013 The torture of boiled frogs in warm water
013
In the end, Xiao Jingpeng dealt with this matter.
I don't know what Xiao Jingpeng said to the woman, the woman left with the child in her arms.
Xiao Jingpeng also consciously felt sorry for Yu Wenlu, and apologized to the end of this incident, and promised that such a thing would never happen again.
Yu Wenlu was very sad because of this incident, and she was also a lot cold to Xiao Jingpeng.
However, Xiao Jingpeng was not discouraged.
He also began to reflect on himself, they have been married for nine years, I have to say that these nine years have been a bit long, and the relationship between the two has also entered a dull period.
In the first few years, the two of them were indeed Qin Se and Ming, and they lived a very happy life.
and gave birth to two children in three years, a boy and a girl, which is really envious of others.
Yu Wenlu also has the slightest arrogance of the princess, and she is also very considerate to Xiao Jingpeng, anyway, the life of the two of them is also all kinds of smooth.
But that's the thing, the more bland happiness and the more comfortable life is, it will make people feel a little boring.
And in this dynasty, it is very tolerant of men, and there are too many temptations outside, plus Yu Wenlu's thoughts in the past few years, most of them have been put on children, and Xiao Jingpeng has been ignored a lot, which led to this result.
If it happened to ordinary people, maybe it wouldn't be a big deal, but here in Yuwenlu, Yuwenlu is unacceptable.
After a long time, Yuwenlu couldn't forgive Xiao Jingpeng, and the relationship between the two really became very cold.
Yu Wenlu still often enters the palace, Xiao Ziyu is such a smart person, she can naturally detect the changes in Yu Wenlu, and she also asked Yu Wenlu.
At first, Yu Wenlu was reluctant to say such a thing, and always felt that such a thing was a bit embarrassing.
However, later, the relationship between Yu Wenlu and Xiao Jingpeng became worse and worse, and Xiao Jingpeng was directly prevented from entering her room.
In the end, rumors came out, saying that Yu Wenlu began to play dramas, and also raised a few good-looking faces.
At first, Xiao Ziyu didn't believe it, but later, the clothes outside became more and more intense, and there was a nose and eyes, so you couldn't believe it.
And the careful Xiao Ziyu had already discovered that there was a big mistake between Yu Wenlu and Xiao Jingpeng, so she was also worried in her heart, although Yu Wenlu was a princess, even if she did something excessive, it was not unforgivable, after all, she was reincarnated as the emperor's daughter, and she should be treated preferentially.
But if you go too far, the old stubborn ones of the Yushitai will start to impeach, and it will really not be good.
Yu Wenmo is the elder brother, and it is about such a thing, so it is naturally not easy to ask directly, but fortunately, Xiao Ziyu and Yu Wenlu have a good relationship, so Yu Wenmo asked Xiao Ziyu to ask Yu Wenlu what happened.
Xiao Ziyu directly summoned Yu Wenlu into the palace.
Xiao Ziyu didn't talk to Yu Wenlu politely, and asked straight to the point, what is going on with these gossips outside, they are all so ugly, Yu Wenlu really needs to explain.
Yu Wenlu just sneered at this.
Xiao Ziyu saw that Yu Wenlu really didn't want to explain anything, and she also felt that this matter might not be so simple, she was really for Yu Wenlu's good, and Yu Wenlu could also feel it.
In the end, Yu Wenlu still told everything one by one.
Xiao Ziyu knew that Yu Wenlu had been suppressed for too long, so her temperament changed greatly.
In fact, she didn't do much to make a show, which is what many people do.
She just felt very depressed, so she went to the play.
Yu Wenlu was originally a person who was very willing to listen to the play.
As for saying that she raised the noodle head in the princess's mansion, there is, but she just did it on purpose, just to stimulate Xiao Jingpeng.
She just wanted to be awkward.
Why can a man have three wives and four concubines, and if he is in the twilight of Qin, the woman must end up from the beginning.
She just wants to be a different woman.
But she also really knows that she is still relatively conservative in her heart, and she really can't do such a thing, and in the end, she is uncomfortable.
She deliberately embarrassed Xiao Jingpeng.
Who made Xiao Jingpeng do such a thing at that time, even had an illegitimate child, how could people endure it?
So she also has to do this, just to embarrass Xiao Jingpeng, that is, to make him unable to raise his head in front of everyone.
Xiao Ziyu listened to what Yu Wenlu said in her heart, and she didn't know what to say about Yu Wenlu.
Yu Wenlu also looks like a smart person, but he used the stupidest way to deal with this problem.
In fact, there was no noise at the beginning, and the initiative of the matter was handed over to Xiao Jingpeng, but Xiao Jingpeng's way of handling it was not bad, and it was also very sincere.
