How many years will I struggle to have coffee with you
As soon as I was born, I was destined to have a fate that was very different from yours. Pen, fun, and www.biquge.info
When I'm glad I live in a small town instead of a mud-walled house in a ravine, you're probably complaining about why you live in China instead of New York.
In the coming year from a child's point of view, childhood was innocent, fun and dreamy, and looking back now, it is a taste. From my parents' memories, I saw the thorns of seemingly splendid flowers, and I often listened to them talk about these stories with interest.
When I was 4 years old, I stole my mother's 100 yuan line to buy a 10 yuan lollipop, she was so anxious that she almost called the police, and I remember being beaten when I handed over the remaining 9 yuan.
At that time, my mother told me that I couldn't ask for other people's things, and I was always very good at this, sometimes a bag of instant noodles was divided into several portions, and I put a spoon in it and took it to school as a snack, and my father said that his salary was only 330 yuan a month at that time.
But you grew up under the care of your parents and nannies, you are the little emperor of the family, you live in a bustling downtown and a high-end villa, you drink a few hundred yuan of high-end milk powder, you eat delicacies from the mountains and seas that others don't have, you will not be beaten for stealing a mere 100 yuan, you will not ......
When I was about to enter the first grade of primary school, because of my father's job transfer, we had to leave the same place, and when my father was still running for a meager job, and our family moved overnight with the transfer of units, you were probably still dreaming in that exquisitely decorated and comfortable nest in a mansion of several hundred square meters.
In the new place, I went to primary school, the primary school is the "XX Hope Primary School" built with the assistance, there is a hospital in the town, and it is also a friendly and cooperative hospital built with the assistance, we have a good home here, my father has a stable job, and my mother has also gone to a distant place to study art.
At first, my father didn't let me, but my mother said that this family was reluctant to let him carry it alone, and that in the future, the child would have to go to junior high school, high school, and college, and there would be more places to use money. A year later, my mother opened a beauty salon in the dangdang, and the business was still booming, and others said that my mother was capable, blowing, cutting, massage, beauty, and stepping on the back.
But for you, these things are too commonplace, because your parents have a good job, they have money and status, and they don't have to worry about food and clothing. I can imagine your mother wearing a mask in some fancy beauty shop while her mother with bloodshot eyes and wrinkles on her face is working day and night.
If the newborn calf struggled spontaneously at an age, then I really taught myself a sense of struggle from high school. When I was in junior high school, I didn't have the consciousness of self-study and struggle, and I relied on the supervision of my parents and teachers.
When I arrived in high school, due to the growth of age and changes in the surrounding environment, the ardent expectations of my parents and the pressure of public opinion in society, both subjectively and objectively, I had to study hard. Although for a period of time, my performance was similar to that of the stock market, fluctuating first and then falling sharply, my sense of struggle and conscience told me that I could not afford to play, and I had to struggle to find a good job, have a good family, and live a good life.
And you don't have to, if you fail in the exam, and next time, what if you fail in the college entrance examination? Your family property is enough for you to eat for a lifetime. You don't need to worry about your employment path, you don't need to worry about your work and life, even if you don't rely on your parents to fight on your own, you have a good economic foundation and good interpersonal relationships, you can open a company and become a manager and chairman.
At the stage of development of building a well-off society in an all-round way, my dad said that he had to keep up with the times and planned to buy a car, and my mom said that he was not allowed to buy expensive cars, and the car could be driven and said that it was okay, so why should it be so expensive? So the car of 100,000 yuan became our little comfort and satisfaction, when I shared our joy with you, you smiled, you said that you were happy for us, but I understood from your wandering eyes, this is nothing, because your dad drove a BMW, or drove a big ......
I learned the market economy, understood the law of value, and thought that I could help something, this naïve idea is always ridiculous in the adult world. A few years ago, the house price was only 100,000, and now it has risen all the way to 300,000, since it has been decided to have a house, it is better to buy it than to build it yourself, the plan can never catch up with the changes, and the cost of the original plan of 300,000 has risen by 200,000. The house was built and renovated, but the next thing was to repay the bank loan and the loan shark.
Some assets are like bubbles, colorful when they don't burst, and they don't know where to go when they are blown by the wind, and I don't know how many people like us in this world have no choice but to take the last baton in the relay race of housing prices all the way.
But at least I know that you don't think so, your movable and immovable property adds up to several times, more than ten times, or dozens of times that of mine, and you have high-end and luxurious villas, one, two, three...... Inflation doesn't affect you, your family has strong assets and financial strength.
At best, we are the middle class, and some people say that the middle class is very pitiful, neither has the pastoral life of the peasants, nor is it like the top of the society, which is full of furniture, and cannot reach the sky, the ground, the village, or the store, and it is true that in order to survive, we have to cross hand in hand in the turbulent river. My parents often told me that they would be like this all their lives, my father wanted a stable job, and he did it, and my mother wanted to be self-reliant, and decided to make a name for herself in the local area, and she did it, and they wanted to buy a car, and they did it, and they wanted to build a house, and they wanted to change my original life, so that I could have no worries about food and clothing, and they did it, and then it was up to me.
Their diligent hands and sweat in exchange for my happy life today, although compared with you is insignificant, but I have taken the baton of "hard work" and continue to move forward. Sometimes I even wonder how many years it will take me to get to where you are now, but I won't be confused, I have the strength to break through the labyrinth and see the sun.
I fully believe that in 18 years or more, I will be able to taste the bitter aroma that has been condensed like ---wheat for 18 years or more.
I can imagine how many people like me and my classmates, including my parents, were drinking coffee at Starbucks and talking about the old days......