"Dad, you're just prejudiced against him. Chen Ke said.

"I'm not prejudiced against him, but because you're young, there's a lot of things you don't understand, there's a lot of danger that you're not aware of. I said, "Just say the same, your grades, when you didn't play with Xiao Hongyi, your grades were very good, and you didn't need your father to talk about you when you went home and did your homework obediently, but now you look at how much your grades have declined?"

"It's because I didn't study hard myself, and it has nothing to do with him. Chen Ke is still defending Xiao Hongyi.

"Then tell me why you didn't study hard?" I forcibly did not refute Chen Ke, but guided step by step.

I came from Chen Ke's age, I can understand Chen Ke's thoughts very well, sometimes the more you go against her mind, no matter good or bad, she will have a rebellious mentality, once such a thing happens, she will not listen to what you say.

It's because I'm worried that something like this will happen to Chen Ke, so I feel that it's necessary to have a good chat and talk about it tonight while she and I are the two of you.

Chen Ke is very sensible, there are many things she can understand, but there are also many things that she can't see through at her age and needs someone to guide her.

"It was because I didn't listen to the lecture during class, I was always distracted, I didn't understand what the teacher said, and I didn't study seriously after school, so I didn't do well in the exam. Chen Ke said.

"Then why didn't you listen well during class, what did you think about?" I said.

Chen Ke stopped talking, and I could see her like this at once: "Do you want to do something related to Xiao Hongyi, think about the gift he gave you, or how to play with him after class?"

Chen Ke didn't make a sound, which was a tacit acquiescence.

"Besides, you said that you didn't study seriously after school, why didn't you study seriously, it's because you don't have enough time, you patronize and go to play with Xiao Hongyi, of course you don't have time to study well, you play so well on your mobile phone, type so fast, patronize and play with your mobile phone, how can you still have time to study?" I continued, "You also said that your academic performance has dropped and it has nothing to do with him, think about it yourself, does it have anything to do with him?"

But Brother Xiao Yi's grades were very poor, and his father didn't say anything about him. Chen Ke said.

"He's him, you're you, you don't have to compare yourself to him, and bad grades aren't something to brag about. I said, "As long as a girl's academic performance is good, she can improve her temperament and attract people's attention, don't you watch those stars on TV, most of them are graduates of art schools, most of them are college students." ”

My words seemed to arouse Chen Ke's interest: "Dad, I know Shao Siqi, she played a TV series that is so good-looking, called Sleepless Tonight, many classmates in our class are watching it, and they all say that she acts very well, and she looks beautiful, many classmates buy her stickers and stick them in their textbooks, and her academic performance is also very good?"

I didn't expect Shao Siqi to become so famous, even elementary school students know her, it seems that I am a little outdated: "I don't care if her grades are good or not, but my father knows that she is in college, and she is in a prestigious school." ”

"What about Wu Xue, Wu Xue is also famous. "The two people Chen Ke said have crossed paths with me.

Wu Xue also graduated from a prestigious school and is also a college student. "I'm not telling a lie, Wu Xue did graduate from a prestigious school, and there are indeed grassroots births among the stars, but there are very few, and the effort is many times more than that of ordinary stars, even if he succeeds, he will be looked down upon because of his low education, and even when he participates in variety shows, he has to avoid this, when others report their homes, they all graduated from some college, and when he reports his own home, he can only introduce himself from other places.

"Brother Xiao Yi told me that his father is very rich, and he also said that Dad, you are also very rich, even if we don't study in the future, we won't starve to death, and someone will take care of us, if I don't get admitted to college, Dad, don't you want me?" Chen Ke looked at me a little timidly.

My dedication to college affected Chen Ke and made her feel scared, and I was a little glad that I was back today, and that I chose to talk to Chen Ke instead of arbitrarily letting her do what I thought I would, or even giving her a chance to explain.

"There's something wrong with you. I also looked at Chen Ke, "Whether you can get into college or not, you are your father's daughter, and your father will love you, love you, care about you, and will not want you, even if you can't find a boyfriend in the future, don't marry, and want to stay by your father's side, Dad will welcome you and take care of you until you get old." ”

"But this is not in conflict with Dad asking you to study hard and get into a good university, the reason why Dad wants you to go to college is not to make you money, not to make you productive, but to make you more perfect, people only by constantly improving themselves, can they gain the respect of others, can they continue to improve themselves, improve their temperament, and it is easier to taste the true meaning of life. ”

"Is it like Aunt Su Ran?" Chen Ke asked me.

"That's right, it's like your Aunt Su, whether it's your Aunt Su or your mother, they all went to college, do you think they have the temperament?" I nodded, Chen Ke is smart, can understand what I want to express in my words, and will draw inferences.

The drop in her grades was entirely due to a matter of attitude.

If you want a person to learn, the best way is for her to take the initiative to learn, to be interested in learning, to be able to love learning from the heart, and to force the cow to drink water will only be counterproductive.

"But what if I don't get into college?" Chen Ke was worried.

"As long as you work hard, whether you can pass the exam or not, Dad will not blame you and will always love you, but now the problem is that you have not worked hard, you have relaxed your vigilance, and you have the wrong idea in your heart, Xiao Hongyi helps you take your schoolbag and follow you to transfer schools, this does not mean anything, only after a long time can you see whether a person is sincere, you are still young, the time is still very long, don't rush to make a decision to do anything, learn to observe, learn to feel. External things are always empty, you have to learn to feel the inside of others, feel whether they are sincere in their hearts. I said.

"Dad thinks Xiao Hongyi's ideas are very naïve, whether it is your mother, or Aunt Su, or Wu Xue and Shao Siqi, everyone is studying so hard and eager for knowledge, including your teachers, it must also let you study hard, learning can improve people's minds and broaden people's horizons, Xiao Hongyi advises you not to study, he is not for your own good, but he is lazy, so he wants to take you with him to be lazy. ”

"Dad, you take the college entrance examination, do you want to go to college to improve your temperament?" Chen Ke thought of me.

"That's right. I nodded, "It has always been a regret in my father's heart that I didn't enter the university, so my father wants to make up for this regret, wants to enter the university, wants to learn more knowledge, wants to feel the atmosphere of college life, learning is a wonderful thing, seeing one topic by one, seeing beautiful words, can make people feel happy." ”

Chen Ke was thoughtful, as if thinking about my words.

There are some words that she may not be able to understand and empathize with, but I must tell her that my father's authority has some effect, so that Chen Ke will take my words to heart even if he does not understand them.

"If you can get good grades in the final exam and do what your father says, I will take you to see Shao Siqi during the winter vacation. "It's useless to just preach, you have to use some encouragement.

"Really?" Chen Ke looked at me.

"Really. I nodded, "One more thing, you have to stay away from Xiao Hongyi and have less contact with him, you tell him that if he wants to be friends with you, he must have good grades, only then will I agree to play with the two of you." ”

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