There are three types of people in the world who are most likely to gain the favor of others. Pen ~ fun ~ pavilion www.biquge.info

The first type, talented people.

Not to mention the wonderful people who "have poetry and books in their belly", people who can master a certain skill will also make themselves unique.

For example, on a city street, a person who is not good-looking uses a simple device to beat a drum beat with a strong rhythm, or play a beautiful tune. For example, a scavenger in rags who uses the chalk he collects to draw vivid graffiti on the wall or write beautiful characters.

It is safe to say that excellent skills will make people ignore their appearance and clothing, and have a good impression of the skill owner. Many times, strong contrasts can amplify the true level of the person's skills, allowing the favor to spread explosively. This kind of social effect actually verifies an old saying - it is better to have a daughter in hand than a skill.

The second type is the filial person.

The so-called "filial piety comes first", no matter how much mistake a person makes, as long as he is a filial son, it will offset some people's hatred of him.

One of the most common examples is the image of a prisoner kneeling down in tears to thank his parents for their kindness.

When evil and good are intertwined, people are more willing to believe that human beings are inherently good, but they have gone astray.

The third type is a person who is cold on the outside and hot on the inside.

It is said that "like is the joy at first sight, love is not tired of being for a long time", from this sentence to the outside of the key words, in fact, it is about the harmony and freshness between people, and to talk about freshness, it is definitely the people who are cold on the outside and hot on the inside occupy an absolute advantage.

The reason for this is that the more you get along with people who are cold on the outside and hot on the inside, the more surprises you get, and the other is that such people can often bring a sense of satisfaction to the other party.

Mountain View, Zibbo Restaurant.

The sunlight moved from the corner opposite the restaurant, shining through the window on Zhu Dezhen, who was on the opposite side of Bian Xuedao, and Zhu Dezhen's eyes reflexively narrowed slightly.

When Bian Xuedao saw it, he asked Zhu Dezhen: "Do you want to change to my side?"

Zhu Dezhen smiled and shook her head and said, "I like to sit in a sunny place." ”

Under the sun, the two looked at each other and smiled, and an atmosphere of mixed understanding, appreciation and mutual recognition emerged.

This atmosphere has nothing to do with the love between men and women.

Because when the two met for the first time, the eye-catching blue diamond platinum ring on the ring finger of Zhu Dezhen's left hand left a deep impression on Bian Xuedao, from the very beginning, Bian Xuedao acquiesced in his heart that Zhu Dezhen was a married woman, which was the main reason why he did not guard against Zhu Dezhen like "guarding" Meng Jingyao.

As for asking if Zhu Dezhen is really married, it is a very inappropriate behavior.

In society, asking whether heterosexual marriage is mostly seen as a precursor to interest and initiation of pursuit.

If Bian Xuedao asks someone if Zhu Dezhen is married, what will the person who is asked think in his heart?

Could it be that you want to introduce someone to Zhu Dezhen?

Does anyone believe it?!

On the other hand, the Zhu family itself is close to stealth wealthy, and even if it is not invisible, the level of the Zhu family also determines that idlers cannot access the private life of the core members of the Zhu family.

Therefore, whether Zhu Dezhen is married or not, ordinary people can't find out at all, and those who can inquire about it can't guarantee that they won't tell Zhu Dezhen about it.

Let's put it this way, if Bian Xuedao asks Zhu Zhichun whether Zhu Dezhen is married, and then Zhu Zhichun accidentally talks about it, how will Bian Xuedao face Zhu Dezhen and Zhu Tianyang?

When that happens, it's embarrassing.

As for using Liu Xingjian's power to investigate whether Zhu Dezhen is married, it is even more of a very ill act.

No matter how good a person feels about himself, he will not feel that the women who appear around him all have ulterior motives or special calls. Furthermore, Zhu Dezhen is Zhu Tianyang's daughter, and Zhu Tianyang is the most unfathomable person in the Zhu family.

used the power of the shadows to investigate Zhu Dezhen, once Zhu Tianyang found out, then the matter would be unclear. It's not that I'm afraid of Zhu Tianyang, but it's not worth it to have a dirty relationship with Zhu Tianyang in order to investigate whether Zhu Dezhen is married.

Right now......

Looking at Zhu Dezhen bathed in the sun, there was only one emotion in Bian Xuedao's heart - appreciation!

This is a very normal reaction.

Because just now, Zhu Dezhen has continuously shown three qualities that are easy to gain the favor of others - talented, filial, cold on the outside and hot on the inside.

Three reasons for the future of Silicon Valley restaurants perfectly illustrate Zhu Dezhen's strong business logic. And the hand of the porcelain tableware on the table is handy, and it shows Zhu Dezhen's extraordinary tasting ability.

In Bian Xuedao's impression, the previous woman who amazed him with his ability was Fu Caining. It is precisely because he admires Fu Caining that the two have maintained a relationship of more friends than superiors and subordinates over the years.

Now through contact with Zhu Dezhen, Bian Xuedao found that Zhu Dezhen is an enhanced version of Fu Caining!

And also......

Zhu Dezhen's emotional fluctuations when she talked about Zhu Haishan just now, especially Zhu Dezhen's casual sentence "I have read relevant research reports...... But until now", this sentence shows that Zhu Dezhen has always hidden the regret of his deceased grandfather in his heart, and has been paying attention to the development trend of the ceramic industry.

Such a talented, knowledgeable, cold on the outside and hot on the inside, and an elegant woman who hides the regrets of her deceased relatives in her heart, if she can't give birth to a trace of appreciation, it will either mean that there is a problem with the dual business of Bian Xuedao, or that there is a problem with the aesthetics of Bian Xuedao.

