051 [Extra] Love what she loves
In the blink of an eye, seventeen years have passed, Bai Ge is fifty-two years old, as long as he reads a book, he has to wear glasses, but he is more elegant, at first glance, he is quite wise and introverted, at this time he is sitting on the sofa drinking tea, watching his wife babbling next to her to give her daughter Bai Xi what to order, while checking her luggage.
Jiang Wanlu is also in her early forties, but she is very well maintained, she is not very interested in new clothes, so she likes to buy some expensive skin care products, which seem to be quite effective.
"Mom, it's enough, you can buy anything you lack at school, and it's more than two hours back and forth, and it's okay to get it at home. ”
Today is the day to send Baixi to report to the university, still in Beiyuan City, but she likes literature more, so she took the exam for ancient Chinese literature by herself.
For Baixi's life, she and Bai Ge have always been guides, after graduating from junior high school, her own affairs are basically decided by herself, even if there are some decisions, the two know that the result will definitely not be so good.
As for studying, except for silently helping her with math, nothing else is too demanding, as long as the overall ranking is in the top third.
Under such an education, Baixi lived a very free life, with a certain right of self-choice and living space.
They never take the initiative to enroll her in various cram schools, but as long as she wants to learn and takes the initiative to ask for it, she will definitely apply for it.
For example, when I was seven years old, I saw people playing the piano on TV and thought it was very good, and if I wanted to learn the piano, I would learn it! A week later, Bai Ge bought one, and Jiang Wanlu invited a student who graduated from a music university.
The two didn't force her to learn what she had to do and how many levels of certificates she had obtained, so Bai Xi had just regarded it as a hobby over the years, which was not very good, but it was not bad.
I once had friends who felt that their stocking method was not good, that the children were not assertive and impatient, and that they couldn't decide those things at all, and they couldn't distinguish between right and wrong, and they would definitely regret it in the future!
It's just that Bai Ge and Jiang Wanlu still go their own way, and nothing has changed.
What kind of education method to use depends on the child's character, their family Baixi is not naughty at all, and is very self-disciplined, which should be inherited from Baige.
I couldn't mention my math scores before, and some teachers didn't even give face at all when they held parent-teacher conferences, and criticized them by name, Jiang Wanlu never told Baixi that no matter what, their children were the best!
Think about it, too.
Jiang Wanlu straightened up, waved her hand, got into the car with her luggage, and didn't check!
Bai Xi carried a stuffed bulging bag on her back, which was full of all kinds of snacks that Jiang Wanlu made by herself and her favorite snacks, vacuum-packed, much more delicious and clean than the ones bought outside.
I put on a guitar on my back, which I bought after the college entrance examination holiday, and she likes this recently.
With his left hand, he lifted a bag containing a separate down jacket and two thick clothes, and with his right hand, he pulled up a trolley suitcase.
There weren't too many things left, and Bai Ge and Jiang Wanlu took it separately.
Their family is not short of money, but the family of three maintains a low-key habit, but if they get along for a long time and observe carefully, they can still see that Baixi's family is not bad.
In the car, Jiang Wanlu told her a few more words, she has been a day student since she was a child, and she has never lived in a dormitory, don't look at her daughter's good temperament, and her relationship with the girls in the class is quite good, but in some aspects, she is as stubborn as Bai Ge, and if she has a dispute on those issues, she will not give an inch.
Group life is not the same, four girls live together, it is inevitable that there will be disputes on some issues, she learns to be tolerant and give in, but of course, that does not mean that she is being bullied.
"Mom, you've said it before, I know. ”
When I arrived at the school, I checked in, helped carry my luggage to the dormitory, and after looking at the living environment, the two left, which was very different from some other parents.
"You're Baixi, are you your parents, it feels a little familiar, they turned around and left?" one of the girls came up to say hello.
In fact, all four people arrived, but the other two were from other places, and their families came to see them off, and by the way, they stayed here for two more days and traveled.
But even local parents have to help make beds and so on, and her parents are like that.
Bai Xi put down the things on his shoulders and moved his somewhat sore shoulders, thinking, of course they were familiar, they had just been interviewed on a TV show last month, but they were wearing makeup, and they were a little different from the real people.
With a slight smile, he only picked one question to answer, "They are busy, and I can do these by myself, I don't have to worry about them, by the way, you don't eat snacks, my mother makes it herself." ”
She took a bag of beef jerky out of her bag, opened it and saw it in small packages, poured a few out for her, and placed the same pieces on the other two tables.
Since Xiaobaixi loves to eat snacks, Jiang Wanlu specially bought kitchenware and plastic sealing machine, often grabbed a few when he went to school, and usually ate two bites when he was hungry.
Although it is free-range, Baixi never feels that he lacks love.
"Auntie will do this?
The girl immediately opened one and ate it, kept praising it, and said that her parents didn't allow her to buy snacks, and she wasn't allowed to eat so and that, and now she was finally relieved, and she didn't need Bai Xi to take care of herself at all, and she didn't stop talking, and she seemed to be a simple and easy to get along with.
