Chapter 164 Steady
Sixi was really speechless about the call from Long Cheng, he really called him good intentions and did bad things, as if there was a skit before, all men are like this, once the family is found to cover up, the starting point is good, but the problem now is that Sixi just made a phone call with Zhao Jing and said that the place he went to tonight was too remote and there was no car and he would not go back, saying that he was staying at a friend's house, this Long Cheng immediately called and told himself that he and his girlfriend's sister said that they sang K together, how do you say you want Sixi to explain it? Do you think Zhao Jing will listen to Sixi's explanation?
Sixi suddenly sat down with a sad face, how to solve it? immediately called there and told Zhao Jing that Long Cheng was talking nonsense? Is she really in a remote place? Do you think she will believe it?
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"What is the matter with you, young man?" said the old man
As soon as Sixi heard this, he didn't reserve it, and as soon as he finished saying this, the old man couldn't help laughing.
"Hehe, this is a kind help, young man, what are you going to do now?" asked the old man
Sixi smiled bitterly, "What can I do? No matter how hard and tired I am, I have to walk back tonight." β
"Let's not talk about how much time it will take you to walk back on two legs, in this situation, will you be able to go out? What should you do if you are walking on the road alone in the middle of the night and you meet a bad person? What should you do if you meet a policeman? How can you explain to the police why you are still walking on the road so late? Will the police believe what you say? If you are arrested at the police station, will you say that you have not come out for a day and a half? How will you explain to your girlfriend that you have been caught by the police at the police station? So I think you'd better stay here for the night, and wait for the bus to go out at half past six in the morning, and there's nothing going on. As for what your girlfriend thinks of you, is there any difference between you going back now and you going back tomorrow morning? She doesn't believe your words, she still doesn't believe you, she has to believe your words, even if you go back tomorrow, she will still believe you," said the old man
When Sixi heard this, he immediately stopped saying anything, too, he felt that what Wang Lao said was reasonable, he had to believe you, he would always believe you, if he didn't believe you, no matter how you explained, he wouldn't get any good results.
"Well, it's getting late, young man, you're hungry too, I'll go and get some food, and get some rest," said the old man
"It's okay, I'm not hungry," Sixi said
"You're not hungry, but I'm hungry," said the old man
Sixi hurriedly said, "Why don't you keep telling me that the kitchen and things are there, I'll do it, how about it?" To tell the truth, if you want the old man to make food, he is really worried, of course he is not worried that the old man will be drugged or anything, what he is worried about is that the old man faints again, if he faints again, then Sixi will really be dizzy.
When the old man saw Sixi say this, he didn't force it, and after telling Sixi that the kitchen and things were there, Sixi quickly prepared them and put them on the table.
The old man tried it and smiled, "Young man, your skills are not bad."
"Elder Wang, you can call me Sixi," Sixi said
"Okay, by the way, where did you learn this cooking?" asked the old man
"I didn't learn from there, my family has been poor since I was a child, and I naturally took it a little more seriously when I made things, and I didn't have anything to eat, if it was still difficult to eat, then I'm sorry for the food," Sixi said
As soon as the old man heard this, he had a new round of understanding of Sixi's opinion.
"Few people in this society are so serious about food now, by the way, you came to me today, you didn't really come to deliver notebooks, right?" said the old man
Sixi was stunned, and he didn't know whether it was better to tell the truth or lie, and when he was about to speak, the old man spoke again, "I don't want to hear some lies"
Sixi was stunned, and hurriedly said, "To tell the truth, sending a notebook is one of my purposes, and the other purpose is to meet the person who wrote this notebook, to see what kind of person he is, and to get some guidance from him, I'm sorry, I didn't expect the final result to be like this, which made your old man sad."
Also, who would have thought that Wang Yi would have passed away?
"It's okay, he's been gone for several years, and I'm already downshit, if he's still alive, it's estimated that he won't be a few years older than you, and he was full of enthusiasm at that time, hey, don't talk about it, by the way, what questions do you want to ask him?
