053 [Extra] Baixi's memories
In my impression, my parents echoed the sentence: father's love is like a mountain, and mother's love is like water.
The mountain is hard and tall, and the water is soft and hurts when it hits the face.
In fact, what I'm most afraid of is not my father, but my mother, don't look at my father who seems to be strict, in fact, he is very spoiled and very good at hurting people, but that kind of pain is silent, and my mother starts a fire, and even my father is afraid.
They are different from other parents, and my friends often complain to me that they have to attend various tutoring classes every day in addition to the homework left by the teacher, and they are tired to death, and then they are very envious of me.
Yes, I also think my parents are very special and very good, the best parents in the whole world!
They never forced me to learn those extracurricular things, she could help arrange them immediately when she wanted to learn, and she wouldn't be reluctant to study when she didn't want to, saying "how can I spend so much money and not learn"?
In fact, if we don't want to learn, it will have no effect if we force it to learn, in contrast, my parents are open-minded, I am so happy! If I was born in someone else's family, I would definitely be annoyed to death!
Our family is not short of money, but we are not those rich second generations who go out to squander with millions, and they buy me clothes that are comfortable and affordable, and they will not deliberately chase the famous brand effect.
By the way, the only thing I'm not satisfied with is that I am not allowed to eat junk food on the side of the road, but what if I still want to eat it?
When I grew up and didn't need them to pick me up, I followed my friends to buy those snacks and ate them secretly on the way, hehehe, they didn't find out once!
I know one thing today, my dad actually tricked me into eating those hateful bugs when I was a child, I was ignorant! Won't his conscience hurt! Fortunately, he gave me compensation, hehe, I have wanted this big rabbit for a long time!
Oh, I failed the math test again, my parents must be very disappointed, I don't know why I just can't understand those math problems, the teacher always says those definitions, regulations or something, but why do you stipulate like that? I don't know the principle I can't understand at all, I say memorize it and use it like that, but I still can't do it, it's so uncomfortable.
But my mother said that it was a very complicated math problem, and I didn't need to think too complicated, and I tutored me with my father every night, but my grades still couldn't go up.
I know that this year's parent-teacher conference was a shame for my mother again, although she never said it, but my aunts and uncles would talk about it as fun when they came home, and my friends heard it.
My parents are so good, why am I so stupid?
Even though they didn't scold me, I still felt very uncomfortable, and one of the study committee members kept looking at me unpleasantly, as if he knew their profession from the teacher, and mocked me in class.
It's okay to speak ill of me, but not about my parents!
That afternoon, I blocked her in the alley and fought, and in the end I won, but my face was so red that I could only lie to them that I had fallen.
My mother brought me an ointment to apply, and said how I was so careless and what to do if I had a scar, but my hands were very gentle.
"It's okay, I never have a scar, hehe!"
I smiled heartlessly at her, and my mother rolled her eyes, relieved that she had stopped studying my injuries anymore.
Although high school is only a second-rate school, the teachers are very good, the teaching quality is also good, and there have been many examples of being admitted to key schools, and I can finally become the pride of my parents!
I'm getting taller and taller, and my parents have more and more wrinkles on their faces, but one is still so handsome, and the other is still so beautiful.
They have never quarreled, and my friends always cry to me because of their parents' quarrels, I thought at that time, my parents have a really good relationship, but some parents in many TV series don't quarrel either, but that's because they don't treat each other as husband and wife at all, and they are called respectful guests.
Later, I found out that my parents are not without contradictions, but they don't make a lot of noise, my mother is so old and loves to eat snacks, oh, it turns out that she also wants to eat junk food, but her father won't let her buy it, so she is so angry all the way.
After several days of cold war, Dad finally gave in and went to buy a bag of junk food himself, and Mom immediately laughed and went up to kiss him on the cheek.
Hahaha, it turns out that they will also make trouble, and they are very affectionate, now I am relieved.
My parents are the most respected and admired people in my life, my father's name is Bai Ge, and my mother's name is Jiang Wanlu, who has helped many cities and rivers solve sewage problems, and has a room dedicated to storing their certificates and trophies.
I've been in and seen a lot, and it's a lot more than my awards!
And they have also appeared in newspapers and TV, and my parents told me to keep a low profile and not show off casually.
Well, they're two people who don't need to be applauded by others, and it's enough that I'll always be a little fan of my parents anyway!