There is no problem with Bian Xuedao's double business and aesthetics, so his attitude towards Zhu Dezhen has changed qualitatively, so a few seconds later, Bian Xuedao asked Zhu Dezhen: "Do you still need me to help you tell Musk about the particularity of the domestic market?"

Zhu Dezhen said dryly: "Yes." ”

"Okay!" Bian Xuedao nodded and said, "I will do my best in this matter." ”

As a Bian Xuedao, this can be regarded as a very rare commitment. Because at his level, he basically keeps his word, and he won't say anything and don't believe it.

Since Bian Xuedao said the word "try his best", it means that at least seventy percent of them are sure to move Musk, and even do not hesitate to use the "favor" between him and Musk.

Zhu Dezhen listened, looked at Bian Xuedao for two seconds, and said: "Just talk about it, don't force it, my concept may not be right." ”

Bian Xuedao smiled when he heard this, and raised his hand to beckon the waiter to pay.

After settling the bill, Bian Xuedao took out a 20 yuan bill and put it on the dining table, nodding slightly at the waiter.

So many tips are uncommon, and the waiter sincerely said "thank-you" to Bian Xuedao and Zhu Dezhen twice in a row, and left politely.

Looking at the back of the waiter, Zhu Dezhen whispered, "You give too much." ”

Bian Xuedao said with a smile: "Just now you said that the restaurant here was so miserable, I just thought about giving more." You must know that KKI Technology does not have a canteen, and you still expect these restaurants to eat!"

The two walked out of the restaurant, and Mu Long got out of the car parked on the side of the road and wanted to open the door for Bian Xuedao.

When Bian Xuedao saw it, he turned his head and asked Zhu Dezhen: "This street is not long, let's walk together?"

Hearing Bian Xuedao's invitation, Zhu Dezhen didn't agree immediately, she looked at the street in front of her and muttered for a few seconds, and said, "Okay." ”

Knowing when to advance, knowing when to retreat, knowing to advance as retreat, knowing that retreating as advancement, "Zhu's Flower" is not only about beauty, but also wisdom.

In the afternoon, there are not many people on Castro Street, and the sun is blocked by the branches of the trees along the road, and the ground is dappled.

After walking for almost 200 meters, Bian Xuedao said, "Speaking of the heart of a craftsman just now, what do you think of the spirit of craftsmanship?"

Turning his head and glancing at Bian Xuedao, Zhu Dezhen looked ahead, and asked without answering: "The manufacturing industry only cares about this term." Youdao Group specializes in IT and entertainment, why are you suddenly interested in the word craftsman?"

Speaking of this, he turned his head and glanced at Bian Xuedao, and Zhu Dezhen said with burning eyes: "Do you want to transform into industry?"

No way!!!

Bian Xuedao couldn't have imagined that he just asked a word, and Zhu Dezhen guessed what he was going to do.

Can this chick read minds?

Or is it some kind of sharp-billed animal?

Seeing Bian Xuedao's appearance, Zhu Dezhen hooked the corners of his mouth and smiled: "Don't hide it, your Taoism is still a little bit meaningful." Don't worry, I won't ask you what you're going to do, and I'm not going to tell anyone. ”

Walking through a shop window, Zhu Dezhen stood and stared at the women's clothes in the window for a few seconds, and then said as she walked: "Some shallow people despise the spirit of craftsmanship, thinking that in the era of standardization, the robot production line is the general trend of victory. ”

Bian Xuedao just nodded and didn't interject.

Zhu Dezhen continued: "Some people only see the superficial pursuit of perfection by craftsmen, striving for perfection, and never tiring of it at any cost. I only saw the conceit, harshness, excessive carving and low cost performance of the craftsman's conceit. ”

As he spoke, Zhu Dezhen's tone gradually became sonorous: "As everyone knows, the essence of a craftsman is not in the object, but in the mentality and spirit. ”

"My grandfather said that the essence of a craftsman is to be serious, dedicated, and responsible. The core value of the word craftsman is not the pursuit of strange skills, nor is it a rigid dogma, nor is it conservative and unforgiving, but carries forward the three spirits of seriousness, dedication and responsibility, and forms a common-sense social culture that is recognized, accepted and carried forward by the whole society. When calming down and doing things conscientiously and responsibly become the mainstream of a country and a society, the country will surely have unlimited potential. ”

Stopping next to a small flower bed, Zhu Dezhen turned around and said: "According to my understanding, a craftsman is actually a concrete cognitive carrier, because compared with empty seriousness, dedication and responsibility, craftsmen can see, touch, and touch, and it is very convenient to push them out as a benchmark, whether it is publicity or reference." Therefore, promoting the spirit of craftsmanship is actually a very clever means of creating a social atmosphere, of course, if you want to obtain the ideal publicity effect, there is a major premise, that is, you must ensure that the craftsman has a considerable social status and income, otherwise no matter how the propaganda is in vain. ”

Terrible!

At this moment, looking at Zhu Dezhen in front of him, Bian Xuedao faintly felt a feeling of seeing each other late, because Zhu Dezhen's insight and talent made him admire.

Just thinking about it, Zhu Dezhen suddenly looked at Bian Xuedao and asked, "You have a video website, right?"

"Yes. ”

"Your subsidiary has a film crew, right?"

"Yes. ”

Zhu Dezhen Zhengse said: "You can find someone to design and produce a program with the theme of finding skilled craftsmen from all over the country, showing their skills, seriousness and profound Chinese culture...... Well, this show may lose money, but you can afford to lose it if you don't do it, so it's just a text. Otherwise, after the show comes out, I will pay half of the production fee, what do you think?"

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