Since Yu Wenlu chose to forgive at the beginning, she shouldn't have done these things later, these things seem to be revenge on Xiao Jingpeng, but Yu Wenlu is not sad in her heart?
It's just torturing others, and it's also torturing yourself.
"You also want to open some, this kind of thing, whoever encounters it will not feel good, but you also have to be clear, what is the result you want?" Xiao Ziyu asked.
"Sister-in-law, in fact, I regret it very much, I really don't want to do this, but I really can't swallow this breath in my heart, every time I see Xiao Jingpeng, I think of that woman, and the illegitimate child brought by that woman, I really don't know what to do?" Yu Wenlu said very painfully.
You now have three children, two daughters, a son, and the younger son is less than a year old, if you do this all day long, the impact on the children will also be great, the elder brother and sister are older, the older ones are more than ten years old, do you think they really don't understand anything? If this continues, this will only hurt the children and yourself. Xiao Ziyu continued to persuade.
"I know, I know, I know I shouldn't do this, but it's like there's a fire burning in my heart, it's burning that keeps me awake all night, I can't control myself at all, sister-in-law, I really don't know what to do. Yu Wenlu covered her face and said, it can be seen that this incident has hit her really hard.
Xiao Ziyu can actually understand that it is not Yuwenlu stingy, let alone Yuwenlu's pettiness.
The main reason is that when Yu Wenlu and Xiao Jingpeng were together at the beginning, they went through a lot of hardships, and it was not easy for them to blossom and bear fruit.
Therefore, Yu Wenlu's expectations for Xiao Jingpeng are also very high.
But then it ended up with such a result, which was difficult for Yu Wenlu to accept, and it is understandable.
"But you really can't last in this state. Xiao Ziyu persuaded, "You should adjust your mentality, if you can still forgive my second brother, you can abandon your previous suspicions, live a good life, if you really can't forgive, separate, but don't do this, it's not good for you, for him, for the child." ”
Yu Wenlu looked at Xiao Ziyu and couldn't help asking, "Imperial sister-in-law, if it were you, what would you choose?"
Xiao Ziyu said directly, "If it were me, I would leave, I can't accept such a thing, I also told your imperial brother about this from the very beginning." ”
"Don't you think that if you leave, it will be unfair to the crown prince, the second prince, and Allure?"
"It's very unfair, but if you are like this, it will be fair to the children, is it good? Your husband and wife are not in harmony, and they fight all day long, if my expectations are good, at the beginning, the second brother was still very good to you, and he really wanted to save his relationship with you, but after this year, coupled with the rumors outside and the things you have done, now your husband and wife have gradually drifted apart, right?"
Yu Wenlu didn't expect Xiao Ziyu to guess so accurately.
Indeed, at the beginning, Xiao Jingpeng was better to her, and he was more careful to take care of and take care of the children, and he was much more attentive to the children than before.
But the more Xiao Jingpeng is like this, the more pimple Yu Wenlu feels in his heart, and he always feels that Xiao Jingpeng is like this because of guilt.
Therefore, he did not give Xiao Jingpeng a good look.
After a long time, Xiao Jingpeng is reluctant to be bored, and Yu Wenlu has been going too far recently.
Xiao Jingpeng didn't even go into the backyard, but he didn't stay outside, but he slept in the study all day.
It was really said by Xiao Ziyu.
"What the imperial sister-in-law said is right, I don't think there is a way for our days to continue. Yu Wenlu said very discouragedly.
"Actually, it's not too late, I know my second brother, my second brother is really not a kind person, he still cares about you, but he is a soft-eared person, and he can't stand the pry of others, and his nature is very simple, it is easy to be calculated by people with intentions, this point, you should have found out early, you liked my second brother at the time, and you also think that my second brother is suitable for you, you are a person who likes to control others, you and your second brother have been married for so many years, the second brother listens to you very much, everything in the family is also up to you, and also lives with you in the princess's mansion, but you can't escape the flaws of his character, there will be gains and losses, you should understand。 What Xiao Ziyu said was quite pertinent.
In fact, Xiao Ziyu is not completely persuading Yu Wenlu.
When Yu Wenlu chose Xiao Jingpeng, she also felt that Xiao Jingpeng could give her the life she wanted, but people have a little, so they must have shortcomings.
Xiao Jingpeng's disadvantage is that his ears are soft, especially for women, and he is even more defenseless, so it is easy to be calculated by scheming women.
This accident, that's it.
Of course, it doesn't mean that Xiao Jingpeng is not wrong at all.
Character determines destiny, that's what happened.
