I thought I had missed it, but after flipping into the address book and finding Tang Wan's name, I clicked on it and found that there was no conversation between me and her, which means that she didn't send me a message.

I took a look at her circle of friends, and it was visible for three days, and I was not deleted.

After thinking about it, I took the initiative to send her a message: "Happy New Year. ”

I didn't get a response after sending it, so I put my phone aside and went to sleep.

When I got up in the morning, I drove back to the teahouse with Su Ran, had breakfast, Su Ran stayed and helped take care of the teahouse, I, my parents, and two children were going back to my hometown to pay New Year's greetings.

"On the first day of the Lunar New Year, there are no people, and you don't have to stay in the store all the time, you can go to play wherever you want, just close the door of the store. When my mother left, she didn't forget to say to Su Ran, "You really don't want to go back with us?"

"I'm guarding the shop here. Su Ran said.

"If you are sleepy, you go to sleep, and if you want to go out to play, you can go around, my mother is right, there is no one on the first day of the new year, and you don't have to keep watch in the store all the time. "I told Su Ran.

"You won't blame me for not going back with you, right?" Su Ran said to me.

"What are you blaming for? We're just boyfriend and girlfriend now, and you're going to follow me back, aren't you losing your identity?" I smiled and said, "I don't care, it's nothing, so many relatives go back, and it's too troublesome to deal with them one by one, it's like watching animals in a zoo and visiting around you, it's not interesting." ”

Actually, I don't really want to go back, but my parents still have this relationship, and it's impossible not to move, so I can only go back with my two children.

The older generation of people pay more attention to face and family affection, in fact, it is not quite right to value family affection, because it is possible that relatives have some difficulties and need to borrow money, but they may not be able to borrow it, even if the relatives next to them have money, he will not be willing to lend you.

The relationship between relatives is a bit distorted, and it seems that it has only become a habit to move around each other during the New Year and holidays, and has become an indelible part of the concept of the older generation.

will continue, will continue to do so.

But in fact, many times this kind of movement is not necessary in my opinion, although there is a blood relationship, but many relatives have been indifferent, have their own families, have their own lives, what is the point of walking?

Get together for a meal during the holidays, and then compare each other's children's achievements, compare their lives, and brag about each other.

It's actually quite uninteresting.

Why are many young people afraid to go back during the Chinese New Year?

It's because many relatives always like to ask questions that are difficult to answer, whether they have friends, how much is their monthly salary, how is their job, when they plan to have children, and all kinds of questions, it is not like they are caring about you, but to get a joke to have a good time, or to show their ability as an elder, and make a comment.

For family affection, I don't have a special opinion, I actually hope that relatives who are related by blood will be harmonious with each other and help each other, but this relationship does not mean that you can be harmonious if you want to be harmonious, but also depends on whether others are willing or not, if it is just your blind paying, blind wishful thinking, then it is not interesting.

Drove back to the village, stayed for two days, walked around with some relatives, drove an Audi car, the family's dress is not to say that they are all famous brands, but at least they are clean and neat, very atmospheric. Originally, some relatives who didn't move around much during the Chinese New Year also came.

It is estimated that after listening to the words of the third uncle, he deliberately ran over and walked around, and the third uncle went to the city to borrow some money from me, and then I gave him an idea to let him take some people to decorate the house.

Such a thing will definitely not be hidden in the countryside and will definitely spread. When I went home, it led to such a result, wave after wave of relatives, and even some people who were not related by blood, but people from the village also ran to my house, to give New Year's greetings to my parents, and to give red envelopes to my two children, which scared me.

I'm low-key enough, but I didn't expect to go back home, so many people came to pay New Year's greetings, in the past so many years, I heard more good words, than I heard in the past two days combined.

"After all the hardships, I want to enjoy the blessings, and the days will definitely get better and better in the future, and I really gave birth to a good son. ”

"Chen Jin is now promising, and he can help his third uncle introduce jobs, and he also borrowed so much money from his third uncle to let his third uncle start a house. Now, I'm afraid I can't have an income of five or six million a month, right?"

"I heard that I bought it in the city