197: I'm not your dad
Because they have decided to divorce, Ji Nian and Ji Pingsheng decided to tell the news to Softsoft this evening, and told her the question of their life experience.
Although Ji Nian had consulted with a parenting expert in advance, he was still a little nervous when he really faced this matter.
……
At half past four in the afternoon, Ji Pingsheng drove to the kindergarten with Ji Nian to pick up the soft.
It's been a long time since the two of them have come over together to take the squish.
In the classroom, I was so excited when I saw Ji Nian and Ji Pingsheng coming over together.
When he came out of the classroom, Ji Pingsheng put the soft shelf on his shoulder.
Squishy is very happy and has been chatting with Ji Pingsheng.
Ji Nian followed behind him, looking at the backs of the two of them, a little sad.
In the future, I will probably never see such a scene again.
At this moment, she was still quite sad.
Soft can grow up healthy and happy, and Ji Ping's life is indispensable.
His love for softness is no less than anyone else's.
If she could, she would really like to do it for the rest of her life.
But the idea is too selfish...... She can't do that.
**
Back at home, the family of three sat down together for dinner.
When eating, Ji Nian barely moved his chopsticks.
Her mind was full of how to talk to Soft Soft after a while, and where she still had the heart to eat.
After dinner, the aunt cleaned up the kitchen and left.
Seeing off his aunt, Ji Nian walked to the sofa and sat on the soft side.
Soft and soft sandwiched between Ji Nian and Ji Pingsheng.
Ji Nian raised his head and exchanged a look with Ji Pingsheng, and then, Ji Pingsheng took the lead in speaking.
"Squish, we have something very important to tell you. ”
"Huh?" the little one blinked, his big eyes full of curiosity.
"Your mother and I are separating, and we won't be living together in the future, but I'll still visit you if I have time. ”
Ji Pingsheng no longer used "Dad" to call himself, but changed it to "I".
Of course, this subtle change is naturally inaudible to children of this age.
However, Ji Nian heard it.
"Why?" Hearing this, the soft eyes were already a little red.
Ji Nian knew that after telling Soft Soft these things, she couldn't avoid crying.
However, it is better to cry now than later.
The longer you hide it, the more sad it will be to learn the truth later.
"Squish, there's one more thing my mother wants to tell you. ”
Ji Nian took a deep breath and squeezed his soft little hand.
"Do you remember Uncle Chi?"
Softly nodded: "Yes." ”
"Well, in fact, Uncle Chi is your father. Ji Nian said as he observed the soft expression.
Sure enough, after the little guy heard this, tears immediately fell.
"But Daddy ......"
She choked up, raised her head and looked at Ji Pingsheng next to her.
Ji Pingsheng raised his hand and gently wiped away his tears softly.
"Don't cry soft baby, I'll still play with you in the future. ”
It is not easy for a child over three years old to understand this intricate relationship between adults.
However, through the words of the two of them, Squishy has already gotten two messages:
First, Mom and Dad are going to be separated;
Second, Dad is not Dad, Uncle Chi is Dad.
It is really not easy for a three-year-old child to accept these two things in a short period of time.
Hanging her head softly, she couldn't speak at all, and kept wiping her tears.
Ji Nian looked at the soft crying, and his eyes were red.
This is the first time since Squishy was born that she doesn't think she's a good mother.
She shouldn't let Softsoft treat Ji Pingsheng as her biological father, and she shouldn't hide Softsoft's story about her life experience.
But it's too late to say anything now, and she must take responsibility for her original choice.
"Uncle Chi is a father, why doesn't my mother marry him?"
After wiping away tears for a few minutes, he calmed down a bit, and then asked the question.
"Because there was a problem with my mom and his relationship, we separated. "The chronology speaks for itself.
At this time, there is nothing to hide.
But it is clear that the emotional entanglement between adults is simply incomprehensible to a child more than three years old.
Hearing Ji Nian say this, Squishy was even more incomprehensible: "Why are other people's parents together?"
Chronology: "......"
How should she answer?
Fortunately, at this time, Ji Pingsheng stepped forward and saved her.
"Don't worry about softness, you will be the same in the future. ”
Soft seems to understand: "Then will my mother marry Uncle Chi?"
Chronology: "......"
She was silent for a moment, organized her words, and said what she wanted to say to Squish.
"Mom doesn't know if she will marry Uncle Chi in the future, but Soft is a child with a mother and a father, just like you said before, there are two fathers, and they will be with you when you need them. ”
After hearing this, Squishy finally stopped crying and nodded vigorously.
In fact, she is still a relatively optimistic child in her heart, and after encountering something, she can think of it with a little persuasion.
After all, it's not the kind of character that drills the horns.
"Uncle Nachi...... Uh, Dad, why don't you come and play with me?" Squish asked her question again.
