Chapter 639: Just Don't Be Embarrassed
By the time I turned around and returned to the villa, Tang Wan had already left the room.
"Didn't you say you were sleepy and wanted to rest, to sleep in your room, how did you sleep so quickly?" I said with a smile.
Tang Wan glanced at me: "It's not that you can't see that I deliberately went to the room and left the space for you and Su Ran." ”
There is no need to do this, Su Ran didn't say anything when he came over, and bought so many things for the child. I said, "You don't have to deliberately avoid her like this in the future, just sit down and talk about something." ”
"I'm not afraid of her, I'm not hating her, it's because I want to give you and her time for the two of you to talk. Tang Wan said, "Su Ran is indeed very good, but there are some words that I am standing between the two of you, and it is always inconvenient for her to say them, leaving some space for you, so that you will also be more comfortable." ”
What Tang Wan said is indeed not wrong, even between the elders and their children, they must also avoid a little.
Some elders just can't figure out this situation, or don't have this awareness at all, when the children are not married, they open the door and go to the children's room, although this is not very good, but it does not have much impact.
But if the children are married, if they still do this, they don't know how to avoid it, then they don't consider the feelings of the children too much.
If such a situation is not corrected, contradictions will definitely break out over time.
People should respect each other, even if they are parents and children, and leave some space for each other, so that they can live in harmony.
"I went to the room just now to take a look, and Su Ran really bought a lot of things, even preparing talcum powder for babies. Tang Wan said, "She spent a lot of time, some of which I had considered before, but I didn't think about it as well as she did." ”
"She walked around the supermarket for two or three hours. I said.
"It's definitely not just that. Tang Wan is very determined, "I usually go to the supermarket to buy some fruit and food, but if I walk casually, it may be delayed for an hour or two." Su Ran bought a lot of things, and they were all some well-known brands in the world, so how could he choose them as soon as he arrived at the supermarket? Even if he asked the shopping guide in the supermarket, it was impossible to buy these things within two or three hours. ”
Speaking of this, Tang Wan suddenly paused and looked at me: "Su Ran hasn't talked about a boyfriend before, right?"
"Nope. I shook my head.
She hasn't talked about her boyfriend, and she doesn't know what children need to use, but she was able to buy all these things in the supermarket within two or three hours, which only means that she was prepared in advance, and learned about these things online or from friends, so she bought these things in the supermarket. Tang Wan said.
"Possibly. I nodded, Tang Wan's analysis was very reasonable, Su Ran should have a certain purchase intention and learned some knowledge before going to the supermarket, so he bought so many things in two or three hours.
"Chen Jin, if I don't get pregnant, don't you tell my uncle and aunt about my pregnancy?" Tang Wan suddenly said to me.
"Why?" I wondered, "Aren't you going to Eshi? Or are you worried that it's not convenient for my mother to take care of you, and you don't want my mother to take care of you?"
"I'm not worried about this, but I'm worried about my pregnancy, and if you let my uncle and aunt know about it, they will force you. Tang Wan said.
"What are you forcing me?" I still didn't understand what Tang Wan was trying to say.
"I'm afraid they're going to force you to marry me. Tang Wan looked at me, "I think it's good to be in such a state now, don't be in such a hurry to get married, I know that you are a man who is willing to be responsible, but there are many times when the responsibility is unclear, you are responsible for me, what about Su Ran, what should she do?" If you are in charge of me, you will not be responsible for her, then your heart will not be happy either, Su Ran will not be happy, and even Tong Wangjun, including Ah Ke and Xiaole, will have pimples, since everyone will be unhappy, then why do you want to get a marriage certificate, why do you want to complete this form?"
"Society is like this, if you don't complete this form, it is equivalent to having no name, and you will be pointed at. I said, "The same is not fair to you." ”
"I don't think it's unfair, God has been very fair to me, there was such an accident, I was already dead, I thought it was impossible to have my own children in this life, but now God has sent me this gift, brought me children, what am I not satisfied with, what is unfair? Tang Wan walked up to me and looked up at me, "It's good to be in such a state now, I don't want to break it, I'm worried that after it is broken, there will be another accident." ”
"Is it because Su Ran bought so many things that you have such an idea?" I asked Tang Wan.
"Actually, I thought about this a long time ago, and even when I learned that I was pregnant and had a baby, I was thinking, what kind of way should I get along with you, and I also thought about whether I should use the child as a threat to you