"If you meet the right person, you will marry too. I said to Tong Wangjun, "You are not too young, and you may not even be able to give birth to a child in a few years, and even if you remarry at that time, I am afraid that you will be looked down upon." ”

Some women in China throw all the responsibility on men, and the men are breathless. But it is undeniable that in terms of physical fitness, except for the average age of women is a little higher than that of men, women are really too bitter compared with men in other aspects.

The eldest aunt once a month, not to mention the stomachache when she came, it was very inconvenient, and it was also an expense. Swimming, sports meets, even summer, women work much harder than men at this point, and there are too many things to consider.

No one knows exactly which day or time it will come, so you have to have Sophie with you when you go out, just in case it comes unknowingly. If you don't have enough clothes to wear in the summer, you may feel embarrassed if you forget to bring them one day, or if you miscalculate the day, when you are in the car or when you are eating at a restaurant.

Another is when you are pregnant with a child, for nearly a year, you should pay attention when eating, when walking, even when you don't do anything, you should pay attention, the body will have various reactions, and it will be difficult.

Finally, there is the matter of divorce and remarriage, a man who is married for the second time is far easier to find a partner than a woman who is married for the second time, and the man can still output and have children when he is forty or fifty years old.

Women are not good in this regard, from the age of 30 onwards, coupled with the increased pressure of life, and then there are environmental sanitation problems, they may have early menopause and no children.

What's the biggest difference between a woman and a man? is that a woman is able to conceive a child. If you have menopause, you will no longer have children, you will really suffer from all kinds of white eyes, and your heart will bear a lot of pressure.

Tang Xin is proof that a woman who was originally so confident has a very alternative attitude towards life and is very trendy, but after learning that she can't have a child, the whole person suddenly fell from self-confidence to inferiority, which is very miserable.

I don't want Tong Wangjun to get to this point.

"Isn't there Ah Ke and Xiaole? Even if you don't have children in the future, it doesn't matter much, it's enough to have two children. Tong Wangjun's attitude was a bit careless.

"Ah Ke and Xiaole are your children and me, how can they be the same?" I said, "You are married to someone else, you can't make others think that the child between you and me is his child, right? ”

"There's no rush on this matter, let's see. Tong Wangjun doesn't seem to care very much about this matter.

"What's the matter? Before, you thought about having a stable life, and after quarreling with me, you rented a house with your two children, and met Zhao Zhengyao, how long did you think about marrying him and living a stable life. Now that you have settled in your hometown, and you are preparing to take the civil service exam, and you have a shop, it seems that you are not as anxious as before?" I said.

"Can these two things be the same? Zhao Zhengyao that time was because I was dead to you and had no other thoughts, so I thought about marrying him, and others are actually very good, and living at home is definitely more reliable than you. Tong Wangjun said.

"That's what you see on the surface, and you think he's good. Not to mention that you have known someone for a few months, even if you have known him for a year or two, you may not be able to see his actual face clearly. He wants to deal with you, and the natural way he shows is the gentle side, the considerate side, the gentlemanly side, the honest side, and when he coaxes you, maybe it's another face. I said, "Besides, can you and him have a common topic? You are exposed to far more new things than he is, and you are far more open to ideas than he is, and you two can live well together?"

"Are you looking down on people with low educational qualifications?" Tong Wangjun said.

"I don't look down on people with low education, in terms of IQ, people with low education and people with high education, except for a small number of people who are indeed geniuses, in fact, most of them are no different, just because of family conditions, or because of parents' cognition, or because he is too naughty, he has not been exposed to a higher level of education. In addition to teaching people to read and do problems, in fact, the biggest benefit of education is to broaden people's horizons, make people's thinking more active, more receptive to new things, think about problems from different angles, and have different attitudes towards people. I said.

"In ancient times, why there were people who were in charge of this statement, in fact, it is not that they really look down on the poor, but because they are at different levels, they receive different education, and they have different ways of understanding things, and there will be many differences in their outlook on life