May is the month to enrich yourself.

Recently, when I open the computer, the web link of the adult college entrance examination always pops up, and I think there should be many office workers who have clicked in.

After all, just because you're out of school doesn't mean you don't need to study in the future.

On various social software, I can always see "a returnee doctor with an annual salary of one million" and "a certain company executive", which I am noncommittal, because when others hesitated, I had already taken action.

My name is Mo Qing, and I am an employee of a small company in Beijing, Shanghai and Guangzhou. Ordinary names, ordinary looks, ordinary people.

At this time last year, a new person came to the company's department, and my boss asked me to take her.

She has a very sweet mouth, and her college major is human resources, so she is very favored by her boss. Every time she didn't understand something, she would go past me, a senior, and ask her boss directly, and the boss would always praise her for her professionalism and blame me for not being responsible enough.

I used to like her very much, after all, she arrives at the company very early every day, and it is really pleasant to help colleagues in the department buy breakfast.

The friendship between the plastic sisters lasted until the end of last year, and I lost the promotion I expected, while she was a newcomer who got the bonus that belonged to me.

She is not as educated as me, and her work is not as hard as mine, but she is better than me in the workplace.

I'm at a loss, why do I work overtime 300 days out of 365 days a year, and I still can't think of what I want after paying so much?

At noon, when she went out to dinner with the department, I ate takeout alone in the office.

When she and her boyfriend went to watch the latest movies on the shelves on weekends, I was busy sending my boss a summary of the week's work.

Every time she reports to work at a regular meeting, she is always the brightest one, not because she looks innocent, nor because she has a good taste in dressing, but because she stands in front of the projector and smiles the most confidently.

Of course, I don't think these are important, ability depends on strength to speak.

I put all my body and mind on this job, why have the new people I brought in these years been promoted, and I am still a small clerk?

Several setbacks in my workplace have made me reflect on myself, but I have always been in a huge state of confusion.

More and more confusion caused me to make mistakes in my work one after another, so I fell into a circle of thoughts and fell into a vicious circle.

It wasn't until one day that I saw a sharing in her circle of friends that I understood everything.

It turned out that my efforts were not wrong, but I missed the most important step in the workplace - workplace communication.

It was also this sudden realization that made me meet Mr. Yang of HNA Business Training Consulting.

Through communication with Mr. Yang, I enrolled in the training of Pyramid Principle - Logical Thinking and Effective Expression. Because I have mastered the necessary knowledge of HR, I have also thoroughly understood the communication skills in the workplace, and my performance has been good, so it is natural that I was promoted for the first time since I entered the workplace.

At the same time, when I was discouraged, I was recruited by another big company and sent me an offer.

Looking at the emails in my mailbox, I knew that my life was starting to have another possibility.

I've successfully counterattacked!

When I stood in front of the projector, I started to report on my work around the logical thinking of a central idea and three key words. Through the structure (what, why, how?) that I learned in the training facility, I turned my debriefing into my own presentation.

More and more envious eyes fell on me, and I began to enjoy the job that I had been doing for three years.

My best friend has always been better than me, she joined a startup company as soon as she graduated from college, and became a department leader in less than three years.

But life can't always be smooth, and she also ran into big trouble not long ago.

After the start-up company became bigger and stronger, the inflow and outflow of talents increased, and she was busy with entry and resignation, salary adjustment, and company rules and regulations, not to mention, and there was no helplessness to start.

When she came to me for the third time to vent her bitterness, it was also the beginning of my career pride. Because I was a best friend from childhood to adulthood, I shared Teacher Yang's WeChat with her.

Because of the needs of her work, she signed up for a training course on labor risk prevention.

Although there was no in-depth communication after that, when she invited me to a seafood dinner at the Grand Hotel with her year-end bonus, I knew that she was still my all-powerful best friend after studying through the HNA Business Training Institute.

This is my story, a story that happens every day in Beijing, Shanghai and Guangzhou. Today, I would like to share with you my life experience, just hoping that future people will have the courage to try and become what they want through this "golden finger".

After all, the 21st century is the age of the Internet, and if you have useful information, you will win at the starting line.

For a long time, I couldn't get out of my own thoughts, because I reviewed a movie, and it had a nice name, called "Su Yuan".

The ending of the story is unexpected, there is no excessive pursuit of perfection, and there is no blind continuation of tragedy, but I believe that those who have seen it, or heard the plot of the story, will only feel sad, because it tells the same thing that we desperately want to avoid.

Speaking of this, I believe that many people should have a conjecture in their hearts, yes, this incident has a name that is ashamed to talk about - sexual assault.

I am a big country in China, with a history of more than 5,000 years, but it often collapses here, just because the subtlety has long been engraved into the bones, in the face of such an event, many people's first reaction is to bury it in the bottom of their hearts. But does this really work? Avoidance, after all, is cowardice. Hiding in the depths is nothing but escaping.

This is actually no different from aiding and abetting, it is precisely because most people are silent and most people are shy about medical treatment, that they have caused one tragedy after another, and "Su Yuan" is such a story.

The little Su Yuan often went to school alone because her parents were very busy with work, but no one expected that the laissez-faire of her parents and the innocence and kindness of her children would eventually become the beginning of all tragedies.

Innocent and kind, she doesn't understand why her kindness has been condemned by countless people?

Why did the help that I could do become a shackle to my own life?

Why, after the dust settled, she could only live with an artificial anus, and the bad guys didn't get the retribution they deserved?

We will be angry, we will see the sadness and powerlessness of reality, but we will forget that everything is because of family education

The lack of parenting arises.

Parents have been teaching their children the meaning of kindness and helpfulness, but they are vague about their own protection and sexual abuse, and "the child is still young" is probably the self-comforting words of many people. It is this evasion and excuse again and again that has become an invisible hidden danger, causing irreparable consequences, just like the appendix that each of us has, some people will never encounter it in their lifetime, and some people lose their lives because of it.....