Chapter 540: The Wonder of the Dinner

"We are all lonely, tonight, I can accompany you. ”

Hu Xi finally played the card.

She said suddenly, but Bian Xuedao was not surprised, and ordered the song "Only Dreams Come and Go" from Hu Xi, and Bian Xuedao noticed that Hu Xi was brewing a killing move tonight.

After all the calculations, it doesn't even work to kill the enemy for Bian Xuedao, and as a woman, Hu Xi only has this trick left.

Hu Xi is careful and has a poisonous eye, and she came out to sing alone, and she judged that Bian Xuedao was in a period of emotional fluctuation. So she kept using the name Guan Shunan to try to learn the Tao, and then used male and female duets to tease and learn the Tao, and finally, she threw out the temptation unhappily.

Hu Xi has always had confidence in himself.

She knew from a very young age that a woman who was usually cold and beautiful, with an elegant temperament, would crawl over with drooling as long as she took the initiative to hook her fingers, because this type of woman could satisfy men's sense of conquest to the greatest extent.

Hu Xi judged that the success rate tonight was above 70%, and to be honest, as she just said, she had a fire on her. This fire, there is heart fire and desire~ fire, just now, when she sang "Blood Like Fire", she felt a little wet...... Other men may not be able to, but she doesn't mind pouring fire on Bian Xuedao.

After Hu Xi finished speaking, he looked up at Bian Xuedao, who was standing.

Bian Xuedao put down the sleeves of his shirt that he rolled up, put on his coat, looked at Hu Xi, and said with a smile: "It is the right way for a beauty to retreat when she is at her most beautiful." ”

Hu Xi said: "Guiyin also has to eat, if you don't help me make more money, what will I eat in the second half of my life?"

Bian Xuedao asked, "Are there still few people who help you?"

Hu Xi said, "So you dislike me?"

Bian Xuedao said: "No, these days, no one is much cleaner than others." As for me, I'm not a decent gentleman, and I've never had a cleanliness habit or anything like that. The problem is, I want to have a relationship, I'm going to my girlfriend, I want to put out the fire, spend a little money all over the ......"

In the latter words, Bian Xuedao did not continue, but the meaning was already obvious.

Hu Xi was not angry, stood up, took two steps, put his hand on Bian Xuedao's shoulder, put his mouth to Bian Xuedao's ear and said: "Then don't talk about love or money, it's always okay to fight friendship cannons." ”

Smelling the perfume on Hu Xi's body, he turned his head while learning the way, looked into Hu Xi's eyes up close and said, "Do we have a friendship?"

Hu Xi touched Bian Xuedao's leg with his knee and said, "I have been detained by the police for you for more than half a month, and you actually say that?"

Bian Xuedao said: "I appreciate your ruthlessness the most, and I am most worried about your ruthlessness, so let's go back to our own homes and think of our own methods." ”

After speaking, Bian Xuedao turned around and went out, leaving Hu Xi alone in the private room.

…………

Zhu Zhichun has returned to Songjiang.

In order to accompany Zhu Zhichun to eat, Bian Xuedao pushed down a dinner with officials and businessmen.

When the two were eating at the restaurant of Shangxiu Hotel, Bian Xuedao answered no less than 5 phone calls, all of which asked him to go to dinner.

Zhu Zhichun asked, "What is so rare for you?"

Bian Xuedao said: "It's not me who is rare for them, it's Lu Guangxiao. It's boring to think of eating together every day. ”

Zhu Zhichun said: "So you used me as a shield today, and you won't go for some reason?"

Bian Xuedao said: "I said that I came to a friend. ”

Zhu Zhichun said: "The beauty of the meal is not in the meal, but in the game, when you reach a certain level, you must adapt to it, not escape it." ”

Bian Xuedao said: "It's not like you to say this!"

Zhu Zhichun waved his hand and said: "Zhengzhì is exchange, Zhengzhì is compromise, Zhengzhì is drinking, and Zhengzhì is eating." Whether you can eat, whether you know how to eat, and whether you are good at dealing with diet problems is related to whether you can be a person, whether you can do things, whether you can be an official, whether you can fight, and even whether you can win the world. ”

Bian Xuedao said: "Brother, what else, let's talk about it together." ”

Zhu Zhichun continued: "In China, dinner is a social identity system. Looking at the kind of meals that a person often eats in, you can gain insight into his interests, wealth, status, and status. Being able to participate in a certain amount of dinner means a qualification, because the more important the meaning, the more closed and the higher the level is eligible to participate. The so-called connections, the so-called circles, the so-called social relations, the so-called resources, the so-called one's energy, the so-called friendship, the so-called business and transactions, in the end, can not avoid the dinner. ”

Bian Xuedao asked: "What you taught at home, or self-enlightenment?"

Zhu Zhichun said: "Don't interrupt. The dinner is not only for others to observe you, but you can also observe others, especially when you observe others more and more in the future. ”

Bian Xuedao asked, "What do you mean?"

Zhu Zhichun said: "The enterprise is getting bigger and bigger, the communication is getting wider and wider, how can you do it without a competent helper around you." How to observe whether a person can do it? ”

"Looking at a person is nothing more than seeing the big from the small, and the dinner is the best place to know people and use people to see the subtleties. The first time you eat, depending on what seat he chooses, how he eats, and how he drinks, you can basically judge a person's vegetarian and mental nature. ”

Zhu Zhichun really taught him this time.

