Chapter 1402: Engaged!?
Xu Le's age is indeed not too big,
In the eyes of the lieutenant colonel, Xu Le is indeed very much like the recruit led by the middle-aged officer.
merely
Xu Le is a pervert after all, and he can't be estimated by common sense. γFengyun Reading Network.γ
After all, the special operations team that Xu Le was originally in was originally only collecting demons!
Look at how old Xu Lecai is,
Look at the middle-aged officer who once participated in the screening of the special operations team, but failed to make the list,
Even though he has been defeated, he has still become a lieutenant colonel!
Such talents, who have not been able to enter the special operations team, are more and more able to prove the perversion of the special operations team!
About another hour or so passed,
The forbidden team,
At ten o'clock, the official assembly is completed, and the bus is on time to set off!
There is not much parting crying, complaining to each other,
Liu's mother, Liu Qian, and Zou Yu's family did not cry.
I just can't help but feel a little sentimental.
The train slowly left the train station in the sound of "woo woo",
The crowd said a few casual words,
Mood is not high,
They dispersed.
Xu Le drove and sent Liu Qian's mother and daughter home,
Today, Xu Le took a leave of absence and didn't go to work.
Have lunch at Liu Qian's house.
Liu Qian went to the kitchen to work,
Liu's mother was talking to Xu Le.
"Xiaole, I've worked hard for you, Liu Cheng's matter has made you worry about it. β
"Auntie, you are too polite, these are all things I should do. β
"I'm old, and I can't help their siblings at all, but I always hold them back!...... After so many years, I have wronged the two children. β
When Xu Le heard this, he said: "Auntie, don't think so, in fact, as long as you take care of your body, as long as you are still alive, for Liu Qian and Liu Cheng, it is a thought, and there is a rush! Unlike me, except for a younger sister at home, there are no other relatives at home, and they are always alone and lonely." β
Mother Liu glanced at Xu Le with satisfaction, and said kindly:
"It's okay, we will be a family in the future, we will be your relatives!
Xu Le couldn't help but hesitate slightly!
The mother-in-law took the initiative to mention the matter of marriage, which was originally a good thing.
Moreover, Liu's mother has always been very reasonable, and she has never been sad about Xu Le, but she is considerate everywhere.
Such a mother-in-law is really rare,
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Speaking of the matter of marriage, it was a little embarrassing for Xu Le.
There is no other reason, there are too many women around Xu Le!
Moreover, with Xu Le's current status in Jiangye City, such a thing as a marriage, no matter how low-key Xu Le is, it is impossible to hide it from everyone.
let alone
Xu Le does not intend to wronged Liu Qian, he will inevitably do a special event,
But if the teacher moves the people,
How can you make Ma Xiaoqing, Gege, Yu Yingying, Jun Nannan and others embarrassed?
Seeing that Xu Le didn't answer for a long time, Liu's mother was slightly displeased, and said suspiciously:
"What's the matter? Xu Le, aren't you willing to marry our family?"
That's a very unkind thing to say!
Sensei's tone was steady, but the implication was to ask, could you Xu Le be trying to play with our daughter?
Just when Xu Le's face was full of embarrassment,
Liu Qian, who was blushing with shame, suddenly came over and interjected:
"Mom!! what are you talking about? I'm still young! Besides, when you talk about engagement in the future, can you not talk about it in front of me?"
"You Nizi, do you know how to be shy?"
Mother Liu scolded with a smile, and then said kindly: "Okay, it's all up to you, I'm not too nosy, okay?"
After Liu Qian said a few words,
Then dragged Xu Le to the kitchen to help wash and pick vegetables.
In fact, the reason why Liu Qian did this was to avoid Xu Le from sitting in front of Liu's mother again, which would be very embarrassing.
Xu Le naturally understands Liu Qian's good intentions,
smiled bitterly a few times, and said with a little weakness: "Daughter-in-law...... I've wronged you......"
"Hmph, who's your daughter-in-law?
Liu Qian snorted coldly, stretched out her hand and twisted Xu Le's old waist, and then said with a smile: "Okay, you don't have to explain to me, there are many things, although I don't understand, but I'm not a fool, don't worry, I won't force it!" Besides, although I am simple, I am really not a little girl who doesn't know anything, Xu Le, you don't have to put too much pressure on yourself, and you don't have to feel sorry for me because my mother urged you to get engaged to me, because I know very well in my heart that in this world, even the law can't give us a lifetime of protection, if you still simply hope to rely on a marriage contract, you think you have a lifetime to rely on, is that possible? Obviously, it is absolutely impossible! So, in fact, I don't value the red marriage certificate, relatively speaking, I value you Xu Le more! I only like you Xu Le!"
Liu Qian's words, Xu Le was speechless.
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Perhaps, most girls, in their early 20s, think that love is greater than the sky,
You will really feel that if you have love, you will have everything,
It's certainly a very good idea,
But, in fact, when I really calm down, I will find that, especially as time goes by, we will feel more and more that love is really a heroic form of dream in this tired life!
Many girls have everything, they have a look, they want to have a look, they want to have a career, they want to have a life,
But only when we ask her about love,
She'll be hesitant and unable to answer,
As a result, most people transfer their desire for love and the pursuit of a stable life to marriage.
In fact, this is the main reason why most people suddenly feel that marriage is not as perfect as they expected after marriage.
Because
We always think that if we find a man (woman) who loves each other and get married, we will have security for the rest of our lives.
This invisibly puts a heavy shackle on the word marriage!
Most importantly,
What exactly is the "security" we want, the "security" we want?
Is it to ensure a lifetime of food and clothing? Then it is better to find a bank ATM to get married;
Is it to secure your future and destiny? That can only be married to God;
Or is it just to ensure that in the future, you will not be alone?
In fact
To put it bluntly, nothing can be guaranteed.
Marriage is equivalent to finding a lifetime of security, in fact, this is just the good expectations of the older generation,
Because as Liu Qian said, in today's world, even the law can't give us a lifetime of protection, how dare we expect a marriage contract to be able to give us a lifetime of protection?
After all, we still have to walk on our own,
Our own predicament, future, and destiny still have to be faced by ourselves after all.
The only thing that has changed is that
found someone to marry, to be exact, found the right person to marry, two people walk together, can rely on each other,
marriage
For our generation, it's a way of life, and definitely not a guarantee of life!
There is an essential difference in this point!