The people at the table began to think about Lu Gong's words.

Li Rui also finished eating instant noodles and was listening to everyone.

After Lu Gong finished speaking, Li Rui was the first to react.

"Lu Gong, I don't understand this, you explain it to us carefully. ”

Lu Gong explained.

"This first year of marriage love, as sweet as honey, also called the honeymoon year, their own shortcomings, faults as much as possible to hide, or try to correct, the second year, feel uncomfortable, unhappy, restricted, and not free, the character back to the original, the husband and wife have a gap, the relationship fades, the third year began to quarrel, you accuse me of shortcomings, I laugh at your fault, it's useless to say, anyway, no one of the two is willing to change, the fourth year began to make trouble, drop things to vent the dissatisfaction in the heart, the fifth year, everyone is tired, tired and tired, there are children in the family to get together, no children, or the cold-blooded may leave. Men can't feel the warmth of home, women don't feel the thoughtfulness of men, men don't want to go home, women look for sympathy and comfort everywhere, this seventh year is the easiest to cheat, the eighth year gives birth to resentment, women become resentful women, talking is to accuse men of engaging in three or four outside, drinking flower wine, looking for lovers, men complain about women, children are not well managed, do not do housework, do not cook, hold a mobile phone all day long to talk about it, the ninth year is domestic violence, women are violent in language, abuse and reprimand, men are beaten by domestic violence, and in the tenth year, the husband and wife are tormented in pain, like passers-by or enemies。 ”

As soon as Lu Gong finished speaking, Li Rui applauded: "It's so good." ”

The people eating at the table looked at Li Rui with strange eyes, Li Rui slowly lowered his hand and explained: "This is what Lu Gong said." ”

Zhao Ling asked: "Why do some divorce after two or three months of marriage, and some have been fine for decades?"

Lv Gongdao: "Some are because of the combination of materials, the buyer and seller feel lost, the heart is not good, and they leave, some people's personalities are more tolerant, for the sake of children, widowed marriage, there are not many people who are really happy." ”

Zhao Ling said: "Then you have been married for almost ten years, is it the same?"

Lv Gong said: "Each plays its own way, for the sake of the children tied together, outsiders seem to be very affectionate, but in fact, sometimes they don't talk for months when they quarrel." ”

Zhao Ling said: "It's terrible, I would rather not have such a marriage." ”

At this time, Sister Ning glanced at Zhao Ling and said: "If you choose the right person, your life will be right, and if you choose the wrong person, then give up, start over, don't get married, and wait to be an old aunt, how miserable it will be." ”

Zhao Ling nodded thoughtfully.

Song Ting said: "Sister Ning, what kind of person is the right person?"

Sister Ning's eyes were also very dazed, she thought for a few breaths, sighed, and said: "First of all, this man must have an economic foundation, time to accompany him, erudite knowledge and a sense of humor, it doesn't matter if he is handsome or not, but romantic feelings must be indispensable, responsible, responsible, good-tempered, he will make you laugh when you are angry, he can listen humbly when you are unreasonable, and will often help you with housework, take care of children, educate children, and so on......"

Song Ting said: "Isn't this what every man should have?"

Sister Ning smiled bitterly, "Life will always be dull, men will always have their own friends and careers, excuses, lies, laziness, machismo, all the same." ”

Lu Gong continued: "Maybe in the first year of marriage, many men can do it, when life is exhausted of passion, the three views are different, and the incompatible personalities are exposed, there will definitely be all kinds of irreconcilable contradictions." ”

Li Rui smiled: "Forget it, it's still not married, this is too scary, this woman is looking for a husband, obviously she just wants to raise a dog, and this man can probably only raise a cat." ”

The dog is loyal, honest, obedient, scolding and not fighting back, this cat is tame, arrogant, sticking to your side to make you happy if you have nothing to do, and at night also gets into the bed to warm the bed and sleep with the owner.

But in this society, few men are willing to be dogs, and few people are willing to be cats, so most of them are unhappy.

"Sister Ning advises you two boys, work hard, don't think so much, you have no economic foundation, and if you get married, you won't be able to keep people. ”

Li Rui, Haoyu nodded.

Sister Ning said again: "I'm full." ”

After speaking, Sister Ning got up and left her seat, put away her fast food box, put it in a garbage bag, threw it into the trash can at the door, and then poured a glass of warm water next to the water dispenser and brought it into her financial office.

There is an hour and a half break at noon, and the employees lie on the table to rest for a while in the morning, and they have mental work in the afternoon.