When Sixi heard this, he was no longer on guard, and he didn't know the old man anyway, so he couldn't help but tell him about his current predicament according to the old man's words.
The old man laughed when he heard this, "I knew that there must be something wrong with you sending this note back, and it is normal for young people to want to be promoted."
When Sixi heard this, his face was flushed.
"Don't blush, this is human nature, who in this world doesn't want to be famous? Who doesn't want to be a leader? But leadership is not so easy to be, there are gains and losses, you will lose a lot at the same time. It's too cold to be in high places, and I'm afraid you'll regret it when the time comes," the old man said
When Sixi heard this, he scratched his head and said, "Won't it?" Elder Wang, I just want to be a squad leader, and I won't be cold from a high place, right?"
For a stranger, Sixi is not very guarded against his heart, and directly let go of his heart.
"Of course, you won't lose so much to be a squad leader, but when you become a squad leader, you won't just want to be a squad leader, people's ** is unlimited, the road to career promotion is like taking drugs, once you embark on this road, you won't stop your own pace of progress. It's like a kind and innocent person like you, who can take care of me when I pass out, and can cook a good meal for me to eat, to tell the truth, if necessary, I would rather you not set foot on this road, because once you set foot on this road, it is a road of no return, if you don't enter, you will die, the workplace is narrower and more rugged than the road in politics, there is no way back to choose, work in the government, you can't get up, you are old, there is still a position for you to mix until retirement, but there is no such thing in the workplace, no boss is willing to leave a useless person to work in the companyThe old man said
Sixi said very solemnly, "Elder Wang, I understand these things, but to be honest, I am a person who has no way out, can I retreat there? If you mix well, you will go ashore and wear leather shoes, if you don't mix well, continue to play barefoot, in fact, there is nothing, for children like me who come out of the poor countryside, there is actually nothing to lose, and the loss of these two words may be very heavy for people in your city, but for us rural children, there is nothing in the first place, so how can we talk about losing?"
Sixi paused when he said this, because his words were a little sad, so that he couldn't help but think of some of his unbearable childhood, he glanced at the old man and continued: "Speaking of which, I'm not afraid to continue, we so-called children who came out of the countryside and have no culture can do anything other than work, what way out do we have? Become a civil servant? Hehe, I don't know where the door is open, do business? Where to find capital?" Besides, in this society that relies on relationships everywhere, we have no money and no connections, what can we do? Carp jumping the dragon gate, a thousand rural children really jumped out, then it is already luck, so we can only work in the company, working in the company relative to the outside society, relatively fair, much fairer, our only way out is just like you just said, promotion, continuous promotion, even if we know that we may not be promoted to the top of the company, the top of the society, but we still want to try to get closer to the top through our own efforts, we have no good parents, so we have to work hard to be a good parent of our children, who wants to be a cat at the bottom for a lifetime, doing those things that have no bright futureWho doesn't want their wife, children, and parents to live a good life through their own efforts? So now that I have this opportunity to be promoted, to be honest, I really want to take advantage of it."
This is also the first time in so long that Sixi has dissected his heart, although he is usually very cheerful and innocent, it does not mean that he has no thoughts in his heart.
Yes, there is a chance in this world, who wants to stay at the bottom of that society and wait for death? Who wants to go barefoot if they have shoes to wear?
The old man listened to Sixi's words and was stunned for a long time, "Sixi, do you know? My son also said something in this room many years ago. Of course, his starting point is different from yours, his thoughts are not the same, he doesn't want to work hard to be a good father to his children like you, for him, what he is most willing to do at that time is to leave me alone, he wants to prove his strength and prove his existence value through his own efforts, and in the end? He succeeded, he did what many people and many people did not do, he was very young and he had already become the CEO of a very large multinational company, the notes you read are the experience of his hard work for so many years, maybe your starting point is different, so in the bottom of the promotion piece, he did not write much, some people are loaches as soon as they come out, some people are carp as soon as they come out, and some people are Shenlong as they come out, Shenlong needless to say, he has already reached the top of the pyramid, but you want a carp to describe the process of loach fighting for Jackie Chan, how did he write itWhat he can tell you is the process of the carp becoming a dragon. As for how you go from loach to carp, that's your own business. The old man said
When Sixi heard this, he was speechless.
