"In love?"

"Falling in Love ......"

As soon as I heard Zhang Dongming talk about this kind of topic that was almost taboo in the mouths of other teachers, students like Lu Ye and He Fulai, who had not listened to the class at all, also came to their senses at once, and looked at Zhang Dongming on the podium curiously one by one.

Zhang Dongming smiled and asked, "You say, why do boys and girls fall in love?"

In the eyes of most students, teachers have always been rigid and pedantic, and although Zhang Dongming and Tang Wan have made some changes in students' thinking, it is not fundamental.

At this time, Zhang Dongming unexpectedly mentioned the topic of falling in love in class, and the students were stunned at first, and then the classroom became lively, especially the boys, who were happily talking one by one.

In this Beishan Township Middle School, although the students' discipline is not good, many students do not take school discipline and classroom discipline seriously at all, but this situation also creates that as long as there is a little opportunity, the students' classroom atmosphere will be extraordinarily active, plus Zhang Dongming is very young and easy-going, and the students also like it, which makes the students at this time very open, and said without scruples.

"Good looking. ”

"Handsome. ”

"I definitely like it. ”

"You only fall in love if you like each other......"

The lively students in the class are talking to me, loud or quiet.

Zhang Dongming nodded with a smile on the podium, and waited for the students to say almost before he said: "When you fall in love, whether you look good or have a good personality, no matter what attracts you, in short, you must have the idea of liking each other first, and then you may chase each other, don't you say?"

"Yes!"

"Yes!"

"That's great......

The boys in the class were all enthusiastic in agreement, and the girls were implicitly not expressing their opinions, but they all felt the same way when they looked at each one's expressions.

"Teacher, why don't you dare to chase after you like it?" He Fulai, who was always the most active in the class, jumped out and asked.

"Hehe, do you still have girls who don't dare to chase?"

When Zhang Dongming said this, the other students couldn't help laughing.

Indeed, except for Zhao Xiaoli, almost all the good-looking girls in the school were chased by He Fulai, although none of the girls said that they were good with him.

"Not really. He Fulai smiled, and he was not a little embarrassed: "I asked for Wang Jian." ”

Although Wang Jian is also quite thick-skinned, it is far from being thick to the extent of He Fulai, and at this time, his face was a little red when he was looked at by the whole class with a smile: "He Fulai is talking nonsense, I don't have a girl I like." ”

Zhang Dongming didn't bother whether this was true or not, and said with a smile: "If you want me to say, if you like it, you can chase it boldly, so that there is at least a 50% chance, if you don't even have the courage to try, you will regret it when the time comes." ”

"Yes!"

"Yes!"

"That's right!"

"Teacher, you are too open-minded......"

Hearing Zhang Dongming say this, the boys in the class suddenly exploded, and the head teacher not only did not object to them falling in love, but also encouraged, where to find such a powerful head teacher.

Zhang Dongming looked at the students below and continued: "However, when I was in junior high school, the teacher did not recommend or want you to fall in love, first, it affected your learning, and more importantly, you are not mature enough now, and many of the attraction of the opposite sex to you is just from the ignorance and impulsiveness of adolescence, not really liking. ”

As soon as Zhang Dongming said that he was immature, many students disagreed, and finally He Fulai stood up and said: "Teacher, I don't think so, besides, I chase girls because I like them very much." ”

Zhang Dongming smiled, looked at the students below, and finally stopped on Lu Ye before saying, "Even if you really like each other, but then what? Have you thought about it? He Fulai, have you thought about it?"

"Ahh

Zhang Dongming slowly explained: "Now you are all studying in this school, you are all students of the same school, you are no different at this time, but after graduating from here, you will all have to face your different lives, take the high school entrance examination, go home to farm, work part-time, do business and trade, then you will not have so many intersections as now, and you may never see each other again, at that time, will you still think of each other, will you still like each other?" Even if you still like it, but your life is different at that time, your life is different, will your liking still have results?"

The students didn't speak, Zhang Dongming gave the students time to think for a while, and continued: "The teacher won't say that you are still young, let alone naïve, you are all sensible, you have your own ideas, and you have your own judgments. What the teacher wants to say is that you are only fifteen or sixteen years old now, your life has just started, and you have not even started yet, at this time you do not have a basic understanding and plan for the future, and you don't even know what you will do in the future or what kind of life you will live. That's why the teacher said that what you like now is not really what you like, because you haven't seriously thought about the future, and you can't see the future, right?"

Girls mature earlier than boys, after listening to Zhang Dongming's words, most of the girls in the class nodded, and there were two or three boys who nodded, and a few thoughtful, and a few who didn't listen at all and made small movements in a whisper.

