Some people say that women will be very tired and great when they are pregnant in October, but there are still some scumbags who go out to find a woman during a woman's pregnancy or confinement, or not a man, and some people have seen a few pairs of celebrities' happy couples collapse, so they are tired and don't love anymore, and they no longer dare to believe in love......

Some people say that it is not easy for a man to support his family, he has to coax his wife and children at home, he has to coax his colleagues and bosses outside, he is very tired and great, he finally catches up with his wife, and he has to send a house and a car and even his property after divorce to the woman......

Wait a minute.

Putting aside his position, You Zishi believes that these remarks seem to be correct, and all of them have unilateral problems. Because, the rights and interests of a family are tied together, and they are closely related from the day they get married and have children, and the family has to argue and complain about who is more tired, who suffers more, and who is greater......

Will someone win, will they win, will they get a sense of accomplishment?

I'm afraid it can't be.

Either you don't have a family, or you have fewer pointless arguments and complaints......

Let the members of the family feel that "it's good to go home"! Regardless of his position, You Zishi believes that these remarks seem to be right, and all of them have one-sided problems. Because, the rights and interests of a family are tied together, and they are closely related from the day they get married and have children, and the family has to argue and complain about who is more tired, who suffers more, and who is greater......

Will someone win, will they win, will they get a sense of accomplishment?

I'm afraid it can't be.

Either you don't have a family, or you have fewer pointless arguments and complaints......

Let the members of the family feel "It's Good to Come Home"!

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The last sentence of the last song is repeated, but the lyrics are different, the sentence "I want to tell you more, your loneliness and my heartache together" is the most profound expression of Youzi's poem!!

In any case, the mother of the child is worried, whether it is obeying his parents at home, or breaking out his own new path outside, as a child, it is impossible to ignore his aging parents, even if he is good and beautiful, if the parents feel lonely, then, the child will inevitably feel heartache......

This is exactly what I want to tell you, Mom and Dad, your loneliness will always be with your child's heartache......

If you are not happy, what is the point of being happy for your children?

So, please be happy, please be happy, please listen to me sing, please hear me laugh to you......

When I am not at home, please have your own life, have your own whereabouts, don't keep your eyes on the children, don't always turn all your efforts into concern for your children, you should relax, choose to believe, believe that the children have their own way, believe that they will also go through their own lives like when you were young, you should enjoy your life in peace, and be an innocent child again......

This lyric actually contains another layer of meaning that is not easy to say, at least in the cognition of the wandering poem, there are other things that want to be expressed, that is, now in the relationship of many families, there is such a difficult problem to solve, it turns out that young parents in aging, due to various reasons, may want to pass on their own experience to their children, or may not be accustomed to loneliness, etc., so they may be accustomed to the obvious has already started a family, Children in the prime of life give guidance and get involved in all kinds of things in their lives, such as getting along with couples and raising children, so that whether they are well-intentioned or not, can eventually lead to the breakdown of family relationships, resulting in distrust, suspicion, complaints, and factions between family members......

In fact, most of the time, every member of the family does not have a bad idea to do something, of course, it is for the good of so-and-so, but if a family has different camps, members have different views on different people, and have opinions with each other, and the older people like to meddle in the affairs of the younger generations, or they are not used to seeing so-and-so, or they run out to stand in line for the favored so-and-so, or they are used to pointing fingers at the younger generations of young adults, then this is a mistake that the family positioning is not accurate, and it is very likely that they will do bad things with good intentions, skewed the relationship between family members in the wrong direction and rhythm......

Yes, in many cases, even if it is an elderly parent, its life experience and understanding may be a very beneficial treasure for the growth and development of the younger generation, which can make the child take a lot of detours and save a lot of time......

But there is a degree to everything, if the parents go beyond this degree, delusional like cramming to forcibly impose their own ideas on the younger generations, delusional young children, sons-in-law and daughters-in-law must listen to their own opinions, do according to their own ideas, accustomed to everything to insert a bar, can not do "watching chess without saying a true gentleman", then, it is not good to fulfill people's wishes, although it is still for a so-called "love" word, but the deformed word love can easily lead the family relationship to the wrong road, but destroy the consummation......

Especially the kind of son you love your family, he loves his daughter, if everyone doesn't give in, it's all for love, it's like "other" family, in fact, in the end, it's still the son you love and the daughter who loves him......

All families are made up of people of the opposite sex. If the children can break the relationship between the heterosexual couple, why can't the parents?

It is extremely undesirable to forcibly intervene in the lives of children at all times and kidnap them under the banner of "love". Parents are always just a beacon on the way forward for their children, but they are by no means all they have, and if children want to go the other way, and they can take responsibility for their own actions, then parents can only bless, not jump out and make trips......

Think about it, at this time, parents have become the biggest fetters of the so-called most beloved children...... Think about it, at this time, as the opposite of the child, the unhappy parents will become the pain in the hearts of the younger generation......

This is another layer of meaning that the wandering poem wants to convey in this seemingly simple song that expresses his gratitude and gratitude for the kindness of his parents.

Parents in the world are not great, of course great, but there is no doubt that many times, parents have become the number one enemy of their children, making them miserable, and the most important thing is that while enduring this pain, the torment they endure is a big "love" word first......

How many families have been disillusioned and separated because of such misconceptions?