Chapter 113: Mother's Day
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Written on Mother's Day, Shinoyu's confession.
Actually, I know people are curious about my profession.
During the working hours of the working day, I am a white-collar elite who guides the country in the workplace, and my profession is to be a mother, serving the children's food, drink and Lazar while also taking on the responsibility of education.
Someone must ask, how can serving children become a kind of work? Shouldn't it be a matter of course? Didn't people in the past pull children to grow up in this way? I want to say that the past and the present are completely different, in the past, we played around with joy, and our childhood was full of laughter and the nagging of our parents. And now, the social methods on the mobile phone and the various websites basically occupy 95% of the child's father's off-duty break, and the parent-child time has become a rebuke to the child, and the scene has become complete loneliness in the eyes of the mother. The mother is faced with a variety of special classes and dazzling parenting books and various researches, but she can't implement it, and the modern mother has really become a fresh, gentle and kind woman who can go to the hall and enter the kitchen to take care of the children and talk about love.
In addition, she must be a good daughter-in-law, know how to fall in love, and be filial to her parents. Too many responsibilities have been given, I have seen some mothers completely defeated because of their children, boiled into a yellow-faced woman, and became a slave to their children every day, especially when the father does not understand, slowly become a resentful woman who cries and wipes tears as a whole, and the child's temper is also greatly affected. Of course, I have also seen some mothers become guests of honor because of their children, and they are respected decently because of their children, but there is only an attitude distance between the two, but the results are completely different. Another type is that children are with their own parents or each other's parents all year round. The guide is that although he lives a very chic life, the child has no intimacy with himself or even his father, and forcibly lives this relationship as a relative rather than a parent and a child.
I went from being defeated to completely abandoned, and I was completely aware of the two extremes I experienced in between. Emotionally, with the help of psychological guidance and explanation, it slowly healed, and the sense of disguise and indifferent coercion used to make me desperate, I thought she would suck my blood dry, but in the end, the child became my backbone. It soothed my scarred heart when I was most hurt.
I would like to take this opportunity to talk about what I know about Ling Jun's mother and Luo Qinyin's adoptive mother.
As far as I know, Ling Jun's mother was a well-known lady, and for some unknown reason, she took Ling Jun out of the Dongfang family's compound, leaving Ling Jun's father with guilt and self-blame for the rest of his life. Of course, in this undisclosed relationship, I vaguely guessed some clues of things, some things must have been experienced by myself to experience that kind of twists and turns, listening to my own parents, Ling Jun's parents experienced the seven-year itch that many young and middle-aged couples will experience. Although his parents are also free in love and can be regarded as a good match, the long-term negligence and lack of communication have caused Ling Jun's father to lose the direction he should have been as a father and husband.
Under the damn tenderness, the couple who once made them infinitely envious parted ways, and it was the most tragic one, Ling Jun's mother disappeared forever from Ling Jun's father's field of vision with Ling Jun, who was only five or six years old, although Ling Jun's father woke up afterwards but still did not get forgiveness and forgiveness, before I didn't understand why I would rather be alone and guard that beauty than go back and start over, now I understand, the deeper the love, the greater the hurt, when all the disappointment becomes complete despair, what I see is the great realization of the other side of the flower。 What is given up is the most sincere and beautiful.
Of course, such a choice directly caused Ling Jun's revenge and Dongfang Ruizhu's arrogance. Ling Jun's mother knows her daughter's temperament very well, although she is a woman, Dongfeng Ruizhu's heart is higher than the sky, even if she leaves herself, she will definitely live a good life. In contrast, Ling Jun is more sensitive and vulnerable, which is also a disadvantage in the way Ling Jun is educated, too frequent contact and dependence, which greatly increases the insecurity of both mother and son.
Ling Jun's days were spent almost all in the grief of his mother's crying and grabbing the earth, living a very ordinary life in the streets and alleys and the small citizens who were hidden in the city. However, the innate excellent genes make Ling Jun show his head and feet in both studies and other aspects, Luo Qinyin's father's search for many years has turned into a bubble one after another, at the same time, Ling Jun is also very serious about hating, hating the woman who broke up other people's families, maybe it is this sense of responsibility that makes Ling Jun always wait for an opportunity to take revenge, to return his mother to justice, of course, this also laid Ling Jun's concept of marriage, dedication and single-mindedness.
On the other hand, Dongfang Ruizhu, she has lived in her father's apology since she was a child, Dongfang Ruizhu's father basically sent the best of a qiē to the front of Dongfang Ruizhu, looking at her happiness seems to subconsciously feel a little compensated, Dongfang Ruizhu does not feel that her life is missing the role of her mother, she is still squandering unscrupulously, and for her father is more protective, the boss of the Dongfang family, her father because Dongfang Ruizhu and her mother look too similar, infinite indulgence and spoiling. Today's Dongfang Ruizhu and Ling Jun are pungent and domineering, and the other is stubborn and have a clear love and hate.
Let's talk about Luo Qinyin's adoptive mother, her adoptive mother's magnificence makes people almost imagine how charming and charming she was when she was young, because of Xiao Binbin's relationship, she investigated her adoptive mother very early, it is said that her adoptive mother chose to die alone because she was heartbroken with men, and many coincidences had to make me think of the connection between certain things. Of course, the only one who can really solve the puzzle is the person himself. Why do I prefer not to let Binbin and Qinyin have a relationship, because with experience, Luo Qinyin's mother is definitely a Miss Luo with a story, and based on a woman's strong sixth sense, I hope Binbin stays away from this kind of confusion, but for Luo Qinyin and Ling Jun, some things are destined, whether they can go through full-screen perseverance and belief in each other, maybe love can really eliminate karma, I choose to wait and see.
I once warmly hoped that this world was beautiful and unforgettable, but now life gives back to me only unforgettable, as a mother I deeply know what we represent for children, accustomed to seeing the deception and right and wrong, I just want the original appearance, those dusty red dust, Mother's Day for me is more of the most motherly sense of ritual, for Ling Jun's mother and Luo Qinyin's adoptive mother may be more of the vicissitudes of the years, I am curious, when all the truth surfaced, how this farce ended!
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