Zhang Dongming didn't think that what he said would be understood by the students, just like he chose to talk about the text "Thinking and Do" today, it was just a guide at the beginning.

"We seem to be a bit off topic, don't we? ”

Zhang Dongming said with a smile, the students who came back to their senses were all happy, the teacher was indeed off topic, and the run was very biased, but they liked it very much.

At this time, the bell rang at the end of class, and most of the students felt that the class was very fast, and it passed unconsciously, Zhang Dongming said: "The next class is politics, Mr. Zhong has something to do today, and the next class will continue to take Chinese, let's get out of class." ”

Ten minutes between classes.

Zhang Dongming went back to the office and drank a large glass of water, he hadn't spoken so much for a long time, and he was still raising his voice, and his mouth was dry after a class, and his voice was a little dumb.

The bell rings, and classes are held.

Zhang Dongming stood on the podium and flipped through the textbook: "Let's go back to the topic." ”

Hearing this, the students couldn't help laughing, Zhang Dongming said slowly: "The example of falling in love is to explain to you the relationship between 'wanting' and 'doing', only if you have an idea first, you may put it into practice, if you don't even like each other's thoughts, how can you chase it." ”

The students all agreed, and some shouted "yes" at the top of their voices, among which He Fulai was the loudest.

Zhang Dongming nodded and continued: "However, if you think about it, you may not necessarily do it, just like the text says, we call this kind of behavior 'utopian', and call such people 'utopians', so think about it, why is this happening, why do some people think about it but don't do it?"

The students are talking to me below, Zhang Dongming looked at Wang Jian, who was sitting in the last row in the middle: "Wang Jian, you can talk about it." ”

Wang Jian didn't say anything for a long time, Zhang Dongming asked him to sit down: "He Fulai, what can you say?"

He Fulai stood up with a big grin: "Needless to say, don't dare, just like Wang Jian, obviously like the third class, and then don't dare to chase others, haha......"

There was another burst of laughter in the classroom, Wang Jian was a little embarrassed and a little angry, but how dare he provoke He Fulai, he could only be depressed there.

He Fu is right, this is indeed a reason. Zhang Dongming looked at Lu Ye: "Lu Ye, you can talk about it." ”

Lu Ye stood up: "If you want me to see it, it's just too lazy to do it." ”

"Laziness is also a reason. Zhang Dongming asked Lu Ye to sit down, and looked at Zhao Xiaoli again: "Zhao Xiaoli, what do you say?"

Zhao Xiaoli thought for a while: "Maybe because of the difficulty, and then I won't do it if I think about it." ”

Zhang Dongming nodded: "Zhao Xiaoli said very well, when facing difficulties, people are indeed easy to give up, and in the end the idea becomes empty talk." ”

Zhang Dongming looked at Bai Dongsheng, who was sitting in the last row of his place in the north: "Bai Dongsheng, tell me." ”

Bai Dongsheng has always been the most introverted student in the class, even if all the students were talking and laughing before, he was just reading a book by himself, and his answer at this time was very small: "Maybe, it may be because there is no hope, and it will be done in vain, so I simply don't do it." ”

Zhang Dongming nodded, asked Bai Dongsheng to sit down, and said: "What Bai Dongsheng said is also very reasonable, but the teacher wants to tell you that there is never an absolute thing in the world, nothing must be impossible, hope always exists, anything, as long as you work hard, persevere, and believe in yourself, you will definitely have the possibility of success." ”

Zhang Dongming said this sentence impassionedly and loudly, and several students were infected, and they didn't know what everyone was thinking, in short, there was a determined light in their eyes.

After almost asking around, Zhang Dongming also commented and explained the students' answers one by one, and finally got to the point: "In fact, learning is the same, I believe that in addition to Zhao Xiaoli and Bai Dongsheng, there must be others in our class who have thought about studying hard and then being admitted to high school, right?"

Zhang Dongming's eyes skimmed over the students one by one, and stayed on Bai Juan, Wu Chang, and Ma Hongxu, who usually studied a little but were not so serious, for a while, and among them, the longest time he stayed on Lu Ye.

After waiting for a while, no one answered, but several of them bowed their heads.

Zhang Dongming opened his mouth and asked: "Just now you all said a lot of reasons, and you all think that 'just want not to do' is wrong, so isn't it the same for learning, since you have the idea of learning, why don't you study?"

None of the students answered, and the classroom was much quieter.

The bell rang after class, Zhang Dongming picked up the textbook: "This question should be regarded as today's homework, go back and think about each of you, tomorrow I will ask questions one by one, okay, let's get out of class." ”