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Su Xing, as a married person with a harmonious family, her husband travels with her children, and she is somewhat unaccustomed to it. Sometimes he wants to lose his temper, if he has something serious to do, it's okay to say, like Qin Huang.

The problem is that in the eyes of her father, travel is also a serious matter.

As he said, there is really no difference between staying alone in the village and walking the oceans outside.

He doesn't like to live in the city, saying that the air is bad, the space is cramped, and the noise everywhere is a headache.

Therefore, there are contradictions between every couple. It's not about emotions, it's that everyone has problems, and it depends on whether your partner is willing to tolerate it.

That kind of torment sometimes made Su Xing toss and turn at night, and her heart was full of resentment.

It's okay during the day, and I have work during the day, so I can't think too much.

This situation is not unique to her family, and she is not the only one who suffers

“…… Women are like this, not to mention men, their needs are stronger than women's. Therefore, couples who have been separated for a long time must have one of them unable to hold back and find someone to vent. For men, love and sex are two different things. ”

It was the young lad who said this.

A young woman disagreed, "As an adult, who is it that you can't even grasp the basic control ability?"

"It can't be helped, many men are animals who think with their lower bodies, and some women are even proud to provoke each other's primitive instincts. Especially the mother-in-law's ......, "Let's go, let's go."

Eating men and women, people's great desires, is a topic that Yuan Meng often talks about when chatting with several male and female colleagues.

They are the hosts of emotional topics, and they do not leave their profession.

For example, Su Xing, with Tingyu, Xie Miaomiao and others, is mostly talking about topics that she is familiar with.

The world is bustling, all for profit, and the world is bustling, all for profit.

Living in a metropolis, without three or five confidants going out to drink tea and chat, how lonely should life be?

Therefore, Su Xing occasionally went out to drink tea and chat at the invitation of Yuan Mengzhi.

Yuanmeng has a lot of friends, and it is not bad to listen to the views of modern young people on life and all aspects, and keep pace with the times.

"Sister Su, you have a son, and you will be a mother-in-law in the future. If your son makes this kind of mistake, do you stand on your daughter-in-law's side, or defend your son?" a young male colleague asked Su Xing unconvincedly, "Be honest, don't worry, no one here laughs at you." ”

"The most important thing in our business is to listen to all ideas, and you don't have to be psychologically burdened. Yuan Meng explained.

Su Xing said frankly: "That's a matter for the young couple, they can solve it themselves, I have no right to interfere, at most I don't recognize the woman who has succeeded in the position as a daughter-in-law." ”

"Wow, this is the mentality of the mother-in-law-to-be. The young male colleague rejoiced.

"What a prospective mother-in-law, she is obviously against it. Yuan Meng laughed angrily at his logic.

A group of people started a debate about Su Xing's view.

This kind of topic is very practical, and it sounds interesting to listen to occasionally, but Su Xing never participates in the argument and acts as a quiet listener.

As Yuan Meng said, the inspiration for writing a book comes from life. If you don't understand the process of change in human nature, you can't write a book that resonates.

Although she doesn't write this type of book, it doesn't hurt to listen to it.

"Susu, don't be angry if you say something offended," a female colleague looked at her with a smile, "If your husband has someone outside, will you divorce him immediately, or will you choose to forgive him once?"

There are only three married people in this room, and the rest are single. It's not young, but everyone is not in a hurry, at least on the surface.

Su Xing never took the initiative to talk about her marriage, and when she heard someone ask, she couldn't help but smile slightly: "Of course it's a divorce." ”

"What about the kid?"

"With him, he has more money than I do. Su Xing had a frank attitude, not at all worried about others saying that her mother was ruthless.

"If" such a thing does not exist, she doesn't mind others making assumptions, anyway, life is what she lives, who knows how to react to things that have not happened?

By the way, it's nothing.

Yuan Meng knew that she was so quiet, and saw that her colleagues' arguments had once again heated up and were very noisy. I found an excuse to go out of the private room with her and chat in a quiet place in the restaurant outside.

"Su Su, do you remember the last time I introduced the editor-in-chief Li you knew? He admires your attitude towards life, and wants to open a column for you to share your marriage experience with you, let me ask you if you are interested. Yuan Meng conveyed the meaning of his superiors.

"No, please thank him for his kindness on my behalf. Su Xing didn't think about it at all, "I don't write emotional books. ”

"Don't you want to open up new ideas, and as a writer, will you be told that you haven't made progress by writing only one type of book?"

"Wait until someone says so. Su Xing said with a smile.

She didn't write it, it had nothing to do with progress, but it was hard to explain.

Yuan Meng was unwilling and strongly persuaded: "Now that the divorce rate is high, many women have problems in their marriages but can't find a way to solve them, and they are reluctant to give up. You've managed your marriage so successfully, why don't you share your experience with everyone? Sometimes, helping others also benefits you. ”

"You have lifted me," Su Xing glanced at the lights of thousands of homes outside the window, "Who dares to say that their marriage is very successful?" Happiness is like drinking water, knowing one's own warmth and coldness, and there are thousands of experiences of outsiders, so it is better to find another person to try them one by one if you have the energy. ”

Not everyone can accept a married life like hers, especially when she rents her husband's house to live in, she will definitely be scolded as a dog.

"Sounds like you're not happy with your marriage?" Yuan Meng looked at her a little surprised, "If you don't mind, listen to it, even if I can't give the right advice, at least I can be a qualified listener." ”

Su Xing smiled, "How can there be a 100% marriage? I can't listen to other people's opinions, so I don't want to say it." The next time you and your colleagues come out, don't ask me out, too much negative energy sounds like a headache. ”

Mixed with this group of people for a long time, some ideas are easy to be swayed.

"Finally can't help it?" Yuan Meng laughed, "I have other friends, do you want to get acquainted?"

"No thanks. ”

"Don't say no yet, I have a friend who is a trainer in the fitness club, and women like us who sit in the office all day should exercise more. ”

"No, I have a gym at home. ”

"Tsk, real tyrant, when will you invite me to your house to sit? Yuan Meng joked.

"What's so visible about treadmills? Su Xing also declined in a joking tone.

He has a secret in his own house and never brings outsiders in.

"Snort, stingy. Yuan Meng speaks and acts in a measured manner, and never chases a topic to the end, "If you think about writing a column, Editor-in-Chief Li is very sincere." You can also increase your income, and if your husband is against it, I can come forward and explain it to you. ”

"It has nothing to do with him, it's that I don't want to write about it. ”

Su Xing said, silently took a sip of tea, and looked out the window no longer entangled in this problem.

For fear of delaying the time for Yuan Meng to communicate with his colleagues, Su Xing left after a while.

It was only past nine o'clock, it was still early, and the children were still in Quanyue's studio and did not come back.

The night was just right, and Su Xing was strolling alone on a whim.

Behind the pedestrians hurried, a man wearing a baseball cap with his head bowed, shrugging his shoulders and back, his hands in his trouser pockets, dodging left and right in the crowd and striding forward......