Chapter 68: You've Lost Weight

A group of people in the Shen family's compound were torn together, each saying a word.

"The cat demon is not going to show up soon!" Shen San's daughter-in-law pointed at He Juan, she stepped forward and wanted to directly pick up a layer of skin on He Juan's body.

Although Shen Tiqing was surrounded on the spot, he still protected He Juan. "If you dare to touch Ajuan's hair, I will definitely make you feel bad!"

Shen's third daughter-in-law looked at the ruthlessness in Shen Tiqing's eyes, and couldn't help but shudder. But she didn't stop pounced on He Juan, and was grabbed by Shen Tiqing's arm and thrown to the side.

She couldn't catch He Juan, so she used Shen Tiqing's strength to pull Shen Xiu's hair next to her. She grabbed Shen Xiu's hair with one hand, and kept scratching Shen Xiu's face with the other hand, just to let her show her true face as a cat demon.

"Slut, let me catch you!

Her goal has always been Shen Xiu, and she is just trying to attract Shen Tiqing.

She hated He Juan, hated it to the core. If you want the Taoist priest to get rid of the cat demon like this, wouldn't it be cheaper for He Juan? She wants He Juan to also taste the pain of her children being beaten!

Don't you love your baby girl the most?

I'll take good care of her in front of you, and see if you feel distressed!

The more Shen San's daughter-in-law thought about it, the more she wrote to her, she only felt that the recent depression in her heart had dissipated a lot.

"Third brother and sister, don't, stop it!" Shen's third daughter-in-law heard He Juan's stop as expected, ignored it at all, and continued to start.

Before she could wait a while, Old Lady Shen also spoke. "Third daughter-in-law, what are you doing?"

Shen's third daughter-in-law was depressed, didn't the old lady usually hate ghosts the most? Why didn't she stand on my side this time?

She was depressed, and the strength of her hands was even greater. But the girl she caught didn't even snort, let alone cry.

Why don't you cry?!

Shen San's daughter-in-law used all the strength to breastfeed, and she didn't hear the cry, and when she looked down, she saw her daughter's cheeks full of tears.

"Cher, how could it be you?"

"Mom, it hurts so much when you pinched me!" Shen Xue opened a pair of big eyes with tears in her eyes, squatted on the ground with her arms folded and cried.

Shen Xue had just been caught and pinched by her mother, her body was already weak, and Shen's third daughter-in-law was ruthless again.

Shen Xiu lowered his head, and fierceness flashed in his eyes.

"Get out of here!"

There is no cat demon at all, we have to believe in science! And who knows where this Taoist priest came from, and it is not clear whether he can believe what he says. ”

Shen Tiqing

"He Juan, what do you want to do when you stay in my house for so long?"

The mother thought that the child inherited the excellent genes of her and her husband and was a genius, she poured all her expectations into the child, arranged everything for the child, and every time she planned, she thought that it was love for her daughter, and never thought that her child was just an ordinary person. Because of her mother's strength, the girl became more and more introverted, and she silently accepted everything that her mother imposed on her, making up lessons, learning calligraphy, and learning piano..... The pressure is mounting.

In a monthly exam, the girl played abnormally, she was hiding in the room and playing with her mobile phone in a bad mood, her mother angrily pushed open the door, and angrily reprimanded her, thinking that she was sorry for her training, and threw the mobile phone out of the window, the girl suddenly had a nervous breakdown, jumped from the 17th floor, and ended her young and short life.

She left quietly like this, leaving her parents with regret and heartbreak, leaving her teachers with incomprehension, and leaving experts with condemnation. Maybe in a few years, people will gradually forget her, maybe occasionally mentioned, it's just a sentence "that girl is too poor to bear the psychology", but is that really the case?

No, no! I heard a voice crying from within.

I couldn't help but look sideways.

Suddenly, I wondered, whose fault was all this? I already had the answer in my heart.

We often say that children are too fragile and lack frustration education. What is frustration education? Many people think that it is a heavy learning task, a beating and shaming, but it is not. The real frustration education is to give them the courage to face various problems in life and accompany them to cross one hurdle after another, instead of digging a pit to let him fall down, and then let him get up on his own, if he can't get up, he is called vulnerable.

There is no respite from the class schedule, there is no relaxation of study requirements, the infinitely higher difficulty of the course, the mountain of homework, they are like machines, struggling at three points and one line; when they return home, they are faced with the reproach of their parents and the hatred on their faces.

The child's shoulders are too immature and weak, not as strong as imagined, and in the discouragement again and again, he gradually begins to become numb, and then it is irreparably heartbreaking.

A student from Huangshan No. 1 Middle School also left in such a tragic way. He was originally a school bully, an existence that was envied by everyone, he had a wealthy family, just like the male protagonist in the novel, and his life was smooth. But it is such a person, after the college entrance examination, leaving three words "I am tired", and chose to jump into the lake to end his life. Many people say that it is because of his abnormal performance in the college entrance examination, but his friend's words have revealed this mystery for everyone.

He has been manipulated by his parents all his life, going to cram schools, brushing questions, reviewing, even in his own room, he can't stop his mother's "prying eyes", and every day in addition to studying or studying, there has never been self-space. This is the original words of a friend, and we clearly understand his helplessness, he ended himself in this extreme way, ended his soul that may have been broken, and "I am tired" became his last stroke in this world.

When everything is a foregone conclusion, the grief of parents is certainly painful, but as many films say, "If regret is useful, what do you want the police to do?", why not care more and understand more when the child is still alive, instead of poking the child's heart again and again with fierce words.

If, I mean, if, when the child fails, parents can tell the child that there is more than one way, if you are tired, take a break, and then go another way, if the child's grades do not meet his own requirements, do not trap him with the tactics of the sea of questions, he will not be grateful, on the contrary, if when he is tired, hand him a glass of water, say "hard work", he will always remember you.

In this way, when he is most desperate, he at least knows that there are still people who love and care for him, and he will not go to a dead end.

Many parents say, "We were also forced, and it was the fault of the education system." "I can't deny it.

As a student, everyone is tired, but they are forced and strong to go on, and there is no way back; as a parent, a simple word of concern and greetings can not be said, is it a failure?

Parents and children are the most intimate relationship in the world, why do they repeatedly walk into the abyss of resentment? Why do good or bad grades cause children to suffer so much? Why, when they talk about love, they keep hurting?