Chapter 90: Marrying a Foreigner
Pang Jindong drank it like this this time, and slammed the wine on the bar.
However, as soon as the second cup was served, Pang Jindong heard a "bang" from the bar in front of him.
This sound startled Pang Jindong, and he almost thought that the cup in his hand had exploded.
It wasn't until Pang Jindong put down the quilt and saw a slender jade arm in front of him, also holding a cup in his hand, that he knew who made this sound.
Pang Jindong looked up along the jade arm and found an angry face with a pair of big eyes hanging on it, looking at him with hatred.
"What a coincidence!" Pang Jindong smiled and said to the girl who threw the cup at herself: "You should pay attention to the strength when you drop the cup, otherwise the cup will be broken." Not only will you not be able to drink, but you will also lose money to the bar. Also, you drink the wine yourself, so smash the glass in front of yourself, not someone else. ”
This girl is none other than the girl from the outer courtyard who was disgraced by Pang Jindong, her face was flushed at this time, and it was obvious that she had drunk a lot of wine.
"What a coincidence!" the girl said, sitting next to Pang Jindong, her eyes full of resentment.
"It's a coincidence!" Pang Jindong smiled at the girl, turned his head and told the bartender: "Bring me another drink!"
As soon as the girl heard this, she pushed the cup to the bartender: "Come on two glasses, both of them will be credited to my account!" Then, she turned to Pang Jindong and said, "I invite you to drink!"
"Thanks, but I don't think it's necessary!"
"Don't worry, I've got money!" the girl pulled open her bag, took out a large handful of change from it, and pushed it to the bartender.
Pang Jindong looked at the pile of money and found that there was no one with a denomination of more than 20 yuan, so he couldn't help but shake his head slightly.
The bartender didn't accept the money, but squeezed his eyes at Pang Jindong.
Pang Jindong understood what the bartender meant, and the other party obviously regarded his encounter with this girl as an ordinary affair, which often happened to them.
He was signaling Pang Jindong that as long as he was generous and gentlemanly at this time, he would contribute to a good thing.
Of course, Pang Jindong would not explain to the bartender how he knew this girl and how he scolded her so much that he cried bitterly, but took out two hundred-yuan bills and stuffed them to the bartender: "If there are two of us, sue me if it's not enough!"
The bartender nodded, poured a full bottle of wine and walked away, knowing and giving Pang Jindong a chance to be alone with the girl.
Pang Jindong gathered the large amount of change and stuffed it back into the girl's bag.
"You...... "The girl's eyes became dazed, and she asked strangely, "Are you afraid that I don't have any money?"
"I'm not afraid that you don't have money, but I want to invite you to a glass of wine!" Pang Jindong shrugged his shoulders and asked with a smile: "Don't you want to appreciate the light?"
"Why should I appreciate the light?"
"Then goodbye!" Pang Jindong nodded slightly at the girl, then turned around and never looked again.
"You ......" Seeing Pang Jindong's attitude, the girl didn't know what to do, and after being stunned for a moment, she pushed Pang Jindong suddenly: "Why are you doing this to me?"
The girl pushed hard, but Pang Jindong sat there without moving, making the girl feel that her hands seemed to be touching a rock.
"If you're referring to today's daytime, then I can only say I'm sorry, but I won't apologize!" Pang Jindong sat there, didn't look at the girl, and said slowly: "I'm sorry, butnotapologize!" After a pause, Pang Jindong added to this English passage: "You are from the School of Foreign Languages, you should have heard of this classic, very ironic joke!"
The girl took a deep breath and emphatically said, "Why did you do that to me? You should apologize to me!"
"I'm sorry, I don't have any prejudices about you personally, it's just that today's incident happened to you, and if it were someone else, I would say the same thing!"
Although the girl's face became redder and redder, her brain was not anesthetized by alcohol, so she immediately understood the meaning of Pang Jindong's words.
She snorted heavily, and asked extremely dissatisfied: "Yes, I just want to marry a foreigner, what's wrong?"
"Legally speaking, there is no mistake, but it is very problematic at the moral level!" Pang Jindong turned around slowly, looking at the girl's gaze under the background of the surrounding lights, it seemed very profound: "I can tell you frankly, I have been to many countries, met many people of different nationalities, and experienced all kinds of things! Based on my own insights, I can say with great certainty that very few Chinese women marry into foreign countries based on feelings, and more of them have other plans, such as green cards and money!" Therefore, if you must not tell me that you like foreign men to have a gentlemanly demeanor, that you are more likely to have feelings with foreign men, and so on, these reasons are all lies, although they are often used by people like you!"
