"Discuss slowly, what kind of negotiation method do you mean by discussing slowly?" I think Wu Xiaowen is a little standing and talking without backache.

He didn't think about it from my standpoint, didn't see my difficulties, didn't see my difficulties, but said to discuss slowly, when Tong Wangjun called me, I didn't strongly ask her to come to Wuchang, just made a suggestion to her, and didn't threaten her.

I think Tong Wangjun will definitely not be very bad when she discusses with her mother, she must discuss it slowly, but her mother is so angry that she goes to the hospital.

There are some things that you are not willing to discuss slowly, and others will definitely listen to you.

"You can let Tong Wangjun stay in his hometown to take care of the old man first, and then try to come to Wuchang when the old man's physical condition is better. Wu Xiaowen said, "Tong Wangjun's father has just passed away, and her mother's emotions will inevitably fluctuate, and she will miss her daughter more and don't want her daughter to leave her side. ”

"And you also said before, Wuchang is just from Tong Wangjun's hometown, a few hours by high-speed rail, it is more convenient to go back and forth, you have a car, if you want to go over to see Tong Wangjun, it's a very simple thing, there is no need to care so much about whether it is in Wuchang or Tong Wangjun's hometown. ”

"What you said lightly, I also have old people in my family, what should I do when my parents want to see the child?" I said, "I'm not unreasonable, Tong Wangjun wants the child to follow her surname, I agreed, there is no male in her family, her father died again, her mother wants multiple relatives in the family, although Chen Le is her granddaughter and relatives, but maybe in the old man's concept, Chen Le follows my surname Chen, is a person in my family, not a person in her family, only with Tong Wang's surname Tong Le, can she be regarded as a person in her family." ”

"I can understand all this, and my parents can also understand it, so Tong Wangjun took Chen Le back, changed his household registration, changed his surname, I didn't say anything, but what did my understanding get in exchange? My parents wanted to see the child, but they couldn't see it. ”

"Now they all pay attention to equality between men and women, and the child follows the woman's surname, and there is nothing, anyway, they are all children of the two of you, and whoever has the same surname, the child has blood in his body, and the DNA contained in it belongs to the two of you. Wu Xiaowen said, "Several of my colleagues have given birth to a second child, and the second child follows the woman's surname, which is a respect for women and a kind of progress." ”

"Progress of fart. "I scolded," To respect women, it is not this respect law, the country has a lot of respect for women, look at the next door A San, when the woman marries, the whole family may be hollowed out, some parents are even worried that they can't afford the dowry, unwilling to have a daughter, completely reversed with the country, but even so, there are still many women in the country who are not satisfied, and they are not willing to pay a penny when they get married, and they try their best to pay money from the man, buy a house, buy a car, and give a bride price, empty the man's savings, and empty the savings of the man's parents, for fear of good things for the man's family。 ”

For some women, when they marry home, it is the time to break with their parents, brothers and sisters.

"Tong Wangjun shouldn't have been like this when she married you, she didn't have such high requirements for you, right?" Wu Xiaowen said.

Wu Xiaowen's words reminded me of Tong Wangjun's attitude towards me when I was poor, and I felt a little uncomfortable: "You take care of your own affairs, this is a matter between me and Tong Wangjun, so don't get involved." ”

"I'm kind too. Wu Xiaowen said.

"Don't pretend to be a good person, don't I know what your purpose is?" I looked at Wu Xiaowen.

"What purpose can I have, I just don't want you and Tong Wangjun to be so stiff, I hope the two of you can sit down and have a good talk, I hope you can all be happy." Wu Xiaowen said.

"When you say this, I'm afraid you don't even believe it, right?" The tea was a little cold, I drank it all in one gulp, staring at Wu Xiaowen, "I never believed that there are such good people in this world, who are willing to pay without regrets, and if you really have the feelings of your parents for your children." Tong Wangjun and you are just elementary school classmates, there is no blood relationship at all, you ran all the way from your hometown to Wuchang for her, and you deliberately asked for leave, isn't your little thought obvious, what are you doing secretly?"

I have lost the mind to slowly consume with Wu Xiaowen, and I said it very clearly.

"I admit that I do like Tong Wangjun and have had a crush on her since I was in elementary school. But I can assure you that I have a clean slate with her, there is no improper relationship, and she doesn't know that I like her, and I haven't confessed to her. Wu Xiaowen said, "I came to you this time, I have nothing to do with her, I didn't tell her." It was I who watched her feel uncomfortable and wanted to help her, so I privately decided to ask for leave to come to you, just to make it clear to you, I hope you can understand her, she is really not a woman. ”

"I don't know if you don't know the situation in her family, her dad is a bit of a disdainful of the family, when she was young, her mother helped earn all the tuition, her dad didn't care at all, and she went to college as well. Her father has always only cared about himself, and everyone in the village knows about it, but her father is the only one who thinks that he is doing well, and thinks that his family situation is one of the best in the village. ”

"You can also see her house, it is still a one-story building, and it is about to fall, if her father is a little more motivated and takes care of the family a little bit, the situation in her family cannot be like that, and her mother will not have bronchitis, it is also because of these that Tong Wangjun loves her mother very much, and always quarrels with her father because of her mother's affairs at home. ”

"Now Tong Wangjun is quarreling with her mother for you, and the quarrel is so strong, I think she shouldn't have wanted to quarrel with her mother, I went to the hospital once, just outside the ward, I saw Tong Wangjun secretly wiping her tears, she is really hard, don't force her." ”

"I didn't push her. I said, "She has the right to choose, I just suggested that she better come to Wuchang, if she has to stay in her hometown, I can't do anything." As for you saying that she is hard, who in this world is not hard, do you think I am not hard?"

"We are all men, what does it matter if a man works hard? A man should hold up a piece of the sky for his woman and a piece of heaven for the whole family, and he should stand up to the sky and hide all the pain and pain in his heart. Wu Xiaowen said.

I disagree with Wu Xiaowen's words, and even think it's a little ridiculous, when women want to enjoy rights, they emphasize the equality of men and women, but when they have responsibilities, they say that men should be more generous, responsible, responsible, and should take the initiative to take responsibility to protect their wives and children.

These are two completely opposite ideas, but they merge in the minds of women, and when they want to enjoy power, they talk about the equality of men and women, and when they need to take responsibility, they bring out the latter point.

Coincidentally, many men still think that men should indeed let women, should indeed stand up to the sky, should indeed take the initiative to take responsibility, and take the initiative to take care of women, which gives women such thinking more soil for growth and capital of clamoring.

I don't object to men taking responsibility and being responsible, but unprincipled and unassertive responsibility is not a good thing, but connivance, which is unfair to men and unfair to relatives.

In this world, there are not only daughters-in-law, but after marrying a daughter-in-law, they forget about their mother's affairs and can't do it.

Wu Xiaowen's words made me feel that I was not on the same road as him: "Okay, don't talk more nonsense, you should leave quickly, this matter has nothing to do with you, you can't intervene." ”

"You are really too stubborn, why can't you think more about the woman who gave birth to you, why should you be so harsh on a woman who likes you?" Wu Xiaowen also seemed to be a little annoyed by my attitude, and his speech became a little choked.

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