Ji Nian took a wet towel to wipe the tears and snot on his face softly, and then explained to her: "He's been busy lately, and he'll come to play with you when he's done." ”
Ji Pingsheng heard Softsoft say this, and asked with a smile: "Does Softsoft like him very much?"
"No, I still like you dad the most. As he spoke, he fell softly into Ji Pingsheng's arms and hugged him tightly.
It can be seen that she is very dependent on Ji Pingsheng.
Ji Nian watched from the sidelines, a little helpless.
She actually couldn't think about it, if she took Softsoft back to Mancheng and couldn't see Ji Pingsheng for a long time, would Softsoft cry......
"Well, I like squishy too. Ji Pingsheng hugged the softness, and the smile on his face was very gentle.
He really hurts the softness as his own child.
That alone is enough to thank him.
Everything that should be said has been said, and Ji Nian is relieved.
Although the softness did cry at the beginning, fortunately, the little guy was optimistic and had a good psychological quality, so he finally accepted this fact.
For her, it was a fresh start.
**
Full of cities.
After two days of waiting, the material supplier finally responded.
After contacting the supplier, Ji Chengzhe called Chi Jianchen and asked him to negotiate with the material supplier about the compensation sharing.
After Chi Jianchen received a call from Chi Chengzhe, he immediately drove to the agreed place to negotiate with the supplier.
Fortunately, the attitude of the supplier was not bad, and after more than two hours of negotiations, the two sides finally finalized a high compensation plan, with both parties bearing half of the cost.
In addition, the supplier must cooperate with the police investigation, give a maintenance plan for the problems of the construction equipment, and accept the inspection of all equipment by the relevant departments.
After this set of high compensation plans came out, the family was finally appeased.
Once the supplier is present, the matter is resolved quickly and smoothly.
Chi Jianchen helped finalize the solution, and the rest was left to Chi Chengzhe.
For the rest of the time, he needs to sort out his own affairs.
**
On the same day, Ji Nian and Ji Pingsheng came to the Civil Affairs Bureau to go through the divorce procedures.
The two of them are probably the most harmonious couple at the divorce window, and when they are waiting in line in the corridor, both of them are talking and laughing.
From time to time, the people around them would look at them and feel that they were not here for a divorce at all.
Basically everyone who comes here is very angry, how can anyone talk and laugh like them.
When going through the divorce procedures, the atmosphere between the two of them was too harmonious, and the staff couldn't help but ask: "Are you really here for a divorce?"
Ji Nian and Ji Pingsheng at the same time: "Yes." ”
Staff: "......"
She's been working here for a long time, and it's rare to see such harmony.
After getting the divorce certificate, Ji Nian and Ji Pingsheng walked out of the Civil Affairs Bureau together.
Ji Pingsheng asked Ji Nian: "When are you going to tell your parents?"
Ji Nian thought for a while and said, "I'll take Soft Back next week." ”
It's better to say this kind of thing in person.
She was actually afraid that Chen Yun and Ji De would worry, and she ...... They also didn't know about Squish's background.
Along the way, she hid too much from them. Actually, it's quite self-reproachful to think about.
"Do you need my help?" asked Ji Pingsheng.
Ji Nian shook his head: "No need, you better make it clear to Yun Shu, don't let her have a psychological burden." Pregnant women need to be in a good mood. ”
Hearing Ji Nian say this, Ji Pingsheng smiled, and he nodded: "Okay, listen to you." ”
**
All over the city, Chi Jianchen sat in the office to screen the actors for the new project.
This time, they decided to select students in the film and television academy to make a youth film, at present, youth films are the mainstream, and if you really want to perform that kind of taste, it is best to find students who are still studying to act.
So this time, the planner opened the online registration channel and received a lot of information.
As a producer and producer, Chi Jianchen is naturally a gatekeeper.
When he was looking at the information, Mu Feng ran into the office in a hurry.
Mu Feng is also in his thirties, and Chi Jianchen rarely sees him so excited.
Seeing him running in, Chi Jianchen frowned: "What's wrong?"
Mu Feng walked to his office desk with his mobile phone and handed him the phone: "Look at this!"
Chi Jianchen took the phone with a puzzled expression, and then saw the photo on it.
It should have been photographed by the people sent by Mu Feng to follow Ji Pingsheng.
Background ...... of the photo Is it the divorce office of the Civil Affairs Bureau?
In the photo, Ji Nian and Ji Pingsheng both had smiles on their faces, and they didn't look like they were coming for a divorce at all.
"...... this?"
Mu Feng: "Don't you understand? They are divorced, and your chance has come." ”
Chi Jianchen stared at the photo for a while, still unable to believe it: "The news is confirmed?"
He didn't expect it to be so sudden.
Mu Feng: "It's confirmed, I called him and asked, and I saw the two of them go in to go through the formalities." ”
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