Zhu Haishan told him on Wutai Mountain that as the third-generation leader of the Zhu family, the burden on his shoulders is very heavy, and whether he is dealing with internal or external pressure from the family in the future, Bian Xuedao is Zhu Zhichun's strong support.

Zhu Zhichun is so desperate to grow up as much as possible, not only because he needs a strong ally, but also because he doesn't want his grandfather's huge investment to go down the drain.

After saying what he wanted to say, Zhu Zhichun took a sip of water and asked Bian Xuedao, "Is there anything you want to ask?"

Bian Xuedao said: "What do you need to pay attention to and skills when dealing with officials?"

Zhu Zhichun rubbed the water glass, thought for a while, and said: "There is a common feature of interpersonal interactions - interests, not just money, interests contain many contents, such as caring for each other, helping each other, making progress with each other, and so on. This kind of knowledge cannot be learned in the classroom, and can only be slowly experienced and explored in practice. When dealing with officials, you have to understand many rules, and you must follow these rules, otherwise, no official will dare to deal with you, and you will not benefit from it. ”

Bian Xuedao learned from the appearance of the Jianghu people in the TV series, hugged his fists and said: "I want to hear it in detail." ”

Zhu Zhichun said: "First, a platform is needed. In ancient times, it was important to pay attention to the right family, and modern people also pay attention to this, not only to get married, but also to make friends and do things. When you and the other party are not on the same platform, you have no equal right to speak, and it will be more difficult to do something. Here, there is a shortcut, which is to use friends to make friends, and how to make good use of the relationship between your friends depends on everyone's ability. Of course, at your current growth rate, it won't take a few years for the local officials to slap you. ”

Second, find out the personality type and find out the person. Officials and officials are different, and there are many differences, there are good officials, there are corrupt officials, there are capable officials, and there are people who are troublesome. To approach an official, you have to know what type of leader he belongs to, what kind of preferences he has, and what kind of official nature he is. When meeting parents and officials who are honest, positive, and dedicated to the people, when talking about work and dealings, they should put the people first and the overall situation first, and show integrity, selflessness, and positivity. As for encountering corrupt officials, it is much easier to do, this kind of official has two tendencies, one is to work for money, the other is to work for women, if he likes money, he will use silver to open the way, and if he likes women, he will give a woman who meets his appetite, or give benefits to his lover. In short, he will give him whatever he likes, as long as he finds out what he needs, there is no ununderstandable dealing. ”

Speaking of which, Zhu Zhichun answered a call from Meng Yinyun, chatted a few words, and continued the previous topic.

"Oh, the next thing is to burn incense and worship the Bodhisattva. Which god is useful to you, which god is slightly useful to you, which god is not useful at all or even counterproductive, you must carry it before burning incense. When dealing with an official, you have to know him thoroughly and know what he can do and what he can't. What he can do, you can find him, what you can't do, don't be embarrassed for him, even if he looks at the face of the money and reluctantly does it, it may not be successful, and there may be troubles. ”

"Also, when dealing with officials, you must pay attention to protecting yourself, and don't let yourself become a dead friend who is too fat to wear a pair of pants with him. In other words, it's okay to stand in line, don't follow too closely. Having said that, let's do legitimate business, we don't ask them to give us much benefit, we just want to pull us back, so ......"

Speaking of this, Zhu Zhichun stopped, took a sip of water, and looked at Bian Xuedao's face.

Bian Xuedao asked, "So what?"

Zhu Zhichun said: "You are too close to Lu Guangxiao, have you ever thought about the situation after Lu Guangxiao's term of office expires and he is transferred?"

While learning the Tao lowered his eyes and thought.

Zhu Zhichun said: "For a period of time, Songjiang will be your foundation, and it will definitely be beneficial to keep a little distance before making the company so big that no matter who takes office, it will definitely be beneficial to keep a little distance." ”

Bian Xuedao finally spoke: "Actually, I am not particularly close to Lu Guangxiao now. ”

Zhu Zhichun shook his head and said: "It's not what you say, it's everyone's opinion, if both the political and business circles in Songjiang think that you are Lu Guangxiao's person, then you are." ”

Bian Xuedao asked: "How to reverse this situation?"

Zhu Zhichun smiled and said, "Simple. ”

Bian Xuedao asked, "Divide the meat?"

Zhu Zhichun nodded and said, "The son can be taught." In addition to being used for enjoyment, the greatest function of wealth is to win people's hearts. Giving meat to everyone and tying them to you can not only dilute the jealousy of others, but also enhance each other's good feelings. ”

Bian Xuedao leaned back in his chair and said, "Sometimes I really want to be a free apartment, so as not to get entangled in these lock covers." ”

Zhu Zhichun smiled after hearing this: "At which stage you have to have a certain stage of mind, besides, do you think that when you become a princess, you will jump out of the Three Realms and not in the Five Elements?"

Bian Xuedao just wanted to refute, Zhu Zhichun picked up the phone and said: "By the way, this time I went to Europe, I had a meal with Pei Tong and Dong Xue, and I took two photos with my mobile phone during the meal, I guess you want to see it." ”

Find the photo and hand the phone to Bian Xuedao.

Bian Xuedao took it and looked at it, muttering, "Big brother, is your mobile phone pixel worthy of 2006?"

Zhu Zhichun said: "Do you talk about being a public servant every day, are you worthy of the wolf declaration on the wall of the Shangdong Club?"