Don't think that being a person and doing things is very simple, in fact, many people can't learn to be a person and do things in their lives.

Especially in the modern workplace, being able to be a person and doing things determines whether your life in this life is rich and prosperous, or whether you are conscientiously struggling on the food and clothing line.

You don't see that many people have just joined the company, just like sesame seeds blooming, and soon become leaders, then big leaders, and then jump ship to become bigger leaders.

And some people, after five years and ten years of employment, basically do not move in position, and they will always be the lowest position in the company, and they have unknowingly become old fritters.

Carefully compare the gap between them, the ability is not much different, the difference is actually only in four words: be a person and do things.

To be a man, you must know how to do things, and you must pay attention to the method of doing things.

The secret in the workplace is really only one sentence: do the right thing with the right person.

For example, Miao Yin and Miao Yue, the swordsmanship and martial arts of the two are not much different, and the age difference is not far behind, and at the same time, they followed Liu Xi down the mountain to enter the WTO, and Liu Xi's feelings for the two are almost no different.

However, Miao Yin has already begun to think about how to run a kendo gym, how to deal with it after encountering something, and how to deal with it better?

And, after careful analysis, she found a suitable time to give Liu Xi a reasonable suggestion.

Instead of refuting Liu Xi's decision in front of everyone, nor putting forward his own suggestions in front of others to show how smart he is and how incompetent the leader is.

This is very good, so good that Liu Xi was greatly surprised.

Liu Xi personally poured a cup of tea and handed it to Miaoyin.

Miao Yin was flattered and took it and hurriedly thanked her.

Liu Xi said with a smile: "Miaoyin, you really didn't disappoint me, and you made rapid progress." ”

Miao Yin blushed and said, "Uncle Shi, you have taught it well. ”

Liu Xi laughed when he heard this, and it seemed that he would soon be able to hand over this kendo hall to Xiao Chunyangguan to run it himself.

"Okay, let me answer your question first, why do I have to treat those martial artists who come to kick the gym so toughly, instead of using more gentle and delicate means?"

Miao Yin hurriedly put down the teacup and listened carefully.

"First of all, we opened a kendo gym. From ancient times to the present, there is no first martial arts and no second, and the reputation of the martial arts hall is all based on fighting. Secondly, we seem to have inadvertently offended the vice president of the martial arts association, and these martial artists who came to kick the gym were all arranged by the vice president. So whether we treat them toughly or mildly, nothing will change. On the contrary, if we are too gentle, we will be thought by the other party to be cowardly and bullied, and we will become more and more serious. ”

"Again, I have to use this kind of tough means to achieve the purpose of propaganda. Nowadays people are different, it is not a big deal to see the excitement, only by really making things bigger, can we attract more people's attention. In order to let the most people know about our kendo gym in the shortest time, understand our kendo gym, and then join our kendo gym. ”

"What is the purpose of learning martial arts? In fact, to put it bluntly, it is not to be bullied. Therefore, the tougher and more resolute our response, the more we can be recognized by those who truly study martial arts. And the more masters we beat, the more we can prove that our tuition is worth it. ”

At the same time, it was also to deter the vice president of the martial arts association and other martial artists who wanted to come to the gym. Our kendo gym is not easy to play, and if you lose, you have to pay a price. Come and go as you want, and there are no doors. ”

Liu Xi said a long list in one breath, and then looked at Miaoyin seriously and asked, "Miaoyin, do you understand now?"

Miaoyin was silent, analyzing the reasons for Liu Xi's words bit by bit, and had to admit that Liu Xi's approach couldn't find faults, and it was very reasonable.

Still, she thinks she's doing a good job. may not be as hearty as Liu Xi's approach, and the effect of publicity is not so immediate. However, the gentle approach seems to be steady and steady, and there is no need to worry about being attacked by others with words such as arrogance.

On the contrary, if you have a good relationship with the martial arts celebrities in the martial arts world, over time, the kendo hall will naturally be recognized by them, officially integrate into the modern martial arts world, and become an inseparable member of it.

Liu Xi only glanced at Miaoyin and understood what she was thinking.

In this regard, she was still not angry, but even more happy.

To be a leader with ideas, you must first be stubborn.

Being easily persuaded by a few words, and then changing one's strategy, is a sign of not being assertive.

Liu Xi patted Miaoyin's shoulder and said with a smile: "It's not impossible to value harmony." However, the word 'harmony' is very particular, and it is not us who ask for peace with them, but they must ask us for peace. I believe that after we defeat this kicking solitaire, the other party should want to make peace with us. ”

"Of course, you don't have to agree with me. Everyone has their own way of doing things, and it is also related to their own experience, personality and ability, and it cannot be exactly the same. All roads lead to Rome, you just have to feel that you are doing the right thing, or that your method can solve the problem, then you can let it go. ”

Liu Xi glanced at Miaoyin deeply: "Remember, it's better to do than not to do it, even if it's wrong." ”

Miaoyin immediately stood up, bowed to Liu Xi, and replied seriously: "Obey the teachings of my uncle." ”

"Okay, okay, you're just too serious to be fun at all. I'm going to take a nap, you go out first. ”

Liu Xi waved his hand and sent Miaoyin out.

After Miaoyin went out, Liu Xi felt that the burden on his shoulders seemed to be a little lighter, and it seemed that this kendo hall would not be handed over to Miaoyin in a short time.

She doesn't think there's anything wrong with Miaoyin's idea of "valuing harmony and convincing people with virtue", nor does she think Miaoyin's decision-making is too cowardly.

On the contrary, Liu Xi felt that Miaoyin's forbearance and steady personality were enough to take on the responsibility.

Miao Yin is not herself, she does not have the strong strength and ability of the Foundation Building Period Monk, nor is she the adjudicator of the Alien Freedom Alliance organization, nor is she the captain of the sixth detachment of the National Security Bureau's Abnormal Ability Group.

She is just a little Taoist priest in the Taoist temple in the mountain, carrying the burden of inheriting the Taoist system for her master, and taking care of the three junior sisters who are younger than herself.

If she learns from Liu Xi to behave in such a high-profile way, but she doesn't have Liu Xi's skills and connections, if Liu Xi is not in charge, the kendo hall will really be forced to close if it doesn't open for a few days.

If she learns from Liu Xi to behave in such a high-profile way, but she doesn't have Liu Xi's skills and connections, if Liu Xi is not in charge, the kendo hall will really be forced to close if it doesn't open for a few days.