The girl originally wanted to sue Pang Jindong that she had no fate with a Chinese man, so she wanted to marry a foreign country, but she didn't expect Pang Jindong's words to block all her reasons back to her throat.
Looking at Pang Jindong's stern appearance, the girl asked angrily: "Why can't Chinese women fall in love with foreign men? Why do you say that this kind of transnational marriage must not be because of feelings?"
"If you've had deep contact with enough foreigners, you know that the cultural and mental differences between each other are insurmountable, and that the chasm created by these differences is enough to swallow up any love completely. Because love and friendship are different, friends can communicate and coordinate well with each other, but it is difficult for couples who live together day and night. Pang Jindong once again speculated about what kind of words the girl would use to refute herself, so he paused for a moment and continued, not giving the girl a chance at all: "Of course, you can say that you have learned foreign languages well and are used to Western life, but what you need to understand is that you grew up in this country after all." Despite your reluctance, your way of thinking is largely influenced by traditional thinking, and it is this that separates you from foreigners in family life and career. ”
The girl was stunned for a moment, and suddenly felt that she had found a reason to refute Pang Jindong well: "Then what do you think of a Chinese man marrying a foreign woman?"
"Yes, just like I support those women who really marry abroad because of their feelings!" Pang Jindong took his eyes off the girl, gently turned the glass, and watched the wine inside hang on the wall of the glass, and then slowly flowed down. "I know you must be asking, it is also a foreign-related marriage, why is there a difference in my attitude towards men and women!"
The girl crossed her hands on her hips and said confidently, "Yes!"
"I might as well put it bluntly......" Pang Jindong took a sip of wine, then put down the glass, and returned his gaze to the girl, but this time it was much softer: "From the perspective of 'sexuality', male biogens are aggressive, while female biogens are conservative, so in the concept of major cultures in the world, women are the weaker in sexual life. Therefore, the perception of a native man marrying a foreign woman and a native woman marrying a foreign man is different, even from the perspective of national dignity. This kind of thinking is not only a specialty of the Chinese people, many countries, such as some parts of Russia, as well as South Korea, etc., have an attitude of rejection of the latter, but support the former. ”
The girl didn't expect that Pang Jindong would have such a rich theory on this issue, and she knew that she couldn't debate Pang Jindong.
She blinked her eyes and simply said what was in her heart: "I just want to marry in a foreign country, what's the matter? Who doesn't run away these days?"
"Me, I'm back after running a lap......" Pang Jindong smiled self-deprecatingly: "Some things can't be put down......"
"Sick!" the girl's voice was inadvertently raised a lot, but it was immediately drowned out by the deafening music in the bar, otherwise it would have attracted many curious glances.
"Say whatever you want, don't bother to explain......" Pang Jindong shrugged his shoulders indifferently: "You don't understand my life." ”
The girl immediately asked, "What can't you put down?"
"Some private matters. Pang Jindong shook his head and said to the girl categorically: "Everyone has the right to choose life, I chose to leave back then, and now I choose to come back, this is my own business, and no one is allowed to interfere." You want to go out and find a better living environment, that's no problem, I shouldn't have interfered in the first place, but I hope you are relying on brushing your mind to change your visa, not B!"
This sentence made the girl stunned: "What do you mean?"
"What I mean is that in pursuit of better living conditions and broader development space, it is understandable to immigrate abroad, just don't forget ...... jì" Pang Jindong said here, and sighed: "Whether it is a man or a woman, in the end, you still have to rely on your own ability." You can sell your hue now, and the time is fleeting, but what about the future?"
"You...... You're nosy......" The girl held back for a long time, really not knowing what to say, and finally spit out these words.
But she couldn't refute it, because Pang Jindong's words seemed to be really reasonable.
"I've said everything I need to say, do you still have any questions?" Pang Jindong poured the soda into the tequila, slammed the glass, and poured the wine into his mouth.
Then, Pang Jindong slowly swallowed the wine, letting the hot sensation flow from his mouth down his throat to his stomach.
The girl was speechless for a moment.
She has always lived in a selfish world, only asking others to be responsible for herself, but never thinking about her own responsibility to others.
Relying on her beauty and youth, she wanted to make some capital for herself, but she never thought about the future.