Chapter 23 The Great Conflict between Mother-in-law and Daughter-in-law's Concept of Education
The next morning, when the family was having breakfast, Yan's mother asked Jiajia if she was having fun yesterday.
Jiajia also told her grandmother the story of the parent-child restaurant, and told her the story of playing with programming toys.
"Grandma, I like Uncle Fang so much, he has been playing with me and telling me English picture books. The happier Jiajia described, the more Yan's mother felt bad in her heart, Yan's mother guarded this everyone for a lifetime, and she was most afraid that her little grandson would stop having her surname in the end.
But how could grandma be angry with her favorite little grandson, after breakfast, Yan's mother called Fang Xiaohe to the house.
"In the future, don't take Jiajia for activities like this, it's a waste of time to go. ”
Fang Xiaohe usually obeys Yan's mother and is obedient, but in terms of children's education, as a mother, she will definitely not be sloppy.
"Mom, I don't feel like I'm wasting time, you see how happy Jiajia is when she tells you stories in the morning. ”
Of course, Yan's mother couldn't tell Fang Xiaohe what she really thought in her heart.
"Recently, the Ministry of Education has issued a notice that it is strictly forbidden for kindergartens to "primary" education, don't you know? It also prohibits social training institutions from teaching primary school content in advance in the name of preschool and kindergarten-primary connection. ”
"Mom, this is really not, this is mainly playing, it doesn't involve calculation at all, memorizing this kind of thing, so that children can get fun in playing, and promote the development of skills in all aspects through the mobilization of various senses. ”
"Okay, okay, forget it, I won't argue with you, I can't say anything about you, I don't want him to participate in any extracurricular classes in the future, how old is this? ”
"Mom, I want to take Jiajia to an English initiation class, which is also a new company of our company, and I heard that the French P4CPhilosophyforChildren teaching method is adopted, which is the children's philosophy teaching method. ”
As soon as she heard that it was their company again, and it had something to do with Fang Shan, Yan's mother was very angry: "What, a four-year-old child, still engaged in children's philosophy, are you kidding? ”
Fang Xiaohe continued to explain to Yan's mother: Mom, Jiajia is my own son, how can I harm him, it's not philosophy, Mom, it's up to the children to ask questions about topics they are more interested in, parents and teachers can tell the children how they view this issue from the adult world, and finally form their final thoughts in the discussion with the children. This is also the charm of children's philosophy classes, which cannot be predicted in advance, and the real classroom can only be generated little by little with the children's discussions. In such daily discussions and conversations, we help children become patient listeners and confident expressions, strengthen children's thinking and reasoning skills, and help them become learners who can think deeply and logically. In children's philosophical inquiry activities, the cultivation of four ways of thinking: critical thinking, innovative thinking, caring thinking, and collaborative thinking is integrated, so it is also referred to as P4C.
Even if Fang Xiaohe explained again, Yan's mother was not very happy, and Xiaohe didn't say anything more.
Yan's mother made a phone call for Yan Leng in the house
"Why, isn't it Sunday? Shouldn't you come over and take Didi and Jiajia out to play?"
Yan Leng looked like he had just woken up on the other side of the phone.
"Uh-huh, got it, got it, you let me go, I'll come over. It's been early in the morning, you're acting like a machine gun. ”
"What do you mean, I asked you to come over, you will come, don't you worry about your own children? How many times have you been back to this house after the divorce. "Yan's mother's words can't be spoken.
"Okay, Mom, don't be angry, I'll go over with Yu Rui right now, right away, right away. ”
Jiajia was of course happy to see her father, and when Didi saw Yu Rui also coming, she refused to go out with them.
On the other end, Feng Wei also received a phone call.
"Oh, Brother Fang Shan, why did you remember to call me, you are now holding a beauty. Feng Wei was laughing here.
"Don't make fun of me, hug the beauty and don't return, others don't know, don't you know? I'm calling you this time to get down to business, and I'm listening to Xiaohe say that you want to do some small business recently. ”
"Yes, yes, the little hard-earned money I worked so hard to work with is not a way to keep it in the bank, and I also want it to come out and roll in the capital market. ”
"I have a business experience, I don't know if you are interested?" Feng Wei"
"God, Brother Fang Shan really looks up to me, who doesn't know that you are famous in the circle, making money one by one, and asking me for advice. ”
"Then let's not talk darkly, I want to open a parent-child restaurant for Xiaohe, last time we drank Jiajia together, I feel that Jiajia and Xiaohe both like it very much, let's invest money together, how about it? ”
"There is such a good thing, I must agree a hundred times, can Xiaohe agree with you to give him money?"
"That's right, so I'm looking for you, you have to find a way not to let Xiaohe know. ”
This is really difficult to do, but when she thinks of making money and spending it casually, and losing someone else's, Feng Wei feels that any difficult task of starting a business is not a task.
"Oh, Brother Fang Shan, is your parent-child restaurant for Xiaohe, or for Jiajia, my son has never seen such a good one. ”
"Both"
Fang Shan had just hung up the phone here, and Xiaohe called.
"Who are you talking to? I've called you several, and they're all busy. ”
"Oh, it's okay, it's okay, it's in class. Feng Wei said abruptly.
"Come out in the afternoon to get together, Jiajia is not at home, Didi goes out to play, and I am also free." ”
"Okay, okay," Feng Wei was about to discuss the matter of the parent-child restaurant with Xiaohe.
"Xiaohe, how about we open a parent-child restaurant together?"
"Brother Fang Shan told you, I told him last time, if he wants to do business or something, he can find you. ”
"Mm-hmm, yes, she just gave me this idea. Isn't that what I want to do with you?"
"Feng Wei, but you also know me, where do I have money, I just went to work, I don't have the money in my card now to open a parent-child restaurant, I can't go to a parent-child restaurant to get an annual card for Jiajia." ”
Hearing Xiaohe say this, Feng Wei felt even more distressed in her heart, who would have thought that this would be the eldest and youngest grandmother of the Yan family.
"You have money, let me tell you something, I knocked a hard sum for you in Yan Leng, after the two of you divorced, I told Yan Leng that if you don't pay for the loss of divorce, I will spread the affairs of your Yan family to him through my news industry channels, and see how Yan's mother takes care of him. ”
"Feng Wei, it's not okay to do this, I'm still living in the Yan family now. ”
"Oh, Yan's mother doesn't know about this money, it was Yan Leng who secretly gave it to me, let me pass it on to you, you must not tell Yan's mother, and also, don't ask Yan Leng about this matter again, he said it when he gave me the money, he didn't want to mention it again, and he would give you the divorce loss fee at one time, and he didn't want Yu Rui to know. ”
Seeing that Xiaohe was still hesitating, Feng Wei continued, "What kind of money is that? In your Xiaohe, it is a lot of money, and it is nothing for Young Master Yan, look at you, what did you say just now, the money in your pocket is hard to give Jiajia an annual card for a parent-child restaurant, and Yu Rui is now more money in a casual bag than in your card, so you don't want to earn more money for Jiajia?"
What Feng Wei said, Xiaohe still believed, and he thought that Feng Wei also had this strength, so the two of them began to plan to choose a site to open a parent-child restaurant.