When Ye Xiaobai heard this, he couldn't help but raise his eyebrows,

"A good thought is not bound by the laws of the world and is the master of his own heart, but unfortunately how many people in this world can do it?

People are social, they always have to communicate with the people around them, and they are limited by morality and law, even if you can ignore these, but the family and friends around you can't reach this level, and in order to maintain that feeling, you can only compromise in the end!"

When Ye Xiaobai said this, he was naturally thinking about his own emotional problems. Pen @ fun @ pavilion wWw. ｂｉｑUｇE。 ｉｎｆｏ

Now he is trapped between Lin Qingwei, Yu Weiwei, and Linglong, every time he thinks about it, his head is a mess, and he doesn't know what to do, how easy is it to be the master of his own heart......

Nalan Rouyun looked at Ye Xiaobai's expression in her eyes, her eyes narrowed into a crescent moon, and said with a smile:

"Brother Xiaobai, it seems that you are experiencing some troubles, right? Why don't you talk to me, maybe I can help you answer it!"

Ye Xiaobai couldn't help but sigh secretly that Nalan Rouyun had a keen intuition, and after thinking for a while, he finally said his affairs slowly.

Even he couldn't say why, he had only met Nalan Rouyun twice, but like an old friend for many years, he felt that it seemed normal to tell her about his private emotional problems.

What's more, in the face of such a temperamental beauty like Nalan Rouyun, Ye Xiaobai has never had a trace of evil thoughts!

I have to say, it feels really weird!

Could it be that this is the legendary confidante?

An existence that transcends the love between men and women?

He had never believed that such feelings would exist before, but now he began to believe in them.

……

soon

Ye Xiaobai told all his troubles in one go,

When she heard that Ye Xiaobai already had a wife, Nalan Rouyun was slightly stunned, but soon returned to normal.

By the time Ye Xiaobai finished talking about his affairs, Nalan Rouyun had already giggled,

"I didn't expect you to be a merry person!

Ye Xiaobai feigned anger and said:

"I'm dying of sorrow, Sister Nalan, you're still laughing!

Nalan Rouyun hurriedly stopped laughing and said:

"Okay, okay, I don't laugh, you go on!"

"No, that's all, I don't know what to do now, I hope Sister Nalan can guide me!"

Nalan Rouyun pondered for a moment before he spoke:

"If you look at today's society, law and morality, your behavior should be the legendary scumbag ......"

Ye Xiaobai's face suddenly darkened,

"Sister Nalan, why are you scolding?"

Nalan Rouyun smiled:

"Don't interrupt me, listen to me slowly give you an analysis!"

"Okay, then you go ahead!"

Nalan Rouyun paused slightly, and then said:

"But from a biological point of view, it's fine.

It is difficult for a person, especially a man, to like only one woman in his life, and women are actually the same, most of the time, they are just subject to the constraints of law and morality.

I don't think you have to pay too much attention to the eyes of those worldly people.

In fact, those moral clauses and legal norms are also produced by the self-interested purpose of human beings, and they may not be born out of true benevolence.

Because these things can be in line with the interests of the majority of people, or the interests of those in power, they have a basis for existence.

For example, in ancient times, because it was a patriarchal society, women were reduced to vassals of men, and men could have three wives and four concubines, because this kind of rule is more in line with the interests of social subjects!

Was there no love at that time?

In the same way, the reason why it is monogamous now is also because it is more in line with the values of the subject of society......"

Ye Xiaobai was a little dizzy when he heard it, and couldn't help but interrupt, and said with a smile:

"That...... Sister Nalan, what you said is a bit profound, can you talk about it in a simple and popular way?"

Nalan Rouyun took a deep breath, pondered for a moment, and then said:

"Then I'll be straightforward! Your current situation is nothing more than two ways to choose!"

"Which two?"

"The first way, obey the rules of this society, be ruthless, forget all the other two women, honestly guard your wife's life, and don't have any wrong thoughts!

Ye Xiaobai thought about it and said:

"It seems a little hard...... I admit that I am very careful, but I am sincere to each of them, and I don't want any of them to be hurt...... And what about the second way?"

Nalan Rouyun then said:

"As for the second way, it is to get rid of the constraints of this social rule and let the three of them accept each other, just like the ancient way.

In fact, in reality, especially those big families, this situation is not uncommon, as long as they can get along with each other, it is not possible to talk about who suffers and who takes advantage.

Feelings are such a thing, it is like drinking water, cold and warm self-knowing, as long as you can live happily, the rules can be completely made by yourself!"

Ye Xiaobai's heart jumped suddenly when he listened,

To be honest, once, he really had this kind of idea, but in the end he vetoed it.

Because, whether it is Lin Qingwei, Yu Weiwei, or Linglong, the three of them are very strong women in their bones, and it is impossible to share a man with other women.

Moreover, Ye Xiaobai also felt that it was too shameless to do so, although this was only from a secular point of view.

Thinking of this, Ye Xiaobai said with a sad face:

"The second way, I thought, but unfortunately it's impossible!"

Nalan Rouyun smiled:

"Man can do what he wants, but he can't think what he thinks, everything in the world is just the appearance of an illusory will, instead of cowering and looking ahead, it is better to follow his own heart and give it a go, so that it is more interesting."

What is morality? What are rules? It's just the shackles imposed on you by the outside world, so why care too much about it?......

After Ye Xiaobai heard Nalan Rouyun's words, he suddenly looked shocked,

Nalan Rouyun's words sounded a little absurd at first glance, but after thinking about it, the more he thought about it, the more profound he felt.

The rules are all made by people, so why can't I break them?

If it is unfair to the three of them to divide the relationship into three, then I will be ten or a hundred times better to them to make up for this unfairness!

Thinking of this, Ye Xiaobai was shocked by such a bold idea.

He had to admit that although he knew it was shameless, in his heart, he still preferred the second way!

Seeing Ye Xiaobai's expression, Nalan Rouyun couldn't help but smile and said:

"It seems that you already have a choice in your heart, and sure enough, you men are all big turnips, eating from the bowl and thinking about the pot!

However, I also want to remind you that if you choose to follow your own heart, you will encounter a lot of resistance in the future, and you will definitely be in trouble, as for whether you can succeed or not, it depends on your own ability!