516 Put an end to confidantes
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"You know, you don't have to worry about that. The relationship between me and Chu Yu has nothing to do with anything other than being a friend I once knew. There will be no contact in the future, I like Feng Qi very much, so I also cherish the relationship between us, and I will not let anything affect anyone. When Xia Han said these words, it was a little like a promise, and some like a coping.
Wei Mingru nodded, feeling that what she had just said was not in vain, and her daughter could still listen to her own words.
"Feng Qi is very good, and the circle you two are in is also complicated, from ancient times to the present, there are many women including men who want to hug their thighs and sugar daddy. So the temptation for the two of you will be everywhere as well. Both of you must be clean and self-sufficient, and both of you must have your own principles to adhere to. Wei Mingru continued to start her premarital training, regardless of whether Xia Han was willing to listen to it or not, anyway, she was going to fulfill her responsibility as a mother before Xia Han got married.
"Oh, I know I know, don't nag you, why do you have endless words every day now, I really don't know how my dad survives. Xia Han smiled and covered his ears, pretending that he couldn't hear.
Seeing this, Wei Mingru got angry and pulled her hands off her ears, and said: "I'm doing this for your good! When you get married in the future, you'll know whether what I said works or not! It's good to listen to it now, and in the future, even if you want to hear it, I may not be happy to say it, and so is your father! I always think that I say too much, so if I don't say that he doesn't make the same mistakes, I don't say it, he makes more mistakes, and there are so many mistakes. You guys all hate me in this family, and they think I talk too much and I care too much, so I don't care, you have to do everything right, right? What about you? Hide at home all day long, and don't come back to see when you have time, if I hadn't called, you probably wouldn't have come back for a month, you used to work and film, I understand, but now? Take advantage of the temporary rest and really rest, or don't come back, white-eyed wolf. Your dad is not in good health, and he still yells at me every day, saying that I abuse my husband, I say that he has a brain problem, what can he do if he eats less meat? His blood lipid and blood pressure data are much higher than others, and I don't know how much ...... in my heart."
As soon as Wei Mingru's words were opened, she began to pour out boxes and piles of bitter water, and Xia Han sat on the edge of the bed, listening to her mother's thoughts, which made her head big and made her drowsy.
"Okay, stop!" Xia Han made a pause gesture with both hands, and said to Wei Mingru: "Mom, I know, I will come back to see you and Dad often in the future, I also know your dissatisfaction with Daddy, but I bear my mistakes, but I have to bear my father's mistakes, right?" You see, my dad is in the study now, and the study is not far from your bedroom, so you can drive directly to the study and criticize me, Comrade Xia Zhongqian, who has not yet correctly and clearly realized his mistakes, and I will not participate in this kind of ideological correction and criticism meeting. Xia Han stood up and wanted to run out as he spoke, but was stopped by Wei Mingru: "You come back for me!"
Xia Han let out a sigh of relief, turned around slowly, looked at Wei Mingru bitterly, and asked extremely reluctantly, "Mom, what other instructions do you have?"
"I haven't finished my sentence yet, what are you running away from, come back! Wei Mingru patted the place where Xia Han was sitting just now with his right hand and said, "Come back, I have already told Feng Qi that I want to talk to you more today for a while, he knows that he will not rush you back." ”
Xia Han silently despised Feng Qi, a traitor, behind her back and her mother had such a "dirty and dirty" deal, and then honestly sat down in her original position, lowered her head, and listened to what her mother was going to say to her.
"We mother and daughter can't speak a few words all year round, and now that we have a rare opportunity, you can talk to me well, is it that difficult?" Wei Mingru asked her.
Xia Han shook his head and said, "It's not difficult. ”
As soon as Wei Mingru played the emotional card, she was completely defeated, as Wei Mingru said, since she was an adolescent, there has not been much communication between their mother and daughter.
Even when she was a child, the communication was limited to Wei Mingru's orders to her, and such an exchange like a normal mother and daughter was really rare.
