When He Shengnan said this, he cried with a whimper.

Although in the case of lack of materials, adults can't eat enough so that the milk is insufficient, many babies are born to drink milk powder, two or three months to start adding rice soup, eggs, Panpan more than four months to add rice soup is not an exaggeration, but their family has prepared enough milk powder for Panpan, should be added rice soup, not rice soup instead of rice soup instead of nutritious milk powder.

Hearing the adult's cry, Panpan lay on the bed and cried with Wow.

Huh? Seven catties climbed and crawled, couldn't climb, made a lot of effort, turned over, didn't get to Panpan, continued to flip one, oops, to the front, he stretched out his fat two little paws with five small nests to grab Panpan's arm.

The child was neither light nor heavy, a paw almost slapped Pan Pan's face, and was grabbed by Qi Shufang with one hand, "Stinky boy, do you want to bully your sister? or do you want to comfort your sister? Hmm? Xiao Panpan, come, sit up and beat my brother, see if he will bully you in the future!"

Panpan laughed with a "giggle", and the bright tears were still hanging in the corners of her eyes.

I finally stopped crying.

Qi Shufang breathed a sigh of relief, turned over the two little dolls, and let them lie side by side, male left and female right, leaving a little distance in the middle, Pan Pan was more than a month younger, blinking his big eyes, looking ignorant, and Qi Jin looked at Pan Pan sideways, reached out to grab Pan Pan's arm, couldn't catch it, and turned over to the right all of a sudden, head to head, and his paws stretched out.

"Stinky boy! Growing up to be a naughty man. Qi Shufang picked up her son, worried that he would scratch Panpan's tender little face. Don't look at the child's small, but the nails are very sharp, wear thick in winter, and it is better if the arms can't reach out to the face, and now the clothes are much lighter when the spring and summer are handed over, and they leave nail marks on their faces at every turn.

Seeing this, He Shengnan cried while holding his daughter in his arms.

"Does Li Wei know about this? What did he say?"

He Shengnan hiccuped and said intermittently: "I went back to my parents with Panpan, and he came to me at night, I asked my parents to stop him, I didn't see him, I don't know if he is an insider." ”

Li Wei's work time is the same as her, and when she goes back to Li's house, she also goes in and out together, and she doesn't know anything about Li Wei.

Although He Shengnan resented what his mother-in-law did, he did not directly anger Li Wei on the matter of rice soup instead of milk powder, of course, this was without Li Wei's knowledge, if Li Wei knew......

Qi Shufang was silent for a long time, "The unit you work in should have a nursery, right?"

What happened on the weekend, today is Wednesday.

He Shengnan didn't go to work, did he ask for leave?

"Yes. He Shengnan wiped his tears, "Because there are not many staff, the nursery school run by the bank and several adjacent government agencies is not far from everyone's place of work, and it is only a few minutes away on foot." In the future, you put seven catties in the nursery school of Comrade He's work unit, and you can be with Panpan. ”

"Then you should take care of the children by yourself, no matter how close others are, they can't kiss their mothers. I heard that the nursery school has a lot of experience in taking care of children and takes good care of them. ”

"Definitely, in the future, I will put Panpan in the nursery when I go to work and often visit her. Now except for my parents, I don't feel at ease with anyone, including Li Wei, I have to take care of Panpan by myself. She has been taught a lesson, that kind of scene is simply digging into her heart, she will definitely not wronged her daughter again, she will not care about her because Panpan is a girl.

"I think it's imperative that you get Li Wei to change his patriarchal mind. Qi Shufang didn't ask He Shengnan if he would get a divorce, divorce is not a simple sentence, there are too many things involved.

In this era, divorce is a scandal, and it is not easy to remarry.

Like Cheng Guangyao and Shen Lingling, they are simply joking about their lives and futures, but fortunately, Liu Ye doesn't want to divorce, and Shen Erdan is the captain, otherwise the two of them would have been paraded in the streets.

Therefore, Qi Shufang will not build a divorce for the time being, Li Wei will not be able to change it, and the relationship between the husband and wife will break down, so it is another matter.

"Change?" He Shengnan was stunned, she was angry when she mentioned Li Wei, and she didn't want to change him at all.