"Imperial sister-in-law, you really see everything so thoroughly, yes, that's right, I liked Xiao Jingpeng at the beginning, just because Xiao Jingpeng has a gentle personality and is not a strong person, although he doesn't have much ability, but I am a princess, I will naturally have a stable life, but I also accept the flaws of his character for my own choice, in fact, you have long expected that something like this will happen to us, right?" Yu Wenlu asked.
"Hey. Xiao Ziyu let out a long sigh and said, "How can I say it, in fact, it's not surprising that such a thing happened to the second brother, before you got married, the second brother was calculated by a woman, he is too easy to be soft-hearted, especially in the face of women, his brain is a little confused, but this time, I am quite surprised that he can deal with this matter so unprocrastinatingly." ”
"Well, I've heard about this too, it seems that I'm really too serious?"
"No, I know you have too much expectation, so you are also very disappointed, but this kind of thing, depending on what you think, if you think you should be separated, then separate, anyway, don't torture each other like this, it's not good for anyone. ”
"I don't really want to be separated from him, I just don't know how to swallow this breath, and I don't think he necessarily wants to continue with me now, we've all hurt each other a little too much, and I admit that I've hurt him a lot over the past year. Yu Wenlu said with some remorse.
"It's not that serious, I suggest you talk about it. ”
"It's useless, in fact, we have talked calmly many times, at that time I also promised to get along well, but after a few days, I still relapsed, I will still torture him, torture myself, I really feel that I am about to torture myself crazy, I have no patience for children, I don't know how I have come over for more than a year. Yu Wenlu said and began to sobb quietly.
Xiao Ziyu nodded when she listened, in fact, in the past year or so, Yuwenlu has really changed a lot.
Seeing that his expression and face were very haggard.
Even today, the delicate makeup is about to be unable to cover up Yu Wenlu's haggardness, which shows that Yu Wenlu's life for more than a year is really sad.
"You need to open your heart knots, don't always think about these unhappy days, it's better for you to take the children out for a walk, and separate from the second brother for a few days, you all calm down and think about how life should continue, in this way, it is still very good for you." Xiao Ziyu held Yu Wenlu's hand and said.
Xiao Ziyu is actually more able to understand Yu Wenlu.
Yu Wenlu's character, how to say it, itself also has certain problems, and the way she deals with feelings, Xiao Ziyu doesn't agree with it anyway.
Xiao Ziyu's way of dealing with feelings has never been muddy.
Just like in the previous life, when you were betrayed, you can fight back.
If Xiao Ziyu had encountered such a thing, he would probably have turned around and left, and he would not have been so entangled at all.
"Well, I listen to you, sister-in-law. Yu Wenlu actually didn't have any ideas, so she was naturally willing to listen to Xiao Ziyu.
Xiao Ziyu is also resolute in doing things, and directly asked Xiao Jingsheng to arrange everything, send more people, and then escort Yuwenlu's mother and son out to play.
As for the youngest son, he didn't go out, after all, he was too young and the road was bumpy, so it was better to stay in the imperial capital.
After Yu Wenlu left, Xiao Ziyu personally talked to Xiao Jingpeng.
Xiao Jingpeng's attitude is also very clear, and he is still willing to continue to live a good life with Yu Wenlu.
But Yu Wenlu's repeated emotions are really unbearable, he has talked to Yu Wenlu many times, and he has admitted that he is wrong, he has said everything that should be said, and every time Yu Wenlu promised to do it well, but within a few days, he relapsed into his old ways, and began to sneer at him, cold and violent, anyway, it is all kinds of torture, this feeling of boiling frogs in warm water, can really torture people to death.
Xiao Jingpeng is really fed up.
Xiao Ziyu also understands, and fortunately, Xiao Jingpeng's temperament is gentle, if he were someone else, he might have been fighting a long time ago.
When Xiao Ziyu said this, he was not defending Xiao Jingpeng.
This is the matter between husband and wife, if you don't forgive, you separate, if you forgive, you live well.
The most taboo thing is to say forgiveness in the mouth, but pull people with a soft knife.
This kind of torture is indeed unbearable.
It's no wonder that Xiao Jingpeng doesn't want to see Yu Wenlu, if every time he sees someone, it is endless pain, then no matter how deep his feelings are, he can't withstand such torture.
Now Xiao Jingpeng and Yu Wenlu are in the whole state.
The two lost their sense of trust, Xiao Jingpeng knew that he was wrong, but he also worked hard, but to no avail.
He really had no choice.
is also very distressed, even if Yu Wenlu says now that he is willing to try to start a new life with him, then he can't believe it, because he is really tortured and afraid. After the enchanting poison of rebirth