"Since it's not difficult, let's go on. Wei Mingru didn't see that Xia Han was not interested in talking to her about things after marriage, maybe she didn't think it was important, or she felt that what she said was not suitable for her, no matter what she thought, Wei Mingru still wanted to say a few more words to her daughter who was not married, even if it was nonsense.
There was no such opportunity before, but now that there is, Wei Mingru doesn't want to think of the relationship between himself and his daughter when he gets old in the future, just a few words, it would be too sad, when he was young, he felt that work was more important than anything else, but now that he is older, he feels that his family is the most important.
Perhaps it is that at each age, everyone needs and pursues different things, and the feelings are very different.
"You have to remember what I just told you, people are terrible, you don't want to learn from those confidants on the Internet, that's unreliable, and it's also the biggest insecurity factor in marriage, confidantes are even more, both of them are married, you two should be the closest people, it's not an exaggeration to say, the intimacy of the two of you is even more than that of your parents, what you can't say to each other, you can't say it to your same-sex friends and girlfriends, you have to find a male girlfriend or a friend of the opposite sex to say, this is all a bad excuse for cheating。 When it really gets to that point, I tell you, your marriage will be over. Wei Mingru said very energetically, and Xia Han listened very unenergetically.
"I know all this, I don't have any confidantes, what male girlfriends, Mom, it's too much for you to worry about. Xia Han raised his head and said with a slight frown.
"I'm planning ahead. Wei Mingru rolled her eyes and said.
Xia Han thought about it a little differently, and said with a smile: "When you were your daughter, you were a heartthrob or RMB?
"What's wrong with my daughter, she has a good figure, good skin, good looks, and a good career, whoever finds a wife like my daughter, it's all the blessing of the ancestors. Wei Mingru didn't feel embarrassed at all when he said such self-selling and boasting words, "Your face, that's the standard beauty face, whoever says you're not good-looking, then he should go back and poke himself in the eyes!"
Xia Han was amused by Wei Mingru's words, why didn't he think his mother was so good at praising people before, it was really funny.
"Don't laugh, I'm talking to you seriously. You, the rest is okay, but the temper is not docile, and you don't know anything about housework, and the other six tricks are blocked. Wei Mingru praised her daughter where she should have no energy to praise, and when it came to the place where she should be criticized, she said it very absolutely. "After getting married, I don't have any housework skills, how good are you, your mother-in-law is really going to have a big head when she sees it. ”
"I have a nanny at home, and I occasionally learn to do a little bit by myself now, but it's ugly and unpalatable, but Feng Qi likes it very much. When Xia Han talked about Feng Qi, he had an involuntary aura, Wei Mingru saw it in his eyes, knowing that Feng Qi's score in his daughter was also very high.
"Since Feng Qi is so good, you have to cherish it. When you get married in the future, if you encounter any lace news before, don't be impulsive, you must hear him tell you in person. It is still necessary to have a lot of trust between husband and wife. If, I mean, one day, you feel that he is not good, and you don't want to live with him anymore, it's okay, when that day comes, your mother will still support you, as long as you have enough reasons. For example, he cheated, for example, he did something to you, and for example, you don't love him anymore. ”
Wei Mingru's previous words, Xia Han still thought it was old-fashioned and cheesy, but only this last sentence made Xia Han look at his mother with wide eyes in shock, this older generation is not all persuasion and not persuasion, what would rather demolish a temple than destroy a kiss, how did she get to her mother, even if she didn't love it, she was tolerated and allowed by her mother?
"Don't look at me, I also simply hope that you can always maintain the appearance that you will love and love in this marriage, if you don't love him, then this marriage will become a shackle that imprisons you, you will become more and more decadent and empty in your marriage, you can't absorb the nutrients of marriage, and you won't be happy. I used to be so you, you didn't like me, I know that. So I thought, maybe I will still have a chance to make up for you slowly in the future, as long as you are happy, my mother will support you. Wei Mingru's eyes were bright, and she just looked at Xia Han like this, her eyes were full of strength.