Qi Shufang held down the two little paws that were moving seven catties, "Yes! Change Li Wei, so that Li Wei is no longer patriarchal! You must know that many ideas are imperceptibly generated, he was born in a patriarchal family, under the influence of his elders, the idea of patriarchy has long been deeply rooted in the bone marrow, because it is not realistic for his daughter to change his deep-rooted ideas all at once. So, that's where you put in the effort. Since they are husband and wife, they should face any turmoil in life together. ”

Pursing her lips and pausing, Qi Shufang continued: "I'm not you, I haven't experienced the situation you just said, even if I put myself in your shoes, I'm afraid I won't feel your anger and grievances, so you just don't have a backache when I stand and talk." It all depends on your meaning, and it depends on your wishes. ”

"You go on, and I'll listen. ”

"Although there is a long way to go, if we don't work hard, how can we be sure that Li Wei will not change? After working hard, no matter what the result is, I will not regret it, and maybe Li Wei will change. As for your mother-in-law...... To be honest, it is difficult to change the minds of the older generation, after all, they are separated from Panpan by a generation, even if they are not partial, and their love is limited, you don't expect your mother-in-law to treat her grandchildren equally. ”

"I know that, and I don't expect her to change her mind. But, no matter how eccentric you are, you can't snatch Panpan's rations, right? How old is Panpan? I don't like that Li Chengyuan, Chengyuan, Yuan, and Shouye, don't you just say that he is the first grandson of this generation? It's the same as your family's seven catties. Xiaoyun of the second aunt's family is very well-behaved, I don't know if it's because she is two years older, or because the second aunt teaches her well. ”

"It should be taught well, more than a month ago, Director Li also asked me to persuade you to open up, saying that if you are dissatisfied with the current situation, you should work hard to change, and it can be seen that she does not approve of the eldest sister-in-law's patriarchal behavior. "At that time, Director Li didn't expect that there would be today, right? If she knew that Mother Li gave Panpan's milk powder to her eldest grandson, she would definitely not let herself persuade He Shengnan to want to open it.

"Second aunt, the second aunt is very good, she and the second uncle are both good people, and they have the same attitude towards Xiaoxia and Xiaoyun, and they don't let Xiaoxia let her brother everywhere when she is old. During the Chinese New Year, Li Wei was eccentric, and the second aunt said a few words to her. ”

Even Xue Feng said that Li Ying was a smart person, and during the time she was in contact with her, Qi Shufang also felt that she was very smart.

After a sigh, Qi Shufang said: "I still remember Li Wei's grandmother said that it blooms first and then bears fruit, your mother-in-law treats Panpan like this, it's really ...... It can be said that there are fewer brains...... Don't think I'm not good, that's a fact. Compared with her great-granddaughter, Li Wei's grandmother should also value her great-grandson more, and she can't stand people from talking! Whether it is superficial or private, is it eccentric?"

"No, on the surface, Li Chengyuan has it, Pan Pan has it, and it seems to be the same in private, my grandfather and grandmother have always been happy to see Pan Pan, every time they say that Pan Pan looks festive, saying that her face is round and her eyes are round, and anyone who sees it can't help but laugh from the bottom of their hearts. ”

"Therefore, Li Wei's grandparents are smart people, you must know how to use your advantages for the benefit of yourself and your daughter. ”

He Shengnan thought about it carefully and couldn't help but nodded: "You're right, what if I give birth to a daughter? Li Wei is still working in my father's office! As soon as you say this, I remember, except for Li Wei's mother, no one else shows any signs of eccentricity." Let me think about it, I saw her giving milk powder to Li Chengyuan to drink and feeding Panpan rice soup, and there were no other adults in the house...... I see where my strengths are! Thank you, Shufang!"

Although his parents are both capable and status-oriented people, and his uncle is also very powerful, He Shengnan has never bullied others, and he will really forget his father's power for a while.

On the other hand, the Li family, except for Li Ying and Liu Lao, what do the others have? The ingredients are not good, it all depends on the power of Liu Lao behind Li Ying, and he donated his family property to support national construction, and sent Li Wei to be a soldier, so he is not like other landlords.

Li Wei now works in the office of the municipal party committee, and compared to his father, he is just a clerk.

He Shengnan was in good spirits, hugged her daughter and said goodbye, she had to go home to discuss with her parents, teach the Li family a lesson, don't think that she will let them bully her if she gives birth to a daughter.

He Sheng's male affection is rigid and follows her mother, not a master who swallows his anger.

