heart, Charles and I should be grateful to you." ”

"I'm friends with both of you, and I see that you're in a relationship trouble right now. As a friend, I feel that I should fulfill my obligations and responsibilities as a friend. Yang Weiping said very sincerely: "We should all cherish the people around us, and don't wait until we lose to regret it." This is a little bit of life philosophy that I have realized recently. I hope I can share it with you. ”

"Cherish the people around you......" Diana muttered, "I cherish him, but he doesn't seem to know how to cherish me......"

"Diana, actually. Complaining and complaining are the two killers that affect the relationship between husband and wife the most!" Yang Weiping sighed and said: "What husband and wife need is honesty and tolerance from both sides, rather than complaining and blaming each other. ”

"Yang, can you tell me, what is love?" Diana suddenly stopped, looked at Yang Weiping with hopeful eyes, and asked very seriously: "It is said that you are the wisest person in this world and the most favored person by God, in your thinking, what is love?"

"What is love?" Yang Weiping couldn't help but be stunned by Diana's question, lowered his head and pondered for a while, then raised his head to meet Diana's earnest gaze, and said slowly: "What is love, it is an ancient but eternal topic. In my opinion, although human love is complex and changeable, its essence is inseparable from three factors: motivation, emotion, and cognition. ”

Diana looked very serious, listening intently and nodding slightly.

"First, let's analyze the motivational factors. Yang Weiping fully mobilized the world's best scientist factor in his mind and talked eloquently: "The motivation behind the act of love is extremely complex for human beings. Among them, sexual motivation or drive, as well as corresponding triggers, such as physical appearance between people of the opposite sex, are one of the important reasons.

Secondly, in addition to love and desire, there must also be other ingredients, such as the so-called sweet, sour, bitter, spicy, salty, and other love tastes; If motivation and emotion are seen as electric currents and sparks, respectively, cognition is a switch or regulator. It can be moderately adjusted according to the heat of the fire of love. ”

After a slight pause, Yang Weiping rearranged his thoughts and continued: "I think that although the love between the sexes varies from person to person, in fact, all love is deduced by the mixture of these three factors in some way. The relationship between the sexes is passionate or passionate, the relationship between the sexes is intimate, and the relationship between the sexes is committed and covenanting.

Therefore. In my opinion, the so-called perfect love should have all three, and it should be one. Based on this assertion, we can divide love into two categories: healthy and unhealthy. The healthy love table is: one, not overly infatuated, not aggressive. They do not show their possessiveness in love and can fully respect each other; second, they make themselves feel more happy to give love to each other than they ask for love from each other, and they take the happiness of the other party as their own satisfaction; and third, it is the combination of independent personalities of each other.

Unhealthy love has the following characteristics: first, overestimating the other party and idealizing the other person's personality; second, being too infatuated and blindly asking the other party to show love. This kind of love is often morbidly exaggerated; third, it lacks thoughtfulness and compassion, and only expresses its own strong possessiveness; fourth, it focuses on the pursuit of appearance. Diana, do you think your view of love is healthy or unhealthy?"

"It doesn't seem healthy. Diana said weakly with her head bowed with shame on her face.

"The so-called authorities are obsessed. Lookers-on see most of the game. I think both you and Charles have a problem with their views on love. Yang Weiping said very strictly: "Diana, you also know. I now have three wives, and fortunately, all three of them have a healthy outlook on love. Under their influence, my outlook on love has also become healthy and uplifting. So, the relationship between me and them is very affectionate.

For me, I think. Women don't have to think of family and children as their whole life. Husbands and wives don't necessarily have to be tired of being together all the time, and sometimes, keeping a little distance between the two parties is more conducive to promoting the deepening of each other's feelings. No matter how exquisite a vase is, it will take a long time to look at. It will always cause aesthetic fatigue. ”

"What can a woman do if she doesn't think of her family and children as her all?" Diana muttered to herself with blank eyes.

A gust of night wind blew, making Diana subconsciously clasp her arms tightly with her hands.

