"So, in the end, we stopped communicating, we stopped trying to satisfy them, we didn't back down anymore, we chose to treat it coldly, they said that if they want to break off the relationship, then break off the relationship, we will still pay child support, whether they want to or not, if we have to torture each other again, we can't have children, that's it, so, that's it, we swear that we don't want to be such arbitrary parents, don't be like this, treat children as pets but still say righteously, it's for loving parents, we don't want that, don't treat children as accessories, as property……”

"And we know very well that with the traditional education and secular cognition we have received for so many years, as well as the character in our own blood, we may not be able to do the kind of desire we want after giving birth to a child, so we simply chose to be the real Dink family, in the same way that the media and the public said before, we are like cold-blooded animals, yes, we simply become cold-blooded animals, haha......"

Xiao Zhang and Xiao Li recounted what happened two years ago, and although they seemed to be calm, You Zishi could still feel the sigh in their hearts between their words.

You Zishi believes that in fact, they don't want to do this either, but sometimes, life will force you to become what you may not have thought about before.

Xiaobai was also dumbfounded, and exclaimed: "I really admire you, you can do it to such an extent, without having children, and not recognizing your parents' ......."

Bai Xiaobo couldn't understand the actions and choices of the two at all, because she knew that she couldn't disobey her parents. It's okay to make a little noise, but it is impossible for her to cut off her relationship with her parents like the two of them and stick to her own cognition and path.

"Actually, we don't want to, if they give up their attitude and can respect each other, we are not really cold-blooded......" Xiao Zhang and Xiao Li explained.

"Your parents have worked hard for you all their lives, they love you so much, and they have paid so much for you, even everything, how can you chill their hearts like this?" Xiaobai felt that he couldn't accept such a "Dink" at all.

"So, if there is a man in this world who loves you with all his might, gives everything for you, and even that kind of love becomes deformed, making you feel suppressed and shackled, may I ask, will you choose to accept him, tolerate him, indulge him, let yourself indulge in that extreme and distorted, or will you soberly reject him?"

"I want to ...... I will refuse!"

"Why aren't you afraid it will chill his heart, why are you so cruel...... He has given everything for you, there is no one in this world who loves you more than him, why do you do this?"

"That's different! It's completely different! Even if a man loves you again, but he has no blood relationship with you, but his parents are different, this is a natural blood relationship, En is higher than the sky, and love is heavier than the mountain......

"Oh, according to what you say, can I understand that in your cognition, marriage is far less rich and stable than family relationship?"

"I, I don't know ......"

"Then why, you would rather hurt a man who loves you, but you can't chill the hearts of your parents? Doesn't this mean that in your cognition, marriage is not as important as family relationship? Isn't there a definite status contrast, family affection is greater than love...... Taking that assumption from the previous one, let me put it another way, if your lover had a conflict with your parents, who would you be more willing and willing to choose to support?"

"This assumption is too unreasonable, first of all, of course, it is to talk about things and see what is going on, and secondly, even if the parents are wrong, they should be let be, right?"

"Well, you're right, but let me correct our assumption again, in this hypothesis, there is no right or wrong thing, or the wrong party is more likely to be because of your parents, and this contradiction is likely to be difficult to reconcile, not the usual nagging and scolding you, so that you can listen to it and finish it, then, who will you support?"

"I, I don't know...... I want to ask, why does my lover have to do something to make his parents angry? Why can't he ...... Can't be a little more mature?" Bai Xiaobo said.

"Be mature? Do you mean to be a turtle with a shrunken head all the time, allowing others to interfere in your life, but never being able to have your own opinions? Why do you have to do something to make your parents angry? For example, I like to eat durian, you don't like to eat it or even hate it, sometimes the contradiction is such a simple thing, it is not who wants, wants or deliberately ...... it"

"If you love durian, you can hide, don't you just let people find out?"

"Not everything can be backed down and hidden......"

"So, why don't you quit......"

"Why do I have to quit? It's a natural preference......

"You love each other, so you can quit ...... for the sake of the other person."

"Here's the problem! Either you don't love me, or if you love me, why do I have to quit my natural habits again and again, instead of you being a little more tolerant?"

"You...... This one...... Since they are your parents, since they love you and you love them, you have to listen to them, you have to be aware of this, do you understand all good and filial piety first......"

"Do you mean that between parents and children, they are already destined to follow the same so-called human model forever, just because they have inherited their blood and genes to you, and you can't even choose to refuse or accept it......?

"I, I only know that my parents are the greatest, they are the people who love us the most in this world, and they will not harm me, so their status in my heart is the most important......" Bai Xiaobo muttered.

"So, what about your lover, if you have a lover in the future, how will the relationship between this status be arranged?"

"Of course, the parents are the most important! If I don't listen to them, what are they doing when they give birth to my child and my daughter?"

"What if I have a child?"

"Parents and children are the most important, followed by lovers ......"

In your mouth, the lover has become the least important link, just because the other party is not related to you by blood, so it is not as good as your parents, and after having a child, you are not as good as a child, but you have not thought that the man or woman who was in an awkward position in the family relationship and was not related by blood is one of the two closest to the child in the future, isn't it a ridiculous thing? Isn't this kind of family relationship deformed? In the mutual cognition of both parents, the other party has no blood relationship with themselves, and they are not the closest people, everyone holds such a concept, but they instill their own children, so that the children think that they are the closest people to them, the greatest people, and even consciously and secretly compete with each other for the intimate relationship with the children, there is really no hidden danger, is it really not ridiculous?