Chapter 105: Decision-making

Zhang Chu: "Don't you pay attention to a scale when you joke? Don't you know that your words are very excessive? That is, when you look at the situation that you have support on your body, you and I only lose your hair, if you don't have other wounds on your body, there are already two more holes in your body, haven't you counted this in your heart?" See if you dare to say such a non-scale thing in the future, if you say something to me so aggressively next time, it won't be as simple as laughing off your hair on both sides, next time be careful not to make such jokes with me, do you think I look like a person who can make jokes?"

The attitude of admitting mistakes is also very sincere, hearing Zhang Chu's words, he also nodded again and again to admit his mistakes, Ming didn't want to say such things, but there was no way, who let himself have a system of death in his brain, every time he always gave himself such a difficult task, and had to carry it out, if Ming Danfan had another choice, he would not have made such ugly words, to tell the truth, he had already regretted these words very much, no matter who heard his words, he would be very angry, let alone a short-tempered Zhang Chu. 。

Zhang Chu looked at Ming's attitude of admitting his mistakes and was also very sincere, and his face was full of the word sincerity, it seems that Ming really wants to learn this kung fu in the past eleven years, so he is right

The sun is shining, warm and comfortable, how is the air there? Very polite, I am a little cloudy here, and it is already a little cloudy in the morning, but the white is all sunny and shining, and the temperature is very suitable for the autumn air, I think as autumn, this temperature is still very suitable to make people feel very comfortable, at least we northerners will feel very comfortable.

Some of our cities in the north have begun to snow, friends, so autumn has come to winter will not be far away, when I think that we will become a snow-covered ice and snow land again, such a beautiful ice city, such a beautiful ice city and snow town, then I would like to say a special welcome.

I really like that every word of yours has a profound impact on me, and this sentence makes me feel a little nervous, I have to think about this, every sentence, because it has a profound impact on others.

He can't pass the facts, so this is a true, sometimes we don't like a show, a person or a thing because we don't know how to listen to it, and if you understand it, you will naturally like it,

I hope you can help him come up with ideas, so before you call him, I want to talk to you about a very interesting topic, and you can listen to my two interesting topics until a while.

If I give him a meal, I can't give him a snack until he eats early, and the snack is also a little fruit, or the kind that the child can eat, and he will give her food before you want to eat, no matter what time it is.

But does he have so many opportunities to give snacks to the kids? Because my husband and I are busy, we let him be with the kids, but we don't go out to work, we run a shop at home, and when he and I are still together, for example, if he wants to take the kids out for a walk, he buys them for him or is still in school, on Saturdays and weeks.

I don't know how many snacks she can eat for him when she takes them to their house, but when I come back, I ask them, and sometimes he talks, and sometimes I find some, and I see them with big bags

He knows your attitude towards this kind of thing, even if you object to knowing that I have also communicated with him, and my husband has also communicated with him, he feels that I should do it as a grandmother to buy snacks for my children.

So how do you deal with this situation, you will isolate the child from then on, not only because of this one thing, but also from the time the child was very old when I was just born, I advocated feeding, and he secretly gave the child water if he didn't give the child water, and then he wanted to be alone with the child, and drove me and my husband to the field, and the child was with him, and he stayed in a room with the child, and only she and the child in this room, and my husband and I rushed outside, that is, when I was in confinement, did I not let you children?

That is, sometimes when he wants to play with the child, he wants to play with the child alone, is he misunderstood what he meant? He may be afraid that you are too tired, in fact, the more you ignore my mother-in-law, that is, take care of the child anyway, he takes care of the child at night, when he is busy, I am the child is here with me, but sometimes it is me and the child stay in the house well.

Then you go out for a while, I'm going to play alone with the child for a while, I don't know if he's good or not, anyway, I feel like when you started to isolate your mother-in-law from the child.

"A month, that is, a month ago, almost a month ago, in fact, the isolation is mainly because my child has a cough and cold, and the cough has not been better, so I don't want him to pass, because he is not very careful, I didn't let him go a little louder"

Second, your isolation is that he wants to come to see the child, and if you refuse, you won't let him come to see the child anymore, and you won't let him be with the child, right?

"No, I just didn't take the initiative to send the child over, I didn't object to him coming to see him, but he didn't come to see him again, do you know that you have a big opinion about all this? Actually, I have a big opinion of him personally."

But I didn't say it to him, you just don't show your actions in your words, even your expressions, every one of your expression lines and your nasolabial folds will make this matter clear to her, we don't have such good expression management, I hear a lot of people like you when communicating with me, I don't show it or what.

I thought at the time that you have such a powerful expression to manage what you think in your heart, you won't write it on your face and won't show it.

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"Others can't see it, you think others can't see it, do you have such good perseverance for this? Do you have such good willpower? Hide all your joys, sorrows, sorrows, and sorrows tightly, you think others can't see it, in fact, others may see it clearly from the side, you like or dislike your aura."

Every time you look at you and every time the corners of your mouth go up or down, people know that I don't show it, as if I am innocent, others can understand it.

"If you think about it from a different perspective, there is a person who likes you or doesn't like you, and he doesn't like anything, you can also understand, in fact, my opinion on her is mainly a mess of things, but I think my opinion with him is not as important as the child, because I put the child first. ”

And what kind of attitude do you have towards this? Because my mother-in-law had an operation when we got married before, we were very careful as a family and tried not to make him angry, so my husband was very tactful with him in dealing with these issues."

It's just to try not to make him unhappy, but if you don't listen to him, I won't listen, you mean that your husband is on your side, including you and your husband, that is, you don't take the children to your mother-in-law's place, and you don't invite your mother-in-law over, and your husband doesn't have too much.

Because he also knows that some of my mother-in-law's ways with the child are wrong, then the two of you are a new one, but we don't go too far, just don't let the two of them come, don't let what, I also told my husband and my mother-in-law, you don't give the child some messy snacks.

"We want to let him eat and grow is good for his body, we let him eat, so your question today is that you have refused to let your mother-in-law be with the child for a while, do you want to let her take a look at the child appropriately, although you put this matter on the table."

I picked it very innocently, my mother-in-law came to the house to see the child, I have no objection, but, I didn't take the initiative to take the child to him, I just took the topic I liked, I beat you with words, in fact, I don't know if you listened, listen to it No one is stupid, you don't like your mother-in-law in many places dissatisfied with him, and even hate him for approaching your child to do you no.

In fact, he can see that he is embarrassed to come, people can come, come and see your face, you are no different from directly rejecting her. No matter how old you are, you will have a sense of truth and insult. And he's a cancer rehabilitator. He must have loved his grandson very much, but the child's mother disliked him so much, was so dissatisfied with him, and didn't welcome him to go, he couldn't put down his body and pull down his face to see your face, so he had to go, not because he didn't want to come, he must miss his grandson very much.

Have you ever thought about her feelings? I have thought about his feelings, in fact, I also have my own selfishness, that is, I hate him very much, I am honest, I really hate him, because some of the things he has done to me from marriage to having children make me very sad. If your husband knows, it will affect the relationship between the two of you as husband and wife, and you tell your husband that I hate your mother.

Do you know what makes people think, what's the difference between you and directly hating me? I haven't told him, can't you see it when the time comes? Is his heart stupid? Do you have such a good sentence, such a good expression management, can't he see that you hate him? It's me who should buy things for them in normal times, such as the New Year's holiday, I still emphasize my expression, the management is very good, so he shouldn't be able to see it, my husband can't see it, it seems that you not only think your mother-in-law is stupid, you think your husband is also stupid, everyone can't see it and know it's right, so I remind you, if your husband's family has a benevolent heart, you hate my mother so much.