Seeing this, Yang Weiping immediately took off his medium-length windbreaker and jacket, and walked to Diana to drape it over her shoulders.

At this time, Yang Weiping suddenly saw a figure walking towards this side.

From the other party's tall and thin figure, Yang Weiping recognized it as Prince Charles at a glance.

At this time, Diana was in a painful struggle and did not feel that someone was coming behind her.

Yang Weiping made a slight gesture at Charles without a trace, signaling the other party not to come over for the time being.

Charles nodded knowingly, and stood behind an old oak tree less than three meters away from where Yang Weiping and Diana were.

"Behind any successful man, there must be at least one successful woman. Yang Weiping smiled and patted Diana lightly on the shoulder to show encouragement, "Diana, you are a very, very beautiful and young woman, in this regard, Camilla, who is already in her forties, is undoubtedly old compared to you, and has no advantage at all.

Sometimes, you have to seriously reflect on why your husband would rather be with such a plain old woman than always by your side? Could it be that the woman is more attractive to a man than you? No, Diana, it is because of your willfulness, your suspicion, your jealousy, your complaining, your blame, your quarrel, that your husband is pushed step by step into the arms of that woman.

People are not isolated beings in society, and the focus of interpersonal relationships that have an important impact on mental health is also different at different stages of life. The parent-child relationship, teacher-student relationship, and group relationship, which once had an important impact, sometimes gradually give way to a love relationship between the sexes. Romantic relationships are in fact more than just a relationship for you now, but a basis for self-identification and a sense of self-worth.

Between husband and wife, there will inevitably be some small contradictions. When this happens, we should first ask ourselves if it's our own problem, rather than blaming it on the other person. A little more forgiving, a little less complaining, a little more understanding, a little less arguing, a little more caring, a little less blame, I promise, Charles will definitely return to your arms and be a good husband and father. ”

Diana's originally misty gaze gradually became clearer and clearer. She took a deep breath and let out a long breath.

"Yang, thank you for your enlightenment, I understand!" Diana looked at Yang Weiping with gratitude and said solemnly.

"Yang, you are my lifelong friend!" Charles said emotionally as he turned from behind the oak tree and walked towards Yang Weiping.

"Charles, when are you here?" Diana was taken aback when she saw Charles.

"Just arrived. Charles walked over and gently took Diana in his arms, "I heard what Yang just said, Diana, I'm sorry, I was too selfish." ”

"Nope. Diana raised her hand and gently covered her husband's mouth, "It's me who is too willful and ignorant, Charles, can you forgive me?"

"Baby, it's all my fault, I'm older than you, but I've never thought about your inner world from your point of view, I'm too selfish, and my view of love is too unhealthy. Charles held his wife's hand tightly, his eyes and tone full of sincerity.

"Order, my view of love is not healthy......"

"Hehe, I said, don't show your affection in front of me, an outsider. Yang Weiping interrupted Charles and Diana's love with a happy smile, "Since you can all realize that there is something wrong with your view of love, then my hard work tonight will not be in vain." A harmonious society must start with a harmonious family, okay, don't bother your virtuous couple, I'm leaving, I have to accompany my wife. ”

"Young, Charles and I are so lucky to have friends like you. Diana took off the windbreaker she was wearing on her shoulders, walked over and handed it back to Yang Weiping, and said sincerely: "You are our family's eternal friend, forever!"

Yang Weiping took the clothes and put them on his arm, and said with an indifferent smile: "Friends, like husband and wife, need to be managed with heart. ”

After speaking, Yang Weiping waved his hand at Charles and Diana, turned around and walked away.

"He will definitely become a great man of a generation!" Charles took off his blazer and put it on his wife, looked at Yang Weiping's tall back as he faded away, and said deeply.

"Yes, Yang doesn't seem to be much older than me, why does he know so much about life? Is this a unique talent of the Chinese?" Diana muttered.

It can only be said that God is really too kind to Yang. Charles said with a look of envy in his eyes. (To be continued......)