In this way, Baixi left the home where he had lived for seventeen years and began to live in a collective.
Bai Ge and Jiang Wanlu actually didn't go back immediately, but walked around the school.
At the beginning of the school year, there were many sheds on the campus, some for new students to go through the formalities, some for mobile phone cards, there were people everywhere, there was nothing to see, and the two had to go back.
However, I didn't go home, but went to the nearest restaurant to eat.
Sitting in the car, Jiang Wanlu was still a little unaccustomed to it, and there was no one else, and she suddenly felt much colder.
"What's not used to, we can live in a two-person world again, right?"
She blinked, hard to think that this was what Shirago would say.
Red light, stop, Bai Ge stretched out her hand and rubbed her hair, as if the two had just fallen in love, Jiang Wanlu said "hey" twice, and the ones she specially took care of in order to send her daughter were all messed up.
"If you want to open a little, there will always be such a day, you think about it, all these years of our time has actually been spent on raising our daughter, and then it is work, and now we are old, and our daughter will be eighteen years old soon, she should have her own life, and we should live our life. ”
"Whoever is old, you are old!"
Jiang Wanlu tidied up her hair, took out the small mirror in her bag and looked at it.
Bai Ge smiled slightly, drove the car, and replied, "Yes, I'm old, okay?" Young Madam Bai, let's see where you want to eat first, didn't you dislike me for not going shopping with you last time, can you go shopping in the afternoon?"
Jiang Wanlu immediately rushed open the mobile phone software to find a high-rated hotel.
The so-called shopping, in fact, the last two went to the supermarket and vegetable market to buy some household things, she likes to stock up, shampoo, buy two large bottles, and engage in activities; facial cleanser and toilet cleanser are also gone, as for Jiang Wanlu, she doesn't understand how she thinks of toilet cleanser when she sees facial cleanser.
Carrying things home, classifying them all and putting them where they should be, but still felt that the home was too scene, Jiang Wanlu simply turned on the music on the mobile phone and played it very loudly.
I just bought a raw cut steak and red wine, so let's just eat this in the evening, maybe it's a little more lively.
So, on the first day of her daughter's departure, they had a romantic Western meal for two, and Jiang Wanlu also took a photo and sent it to Bai Xi, which made Bai Xi half angry.
As soon as she went to school, they had a big meal, was it biological?
Seeing her daughter's angry reply, Jiang Wanlu held up her mobile phone to show Bai Ge, and Bai Ge smiled dumbly.
"Just tease her!"
"And say that you're much worse than me. ”
Jiang Wanlu remembered one thing, it was the age when Baixi was still wearing open crotch pants, he didn't understand anything, he was soft and tender, and he was very fun.
Their family of three was in the community, it was summer, the weather was very cool at night, Bai Ge rarely spoke, Jiang Wanlu was sharing some parenting scriptures with the neighbors.
This unscrupulous old father watched Baixi walk around, occasionally squatting, and suddenly found something, walked over, pointed to the little worm wriggling on the ground, let him see, and asked him what it was with his eyes.
Bai Ge thought about it and deliberately said, "That's delicious and sweet!"
Bai Xi loves sweets, looking at the insects, her eyes are shining, she squats down and picks it up with her little fat hand and puts it in her mouth, just when Jiang Wanlu saw it, she hurriedly pulled the insect out of her mouth with an oops.
"Bai Ge, why are you lying to her!
The neighbors also saw it, and Dole blossomed, but I didn't expect that people who are usually very serious also have times when they are bad.
Bai Ge is so innocent, "I don't know if she really dares to eat it!" squatted down and took out the paper from his pocket to wipe his daughter's mouth.
When Bai Xi grew up, Jiang Wanlu told this incident to the little girl as a joke, Bai Xi covered her face, she couldn't believe it, and she probably couldn't face such a stupid self.
In the end, she ran to ask Shigea for some spiritual compensation, and got a rabbit plush toy that was taller than her.
In a blink of an eye, Bai Xi has grown from such a small doll to such a big one, but they are old.
After washing the dishes, she returned to the living room and found that Bai Ge was watching the replay of the basketball game, he had watched the live broadcast last night, and when he saw Jiang Wanlu coming over, she opened her arms very habitually, she leaned over, Bai Ge took the remote control and changed the TV series she usually watched, and the two watched it together.
Jiang Wanlu would discuss a certain character with him from time to time, and Bai Ge kept nodding his head twice, indicating that he was listening, and sometimes interjecting two sentences of his own indirectness, which is enough to prove that he really watched this TV series.
If it had been before, I am afraid he himself would never have imagined that he, an engineer full of honors, would one day sneer at all kinds of popular TV series.
All of this is just because Jiang Wanlu loves to watch it.
If you like someone, you will endure and even like what she likes, and that's it.