The young bird will eventually leave the nest, the day I went to college, I was secretly very reluctant, I was not used to living with three people, my favorite is the school cafeteria, which has all kinds of delicious food, and some so-called junk food, this time I can have a good meal!
But I still miss the food my mother cooked, so I can only eat a piece of beef jerky to chat for comfort, who knew that I immediately received a picture of the steak meal from my mother!
Ahh
In college, I finally adapted to the collective life, tasted more warmth and warmth, made more friends, saw a wider world, and learned more novel things, while my parents couldn't keep up with the times and couldn't understand the jokes they told!
Well, they are scientific researchers who only know how to study, and they are conscientious, and if they don't understand the jokes, forget it, and next time I won't talk about them, just make faces to them.
The day before the wedding, everything was ready, and I was afraid that I didn't want to get married, so I stared at my father's disapproving eyes and pulled my mother into my room to sleep together.
My husband is the owner of an Internet company, a classmate in junior high school, and later a classmate in high school and college.
In fact, we only met again when we were sophomores, the school is so big, we haven't met him for a year, he is in the student union, and he is very handsome, so I heard that there are many people who pursue him.
I was a little angry when I heard this, he was a little fat man in junior high school, how could he get mixed into the thin group?
Later, we met a few more times, and he invited me to have two meals and confess, and then naturally we started to fall in love, and we didn't get married until a year after I graduated from graduate school and my job stabilized.
After I got married, I found out that any coincidence in school was actually arranged by him, that kid fell in love with me when he was in high school, and secretly looked at my volunteer form before filling it out, you say how ghostly he is!
Let's not talk about this first, when I was in graduate school, I often had friends persuade me that such an excellent boyfriend is not married yet, and I am not afraid of being snatched away by others?
I'm not afraid, if he dares to like someone else, I'll break his legs! And he can't do without me in this life, hum!
I haven't slept with my mother for a long time, she has a reassuring smell on her body, I still can't sleep, she held me in one hand, told me the story of her love with my father, I gradually immersed myself in digging secrets, and kept asking, it turned out that when my father was so impulsive with steady self-control, they had experienced such a thrilling thing!
The wedding day was very lively, the elder sister and younger brother of the uncle's family came to help, and there were many close friends and my best friends.
I cried when I said goodbye to my parents, I have lived here for more than 20 years, and I was a little afraid that my parents would be lonely, but my husband promised me that I would come over at least once a week to accompany them.
But then we still broke our promise, the particularity of the work and the busyness of the two of us have very little free time, and my parents are still engaged in scientific research after retirement, and sometimes they are not at home.
Many years later, I hated how I hadn't spent much time with them.
I never imagined that my parents, who loved each other so much, would one day become like this because of illness.
I don't know when my father's tall body no longer looks so tall and strong, and my mother's well-maintained face has many wrinkles.
That's my best dad in the whole world, how can he lie there!
I cried to my husband about how loving they were and how cruel God was, and he hugged me and comforted me gently, and spent a lot of money on the most advanced equipment and medicine, but my father still didn't wake up, and my mother was growing old quickly.
My parents had no idea how excited I was when my father finally woke up after thirteen years of waiting and care, and I didn't know how jealous my mother was when I learned that my father woke up with stubborn demands.
I knew that in my father's heart, the number one person has always been my mother!
My father's awakening made my husband and I even more motivated to prepare for the golden wedding, and we only invited a few friends from both of them, who were not young anymore, and were accompanied by their children.
That day, I put on makeup for my mother, she put on a red loose cheongsam, and my father wore a red Tang suit, although each other's figures are out of shape compared to the wedding photos 50 years ago, but they are still the most beautiful in each other's eyes.
Watching the two lean together and take pictures, I don't know why, but I secretly cried.
Dad's health is still not good, but he knows that his mother is worried about her and laughs every day, but in fact, he is very tormented.
Mom thought that Dad didn't know, and her health was not very good, and she was stealing the medicine, and we were not allowed to talk to the nurse to pick up the cosmetics and dress herself up.
Two years later, in the morning, I suddenly received a call from the nanny, saying that they had come to have breakfast for a long time in the morning, and no one paid attention to knocking on the door, so I found the spare key and hurriedly opened the door, only to find that they hugged intimately and left together, and the two of them were still smiling slightly, which should be very peaceful.
Dad, Mom, I miss you so much, Dad's wish will definitely come true, and you will definitely be together in the next life.