Chapter 452: Compatible Lovers: You Make Me Proud
However, no matter what kind of pair of lovers it is, it is generally perfect during the love period, and even if you change an object, you will find that it is almost the same, the difference is not obvious, and you can still get along, because, during the love period, both men and women are a little blind and will ignore some problems between each other that may not be able to tolerate it at all in the future.
At this time, even if they have a heart, many people will ignore it rashly and continue to develop their feelings by leaps and bounds, until their passion is soon exhausted.
Then it's very simple, either break up, or reluctantly, walk into the unhappy circle that you dug with your own hands, and fall into the grave......
From now on, I will no longer believe in love......
Of course, this is not to say that there are no problems between lovers, the key is that the problem arises, whether the two people can communicate correctly to solve the problem properly, instead of making the problem bigger and more hopeless......
Is it to complain about each other, torture each other, and escape so much that people want to go crazy, or are they working together and solving it easily, and it is very comfortable to solve it......
It's a subtle feeling, I can't say it, but you must have understood it in your own heart at the time......
To make a specific analogy, for example, if you have a quarrel with each other, how long it will take for you to get together, this can be used as an indicator.
Within the day, excellent lovers.
The next day, good type lovers.
A few days of the Cold War inexplicably reconciled, to put it bluntly, that is, it will be over, and there is a problematic type. You can also have a very warm and loving time;
The prolonged cold war has led to a mental madness between each other, affecting work, career, family and social relations, this kind of ......
to the worst and most extreme, probably the "life and money" type.
Most families are in the first three.
Of course, that's just one of the statements. Specifically, how the two get along with each other, I believe that I have feelings in my heart, and I will not be blind forever......
It can be seen that because of this, it is even more important to find a lover with a compatible personality and no obstacles to communication.
I'm not afraid of something, but I'm afraid that after something, the relationship between the two will be ruined, and the family and career will be messed up, which is terrible.
Since it is a family, when you walk into a family, you will work together to solve things beautifully, so as not to let each other's body and mind be suppressed and tortured, and minimize the loss of "happiness" in this regard......
It seems that most of the quarrels between lovers and husbands and wives are not absolutely irreconcilable, and most of the time, aren't the examples of love minus points all trivial things and small disputes?
Therefore, Youzishi was even more moved, and wanted to say to Su Yin, it's good to know you.
When two people are together, even when they are frustrated with each other, when they are in a bad mood, when something happens at home, or when the program team is bullied and suppressed, they have not affected each other's learning and life because of these. And all this is thanks to the agreement between the two after Su Yin was jealous and angry - they were frank and transparent enough with each other......
Whether it can be done completely or not, whether it can be done or not, both people are at least working towards the same goal......
Don't let those worldly strife cover up the little beauty and sweetness in life......
Try to keep it in a romantic style......
Even when Su Yin was in the most depressed mood, so low that she couldn't even face Youzishi, she made it clear to Youzishi frankly, and chose to stay alone in the house, drying her sad and moldy mood......
And Youzishi also chose to accept it, instead of forcing it!
didn't use his own methods and preferences to forcibly change Su Yin's decision!
She just wants to be quiet, you can't just ask her, "Who is she......
Sometimes it's fun, and sometimes it's like you're just frivolous and don't care enough......
Moreover, the love affair between Su Yin and You Zishi is actually not easy enough. As Youzishi's mother Mu Ru said, Su Yin is very good, although her family background is also very ordinary, but she is a girl, she can easily get what she wants, she can soar overnight, become a noblewoman, and become a master, but Youzishi cannot.
Youzishi's family background is ordinary, his parents are low-level salarymen, and if he wants to climb up, he has to rely on his own efforts, or he is mediocre and ordinary for a lifetime.
After all, sometimes, the ordinary and the mediocre are tied together. Often, ordinary also means mediocre. Only upstream people, ordinary is just ordinary.
Therefore, in terms of starting point and prospect, Youzi's poems and Su Yin are not equal. That's why his mother was worried about Youzishi and wanted him to let go.
Even if Su Yin has a good personality and is pretty, even if her nature is good, it is difficult to guarantee that she will not become a "disaster", no matter inside or outside the circle, don't say too few people who are "curious" about her.
However, the wandering poem still locked on Su Yin, and Su Yin also firmly believed in the wandering poem. Each other holds a simple belief that the love between us, at least so far, is right!
You Zishi likes Su Yin's appearance, appearance, figure, personality, likes her laughter and naughtiness, likes to listen to her talk and sing, likes everything about her, and will not make some pretending to be deep and pretending to be forced because of each other's place or changes in the outside world......
For example, in the most common film and television scenes, the hero says to the heroine who is excellent and just wants to follow him to find happiness, I'm sorry, you're too good, I'm really not worthy of you, I can't have you......
Or I'm sorry, for your future, for your family, because your father came to me, give me a million and let me get out of here, I don't have any money but I'm still going to get out of the way......
Or really, really sorry, dear, you don't know, I'm sick or seriously ill, and I'm going to die soon, but at the end of the TV series, I haven't died yet, and I keep dangling under the woman's nose, and I don't know what I want to do, what kind of heart I want to do......
In this way, the lotus root is broken and pretending to be forced, and there are dozens of episodes of love and love and life and death......
Guys, if we really get together in the end, will there be a happy love, I really doubt it......
Rejection itself is the biggest harm, not to mention, it all rejects your sister, you are still in the world of women......
Walking away completely is a real man!
Since I love you, I will not only believe, but I will also work hard to create happiness within my power for you, and create a country for you that may be flawed but still good enough......
Doing these things with you is happiness!
This is self-confidence, this is domineering! This is a man!
Women are not objects, you can't help pushing them around, giving them to others for a while, and wanting to come back for a while, is this appropriate?
How about you kick a ball, kid?
(End of chapter)