Qi Shufang hurriedly brought seven catties of leftover milk powder from last month and unopened milk powder this month, and when she saw that she wanted to excuse herself, she immediately said: "Don't excuse yourself, take it home and give it to Panpan to drink." Panpan has been at your mother-in-law's house for a few days, and there is such a big child to drink, I'm afraid there isn't much left, right?" The biggest reason is that Qijin is reluctant to drink milk powder, except for drinking a little at the beginning

"Hmm. He Shengnan said in a nasal voice, "When I come back, there will be two or three taels left in a pound of milk powder." ”

Qi Shufang was stunned.

"Two, three, two, enough to eat for a few days? Our family drinks seven catties of milk powder twice for two months, and if you don't want to drink it, you can take it back." ”

Pan Pan was born with no milk, and her family's milk powder indicators were given to He Shengnan, He Shengnan remembered that he owed Qi Shufang a lot, not bad for this one, and also knew that Qi Shufang had a lot of milk, and she couldn't be hungry for seven catties without milk powder, so she thanked and accepted it, and planned to send Qi Shufang some rice and eggs tomorrow, seven catties for almost six months, you can drink rice soup and eat eggs.

Holding his daughter and carrying milk powder, He Shengnan returned to his parents' house leisurely.

Secretary He and Cao Yunhai both went to work and were not at home, she took out the key and opened the door, and the first thing she did when she entered the house was to make milk powder for her daughter, she drank it with a smile on her face.

Secretary He came back from work in the evening, and Li Wei also followed behind, with a flattering smile on his face.

He Shengnan pulled his face, hugged his daughter and went back to the room, after she got married, the room has been retained.

Li Wei hurriedly followed, with a look of shame and anxiety, "Shengnan, I'm sorry, I didn't know my mother would do such a thing, if I knew, I would definitely stop her!"

Knowing that his mother had done this, Li Wei was also very angry, but what about being angry? That's his mother.

Do you have a quarrel?

No.

Li Wei felt helpless for the first time.

was rejected by his father-in-law for several days, he was flustered, and he couldn't do his job well, but fortunately, He Jianguo helped to make up for it so that there was no chaos, and this time he finally got his father-in-law's approval and was able to see his wife and daughter.

Without his wife by his side, his heart was as empty as the house.

So, Li Wei cheekily begged for forgiveness and continued: "I have already gone home and told my mother for a while, clearly expressing my own position, let our father take care of our mother, she will definitely not do this kind of thing again in the future." ”

"What's the use of you telling me I'm sorry? What's the use? Talking about your mother? Will she change? People's hearts are full of flesh, isn't her heart? Look at it, look at your daughter, and it's only been a few days since she was sent back to your house? Less than a week, less than a week! Her body and face have lost more than one circle! I'm sure that the use of rice soup instead of milk powder is definitely more than the one I have seen! Your family has no shortage of food or clothing, and your five or six-year-old children are not sensible, don't your mother understand? I don't know that milk powder is Panpan's ration? I found out, what else do you tell me...... Say that your nephew is greedy, just take two sips, and the rest is Panpan! Don't be kidding, I'm not stupid, if your nephew is really greedy, can't he be gagged with any delicious food? Do you have to drink milk powder? Candies, edible sugar, biscuits, eggs, and other non-staple foods, do you lack them? Is there a shortage of milk candy? Can't milk candy stop him from wanting to drink milk powder?"

The more He Shengnan spoke, the more angry he became.

Once, she went to He's house to visit the door, Qi Shufang was feeding seven catties of milk, and Ye Cuicui also brought her four or five-year-old son over to play. The little boy was greedy and wanted to eat milk, just when she thought that Qi Shufang would refuse, Qi Shufang smiled and said that the milk was not sweet, and gave the sugar cube to the little boy, and the little boy immediately stopped mentioning milk.

Look, this is the most appropriate way to deal with it, children are just greedy, what they want to eat, it is easy to be attracted by other foods to lose all their attention, forget their previous thoughts.

If Li's mother has a heart, why doesn't she want to divert her grandson's attention? It's not that she thinks that milk powder is more nutritious.

Li Wei's face was red and white, he knew that his mother was not doing this properly, he was too ruthless, his father was taciturn, and he didn't say anything when he encountered anything, as for the eldest brother and sister-in-law...... They absolutely do not express any opinion on things that are beneficial to them, and they laugh and listen to their mother. He blamed his mother, and his brother and sister-in-law accused him of being unfilial on behalf of his mother.

