"Third brother and sister, you can't talk nonsense!" Shen Tiqing's face darkened, and his tone was very unpolite.

He only thinks that Shen San's daughter-in-law is crazy now, and she is still very seriously crazy.

Shen's third daughter-in-law opened her mouth and shut up and said that it didn't matter if He Juan and Shen Xiu were not people, she even scolded the two of them for being monsters.

It's unbelievable!

Ignorance and foolishness!

Shen Tiqing couldn't get used to Shen's third daughter-in-law, and even wanted to press her to the ground last time and rub the matcha.

Shen's third daughter-in-law didn't know what Shen Tiqing was thinking, for her at this time, she just wanted to save Shen Tiqing who had been deceived. "Brother Tiqing, wake up, don't be deceived by these two cat demons again!"

Shen Tiqing couldn't stand the compassion in the eyes of Shen's third daughter-in-law, and he felt that his whole person was not good. "Shut up! I'm really not welcome if you talk nonsense! I said, they're not cat demons, what can they deceive me?"

Shen Tiqing looked at Shen San's daughter-in-law, who looked a little crazy, and frowned.

"He Juan, you said it yourself! Why did Shen Xiu suddenly change as a person! Why did you suddenly live a different life than before?"

You keep saying that my wife and children are not people, what kind of attitude do you want me to treat you?

"Brother Tiqing, I'm for your good. Come over to me, don't stand with them. Shen's third daughter-in-law stretched out her hand towards Shen Tiqing and looked at him expectantly.

Shen Tiqing didn't look at Shen's third daughter-in-law, and stared at He Juan with a pair of eyes.

He wanted to hear He Juan's explanation, and he waited for a reasonable explanation.

"I, I ......" He Juan opened her mouth several times and couldn't say anything.

"I believe in them!" Shen Tiqing said in a firm tone, raised his hand to the door, and said to Shen's third daughter-in-law. "I'm really sorry for you, now please leave. ”

"Third sister-in-law, it should be a Taoist priest, and it is wrong to call a master. ”

Every year in the college entrance examination, a batch of future flowers quietly wither, I don't know if anyone has paid attention, or rather.... Thought deeply.

Suddenly I remembered the news I saw by accident, a girl in the third year of high school jumped from the 17th floor of her house, ending her life in the flower season, even though many people think that this girl is fragile in the heart, but I can't help but ask: why is the child fragile? Under what circumstances would a person break down and dare to jump from the 17th floor?

Only when life is boring and hopeless, extremely rigid and boring life, and not understood, not cared for, unable to find any love, and unable to think of any way out, will they say goodbye to life so decisively, even if it is an extremely brilliant life in the eyes of others.

The 18-year-old girl was admitted to the ideal middle school, and in the eyes of her neighbors, she was "a good student, polite, and filial" and "someone else's child", her father was a successful entrepreneur, and her mother was a teacher. Due to family reasons, my father was busy with his career all the year round and rarely expressed his opinions, and the family became my mother's "Yiyan Hall".

The mother thought that the child inherited the excellent genes of her and her husband and was a genius, she poured all her expectations into the child, arranged everything for the child, and every time she planned, she thought that it was love for her daughter, and never thought that her child was just an ordinary person. Because of her mother's strength, the girl became more and more introverted, and she silently accepted everything that her mother imposed on her, making up lessons, learning calligraphy, and learning piano..... The pressure is mounting.

In a monthly exam, the girl played abnormally, she was hiding in the room and playing with her mobile phone in a bad mood, her mother angrily pushed open the door, and angrily reprimanded her, thinking that she was sorry for her training, and threw the mobile phone out of the window, the girl suddenly had a nervous breakdown, jumped from the 17th floor, and ended her young and short life.

She left quietly like this, leaving her parents with regret and heartbreak, leaving her teachers with incomprehension, and leaving experts with condemnation. Maybe in a few years, people will gradually forget her, maybe occasionally mentioned, it's just a sentence "that girl is too poor to bear the psychology", but is that really the case?

No, no! I heard a voice crying from within.

I couldn't help but look sideways.

Suddenly, I wondered, whose fault was all this? I already had the answer in my heart.

We often say that children are too fragile and lack frustration education. What is frustration education? Many people think that it is a heavy learning task, a beating and shaming, but it is not. The real frustration education is to give them the courage to face various problems in life and accompany them to cross one hurdle after another, instead of digging a pit to let him fall down, and then let him get up on his own, if he can't get up, he is called vulnerable.

There is no respite from the class schedule, there is no relaxation of study requirements, the infinitely higher difficulty of the course, the mountain of homework, they are like machines, struggling at three points and one line; when they return home, they are faced with the reproach of their parents and the hatred on their faces.

The child's shoulders are too immature and weak, not as strong as imagined, and in the discouragement again and again, he gradually begins to become numb, and then it is irreparably heartbreaking.

A student from Huangshan No. 1 Middle School also left in such a tragic way. He was originally a school bully, an existence that was envied by everyone, he had a wealthy family, just like the male protagonist in the novel, and his life was smooth. But it is such a person, after the college entrance examination, leaving three words "I am tired", and chose to jump into the lake to end his life. Many people say that it is because of his abnormal performance in the college entrance examination, but his friend's words have revealed this mystery for everyone.

He has been manipulated by his parents all his life, going to cram schools, brushing questions, reviewing, even in his own room, he can't stop his mother's "prying eyes", and every day in addition to studying or studying, there has never been self-space. This is the original words of a friend, and we clearly understand his helplessness, he ended himself in this extreme way, ended his soul that may have been broken, and "I am tired" became his last stroke in this world.

When everything is a foregone conclusion, the grief of parents is certainly painful, but as many films say, "If regret is useful, what do you want the police to do?", why not care more and understand more when the child is still alive, instead of poking the child's heart again and again with fierce words.

If, I mean, if, when the child fails, parents can tell the child that there is more than one way, if you are tired, take a break, and then go another way, if the child's grades do not meet his own requirements, do not trap him with the tactics of the sea of questions, he will not be grateful, on the contrary, if when he is tired, hand him a glass of water, say "hard work", he will always remember you.

In this way, when he is most desperate, he at least knows that there are still people who love and care for him, and he will not go to a dead end.

Many parents say, "We were also forced, and it was the fault of the education system." ”