Xia Han lowered her head again, savoring her mother's words, and when she looked up again, she still had moisture in her eyes, looked at Wei Mingru, and thanked her sincerely.
"Mom, you're really—" Xia Han exhaled and said slowly.
Wei Mingru waited for Xia Han's words.
"Not suitable for such a gentle and kind image. Xia Han laughed after saying that he broke his skills, and Wei Mingru didn't know what to say about his daughter for a while, obviously a very good atmosphere, but she was made emotionless at all.
"You usually do the same with Feng Qi?" Wei Mingru asked.
Xia Han thought about it and said, "It's almost." ”
"If you find that you laugh more than you cry after you get married, it proves that you are doing well. Wei Mingru said with emotion.
"You have a story to tell. Xia Han looked at Wei Mingru and said.
Wei Mingru pulled the corners of her mouth, did not talk about her past in detail, and then said to her: "You have to remember what I said." ”
Xia Han finally got serious at this time, nodded vigorously at Wei Mingru, and said, "I will remember Mom, don't worry." ”
Wei Mingru nodded with satisfaction, and then listened to Xia Han say to herself: "Mom, I found two bridesmaids for this marriage, one is Yuanyuan, you know, and the other is the willow leaf in Xia Yuan's company." ”
When Wei Mingru heard the name Liu Ye, she frowned like a conditioned reflex, and then looked at Xia Han very incomprehensibly and asked, "What did you ask her to do?"
Xia Han took another deep breath and said to Wei Mingru very seriously: "Mom, Liu Ye is not the bad woman you think she is. She may be an actress, in order to have resources, she has played some tricks, and in the eyes of others, she seems to be very unbearable, but don't you know this entertainment industry? It's just that some people are known by others, and some people don't, and what is going on here, those of us who are not involved are not qualified to make irresponsible remarks about her, are we?"
Wei Mingru didn't know how much her daughter had to deal with a friend, but just listening to Xia Han's serious attitude when she talked to her, she knew that the relationship between this Liu Ye and Xia Han was probably not shallow.
"Why are you talking to her like this?" asked Wei Mingru.
"It's not about helping, it's about stating the facts. Mom, in fact, I still took advantage of the family relationship when I entered this industry, otherwise, how could I have not been harassed? Liu Ye is just unlucky that she doesn't have a good family background, she may have done something bad, but now she is just a single person and falling in love with Xia Yuan, is there anything worth crusading against?" Xia Han tried to say to Wei Mingru, asking her to look at Liu Ye with a normal eye.
And Liu Ye still seemed to be reluctant, but for Xia Han's sake of insisting on it, he didn't say anything more about Liu Ye's badness.
"I just want your wedding to be as beautiful as it can be. Wei Mingru said.
"I know Mom, of course I also know about this wedding, you have spent a lot of thought, all hope that I and Feng Qi will be good, I hope our wedding is perfect, but Liu Ye is my friend, a good friend, I invited her to be a bridesmaid, it is reasonable, Mom, you have not been in contact with Liu Ye, so because of some news and Dad's attitude, you have a very bad impression of Liu Ye, but when you really have this opportunity to contact Liu Ye, you will know that she is a very smart and righteous friend. Xia Han looked at Wei Mingru firmly and said.
"I ...... Okay, this is your wedding, everything is based on your pleasure, I can ignore the affairs of Liu Ye, but your father may not like to see the person he least wants to see at his daughter's wedding, and you don't want your father to be in a bad mood all the time? Wei Mingru said.
"I know, I'm going to talk to my dad now. Xia Han stood up and was about to go out, but was stopped by Wei Mingru again, turned around, and heard Wei Mingru say to himself: "Your father can't be angry, you know, talk to him well." ”
Xia Han raised his hands and made an "OK" gesture, then walked out of the bedroom and closed the door.
Wei Mingru sat on the edge of the bed, looking at her daughter, who was still so simple and rude, like a little girl who hadn't grown up, and shook her head angrily or happily.