However, the second uncle and the second aunt have always been on their side, and they called themselves over afterwards, and the second aunt counted herself down sharply, and the second uncle couldn't speak and showed a look of hatred for iron and steel.

This family affair is the matchmaker given by the second aunt Secretary Tuojiang, and the person who likes He Shengnan the most in the family is the second aunt.

"Katsuo ......"

"Don't talk to me, I don't want to listen!" He Shengnan gently patted his daughter who woke up because of his words, "I don't want to go back for the time being, you can think about it yourself!

Li Wei hurriedly said: "Of course Panpan is my own daughter!"

"Since you know that it is your own daughter, why can't you support your daughter? Why don't you ask her for justice? Speaking of justice, let me ask you, if you quarrel with your mother, will it be your daughter's justice?"

"Doesn't it count?" Li Wei looked dazed, and he expressed his dissatisfaction with her to her mother for doing this.

When He Shengnan saw it, he immediately became angry.

Secretary He walked in suddenly, "Xiao Wei, you let Shengnan stay at home with Panpan for a few days to calm down, you go back first." If you really have a heart, find a way to get some milk powder for Panpan. Oh, you go back and talk to your grandparents and your parents, so that they can spare time for tomorrow night, there is a very important thing I need to go to your house and talk to them. ”

Li Wei was locked out of the door by his father-in-law in a daze.

Li Wei went home at night to convey his father-in-law's agreement to his grandparents and parents, and the next day he asked He Jianguo if he drank seven catties of milk powder.

Everyone is an old colleague, and the wives of the two are close, and he knows very well that he eats breast milk and not milk powder.

He Jianguo glanced at him, "Don't you know? How did you become a father? My family Shufang gave the milk powder to Panpan yesterday." More than half of the seven catties of drinks last month, as well as the ones I bought and didn't drink this month, were all given to Panpan. ”

Li Wei was stunned.

Thinking of the task given to him by his wife, He Jianguo hooked his hand, and when Li Wei arrived, he put one arm on his shoulder, "If you want me to say, it's you who are not authentic! You value your daughter, does your mother dare to treat Panpan like this? It's not because you don't like Panpan, so your mother rightly deviates her heart to the armpit." ”

Li Wei frowned, "Don't say that. You have a son, standing and talking......"

Before the words "no back pain" came out, he Jianguo interrupted: "Yes, my lover gave birth to a boy for the first time, but even if it is a daughter, I will welcome her arrival, instead of saying that girls are not as important as boys." What's wrong with girls? Aren't girls your flesh and blood? Now it's a new society, and the leaders say that 'women can hold up half the sky,' and that patriarchy is feudal dross, and it is right to abandon it as much as possible, rather than to carry it forward. ”

Bai Sheng leaned over and said: "Yes, yes, the feudal dregs should be abandoned, not praised." My lover is about to give birth, I am happy that she has given birth to a boy, and I am also happy to have a girl. If it's a girl, it's best to look like my lover, Chu Chu is moving, don't be like me, I'm not good-looking, my son doesn't care with me, my daughter is miserable with me. ”

Speaking of this, Bai Shengmei smiled: "Chu Chu is moving, I think about it, if it is a daughter, it will be called Chu Chu!"

He Jianguo didn't like some of Bai Sheng's ideas, but at this moment, he was impressed by him, although Bai Sheng's many ideas were different from ordinary people, but he was much stronger than Li Wei on the issue of equality between men and women.

Because of Bai Sheng's interjection, the conversation between He Jianguo and Li Wei could not be completed.

Li Wei was worried about his father-in-law's search for his family, and flew back to Li's house after work, and not long after, Secretary He came and proposed to only talk to Grandpa Li, Grandma Li and Li's father, Li's mother, Uncle Li and Li Ying. Hearing him say this, the Li Wei brothers, Li Xia sisters and brothers and their Li Wei's nephew Li Chengyuan all went out.

Without waiting for the Li family to ask, Secretary He went straight to the point: "My family, someone reported to me that your family kept saying that you would donate all your family property to support national construction, but in fact you didn't, but secretly hid a lot of family property. ”

Li Wei is his son-in-law, for the sake of his daughter, he can't deal with Li Wei, and he has no scruples about the Li family.