For the arrangement of the song, the wandering poem is carefully considered, a song "It's good to go home" to the family, and fellow villagers, so that they can understand their own feelings of caring for the family, at the same time, another song "The Other Shore", tell the mother, the mother is more defeated, if the child is reluctant to go far away, can not see the child wronged, can not stand the setback, then, the child is destined not to grow, difficult to have a chance, even if you love your family and love home, a person should have their own pursuit and the sky, right?

After the two songs were sung, the wandering poem temporarily withdrew from the rest. The audience who originally had a wait-and-see attitude was immediately convinced, applauding loudly, and the young people kept shouting the name of Youzishi, screaming for him, shouting for him, hoping that he would return to Taiwan.

Next, Li Xiang took the stage and sang a song prepared for him by a wanderer's poem, "Understand You".

"You leave quietly

Step by step lonely back

I want to be with you

Tell you how much I love you in my heart

Flowers bloom quietly

In the night when I suddenly thought of you

I want to tell you

Actually, you've always been a miracle to me

Year after year, the wind and frost covered the smile

Who can still understand your lonely heart?

Is it the spring flowers and autumn moon ruthless

Spring goes to autumn, and your love is silent

Give me all your love

Gave me the world

From now on, I don't know the bitterness and joy in your heart

I want to be close to you

Tell you that I actually always understood you......"

Li Xiang sang very hard and devoted. He has no stage experience, although he usually likes to listen to songs and sing, but he is all free to hum and shout, so he doesn't grasp the rhythm very well, and he is a bit of a snap, but it doesn't matter, his voice and singing skills are not bad, after all, his usual love has played a role and has a foundation, therefore, this song also performed well and won everyone's heartfelt love.

This song is sung to parents, the title of the song, "Understand You", reflects that even if the adult children have not expressed their love to their parents directly, but, in fact, everyone knows each other tacitly, and truly "understands you"......

Maybe I was young and ignorant, I didn't understand the pain and joy in your heart, you gave me all your world, but I fell into the back of loneliness and loneliness, so people often say that father's love is like a mountain, and mother's love is the greatest in the world......

Just like Li Xiang in the past, he once misunderstood his father like his mother, didn't understand what he did, and didn't understand whether he loved me or not, so he began to ignore the relationship with his father, and sometimes even faintly felt hatred for him, why was he so far away from his father......

Why is he such a stubborn and unapproachable father......

When he gradually grew up, he slowly understood, in fact, the misunderstanding of his father came from himself, from his own wrong cognition, behind his father's stubborn back, in fact, there is also a gentle affection like a mother, but it is not easy to express between father and son, so let the naïve self mistakenly think that only mother is good in the world, and father is fierce and angry in memory......

It's so scary......

In fact, many times, the terrible memory of my father is mostly due to his sense of responsibility, not to hope that his son will become a dragon, but to hate iron and become strong......

Especially the combination of a loving mother and a strict father......

If everyone in a family has no principles, then it is not good for the growth of children...... There's always someone who has to take on a not-so-endearing role......

Moreover, no matter what you say, no matter whether men and women are equal or not, no matter how high the status of women and how important they play, in most families, it is often the father who bears the burden of the family......

They tend to endure more......

Everyone knows how to protect a weak mother, but who remembers the loneliness of his father?

When the father is like the man sung in "It's Good to Go Home", the phone is constantly noisy, the boss keeps making noise, and he can't escape the worksheet and can't get rid of it, when they are lost, irritable and helpless, when they also need the care of their wives and children like children, when they accidentally lose control and show their uncute faces to their families, how many wives and children remember to pay attention to their "husbands" and "fathers" The pressure and pain behind it, on the contrary, are easy to remember his angry face when he is out of control......

The premise of "It's Good to Go Home" is that the family is for each other, and when someone falls into loss, mania, or even madness, they can care for him, love him, like a child, and pull him back on the right track, instead of disgusting......

That's how good it is to go home.

Otherwise, it is easy for everyone to see the mother's forbearance, but how many people have been considerate of the father's forbearance?

When many children see their fathers yelling at their mothers, and at the same time resentfully scolding them for domestic violence, how many wives and children have considered whether their own side has also inflicted the same cold violence on their fathers that cannot be ignored and unbearable, and can make people crazy?

The world is often prone to sympathy for the weak, and at a glance, women and children are of course weak, and men who cannot hold women and children in the palm of their hands all the time become sinners and demons......

When a man who cares about his family becomes ugly, it shouldn't be his fault alone.

This is a truth that Li Xiang finally figured out at the age of twenty-three or four, and he had not thought about it carefully in the past.

"Give me all your love

Gave me the world

From now on, I don't know the bitterness and joy in your heart

I want to be close to you

Snuggle up in your warm, lonely arms

I want to tell you

Your loneliness hurts my heart together"

Li Xiang sang the last song.

You Zishi arranged this song for Li Xiang to sing, which was intentional. Because Li Xiang's parents, like many people's parents, are representative.

The mother's resentment sways the child's perspective, because of sympathy for the weak mother, which gives rise to hatred for the seemingly powerful and domineering father, resulting in the family being estranged and becoming more and more inclose.

You Zishi has often seen all kinds of chicken soup for the soul in many places such as scarves and circle of friends, and has also seen many seemingly correct life insights, including some debates about who is more tired, who suffers more, and who is greater between men and women......

And most of the rhetoric is biased, the tone is intense, as if all the men in the world are garbage, all are lower body animals, shouting that men are reliable, and sows will go up trees......

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Say a few words: this book is suitable for readers who are a little older and a little more mature in psychology, if they are too young and have no experience, then they have a good understanding and sensibility, in short, they like this book and read with them, there is no doubt that they are excellent readers with high IQ, high emotional intelligence, and high reverse quotient, and they are elites......

Ha ha. That's true.

"Understand You", sung by Man Wenjun.

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