Song Ting said: "Haoyu, don't be discouraged, not all marriages in this world are as terrible as Sister Ning and Lu Gong said, and you will always meet the right person." ”

Haoyu said: "Well, thank you." ”

Song Ting said: "I'm full, go and rest for a while." ”

Haoyu said: "Okay." ”

Song Ting then nodded with a few other people, then cleaned up her place, and left the table after the chairs were placed neatly.

Little girls always feel that getting married is to meet the right person and run a family together, while those women who are married always feel that they are marrying the wrong person, and they must keep their eyes open if they do it again.

Haoyu and Li Rui were also full, collected their leftover lunch boxes, left the table one after another, and went to sleep on their stomachs at the desk for a while.

There were Lu Gong and Zhao Ling left at the table, the two of them talked a lot, and there was still half of the meal.

Zhao Ling said: "Lu Gong, do you keep the money for your wife, or do you save it yourself?"

Lu Gong seemed to be in a bad mood and replied: "I'm also full, now go take a nap." ”

Zhao Ling saw that Lu Gong didn't answer her, so she left by herself, and she didn't take it to heart, but this Lu Gong even forgot to throw away his fast food box, and it seemed that he would have to help him throw it away later.

Whoever tells himself to eat the slowest eats, after a while, he has to wipe the table clean and set the chair in place.

It's not easy to be a woman, Zhao Ling thought to herself.

Although Zhao Ling's meal is a little cold, this does not affect her appetite, she is naturally an open-minded and optimistic person, and helping others is her style, from which she can get a lot of happiness, although many times everyone does not want to see her upright character.

After the lunch break, he officially started work at two o'clock, and Haoyu continued his picture design.

Li Rui continued to process the product information on the Internet.

Lv Gong was busy answering the phone, Song Ting was busy sorting out the information, Zhao Ling was sorting out the order information in the manager's office and classifying the orders, and Sister Ning was writing bills in the financial office.

The company gets off work at half past six, if you want to stay and work overtime, there is no overtime allowance, sales sometimes go back to the company, sometimes run farther, or eat with customers will not go back to the company, just need to talk to the manager on the phone before getting off work.

Haoyu still had a little bit to do, so he stayed to work overtime, and Li Rui also said that some information was not processed, so he also stayed to work overtime.

Sister Ning went out at about five o'clock, and returned to the company at half past five, probably to pick up the children from school, Sister Ning's children were about seven years old, staying at home, watching TV by themselves, and waiting for Sister Ning to get off work.

Sister Ning was busy for another hour, leaving work on time at half past six, Lu Gong, Song Ting, and Zhao Ling also got off work on time at half past six, and there were only two people left in the company, Haoyu and Li Rui.

Li Rui saw that everyone else was off work, and opened the game on the computer, League of Legends.

Li Rui glanced sideways at Haoyu and asked, "Do you want to have two?"

Haoyu said: "You know I don't play games. ”

Li Rui hummed and concentrated on playing his game.

Haoyu is not hungry, he has an appointment with Chen Jie to drink at night, and he can get off work after working overtime until eight o'clock, and then he will directly call Chen Jie to go to the barbecue stall to eat barbecue and drink a few beers, it feels really beautiful.

Chen Jie doesn't live very far away.

Haoyu remembered that Ye Juan should also get off work, Ye Juan's company got off work at six o'clock, half an hour earlier than Haoyu got off work, and Ye Juan usually took the bus back.

Haoyu picked up his mobile phone and opened WeChat and sent a message to Ye Juan.

"Are you free for the evening? ”

Haoyu looked at the phone screen for almost a minute, and Ye Juan didn't reply.

Haoyu put down his phone and continued to get busy.

More than ten minutes later, the WeChat message reminded Haoyu to open it.

"Thanks, no need!"

Originally, Haoyu made an appointment with Chen Jie, Chen Jie is a person who can talk better than himself, he can help himself, hoping to help persuade Ye Juan, but Ye Juan doesn't want to come out.

Haoyu sighed, put down his phone, and continued to draw.

Li Rui was playing the game and was engrossed, and he didn't pay attention to Haoyu's movements.

At eight o'clock, Haoyu's alarm clock rang, Haoyu saved the document, turned off the computer, and glanced at Li Rui, who was playing the game, "Don't play too late." ”

Li Rui snorted, which was in response to Haoyu.

Haoyu went out of the office building and called Chen Jie, asking him to come downstairs at about half past eight and go to have a barbecue together.

Chen Jie promised to arrive on time.

Haoyu took the motorcycle from the parking shed and went to where he lived.