He is now at the critical moment when the loach becomes a carp, and only when he becomes a carp can he become a dragon, and now you say that he wants to do it himself?γγγγγ This....... I really don't know what to say.
"But don't make such an expression, although my son has not experienced the time when the loach becomes a carp, but I have experienced it, everyone was a loach in my time, and there was no carp at all, so if you want to become a dragon, you have to start from the loach yourself, and slowly cultivate step by step, although there may be some gaps in time, and the complexion may be a little different, but I believe that people in this world think the same, whether it is political struggle, or workplace struggle, as long as it is a person, even if it is another two hundred years, it will be the same, people's thoughts are the same, people**It's the same, the essence of fighting is still the same, and it won't change with time" The old man stopped when he said here, looked at Sixi and said, "Actually, for your so-called predicament now, I personally don't think there is anything, this is not a predicament at all, it's because you think too much about it, so you make it like this, as long as you figure it out, all the problems are not a problem"
When Sixi heard this, he couldn't help but put down his dishes and chopsticks and asked, "What do you mean?"
"Actually, you've been doing it for so long, and you still haven't seen where you are now, you actually have one of the biggest advantages now, and you don't see it yourself, but always throw away your advantages and do something stupid," the old man said
"What do you mean? My strengths?
"After listening to your narration, I think your advantage is not in your skills, nor in your way of life, but in your minister Tanaka's opinion of you, the Japanese are relatively stubborn people, of course, we Chinese are the same, once you recognize things, it is generally difficult to change, it is obvious that you can do this so-called squad leader acting on behalf of the work, it must be your minister Tanaka nodded, otherwise do you think you can climb up so quickly as a person who has just come?" Without his acquiescence and permission, even if you are capable, do you think you have a chance to achieve this position? So with such an advantage in hand, I don't think you need to worry at all, as long as the decisive leader trusts you and supports you, everything else is a floating cloud, as for your colleagues are fighting for you now, I think it's too normal, you don't want to think about it, why do they want to fight against you like this? It's nothing more than letting you do one thing, that is, chaos, people who want you to mess up and do things randomly, so that they can take advantage of it, so in terms of the current situation, what they want is a messy word, the more chaotic the situation, the better, for them, the more chaotic you are, the more you lose your temper, the more you go to complain, the more you complain, the better it is for them, the better, on the contrary, if you don't mess up, don't lose your temper, this is a pressure on them, so if you use one word to describe it, they think about you messy, and your own wordsγγγγ When the old man said this, Sixi's eyes suddenly seemed to light up.
"My words to myself are a stable word, chaos is good for them, stable word is good for me," Sixi couldn't help but say
"You can teach, yes, chaos is good for them, stability is good for you, the more you can't hold your breath, the more opportunities they can take advantage of, once the problems accumulate too much, it is easy to shake your minister's opinion of you and his decision. Stability is very beneficial to you, as long as your minister's confidence in you remains unchanged, no one can set off a big storm, by the way, when does your company usually decide on the final promotion?" the old man asked
Sixi said: "Generally, after New Year's Day, there will be a formal organizational structure of the company"
"That is, how much time is there until New Year's Day? As long as you remember a stable word, don't mess around, no matter how they provoke you, you don't mess around, as long as you survive this time, and when the wood is completed, you officially become the squad leader, then everything is easy to say, even if they oppose it at that time, it is useless, and the things set by the company are not so easy to change," the old man said
When Sixi heard this, the whole person's mood suddenly relaxed, and he bowed deeply to the old man, "I know, I really know." Thank you, thank you for the old teachings"
Also, in fact, this thing is very simple, it's just that the four joys standing in the bureau can't see clearly, once people's gains and losses are too big, it is easy to make wrong decisions.