Chapter 119: Daoxiang
Try to look back and see whether the struggles and efforts of the past, the contentment and gratitude of the past have inadvertently contributed to today's better life, and whether the time that was once mistakenly thought to be the lowest point and completely unbearable in the past has now become a kind of resume that can be fully smiled, and even enough to be called proud......
In the time of life, in the journey of life, have we really been doing nothing, and have we not made any progress compared to the past? Are we really always forgotten by the world? Are our efforts really unrewarded?
No!
No!
Of course not!
Maybe we have worked hard for ten points, worked hard for 100 points, but the harvest is only seven points and eight points, and the achievements we have obtained are just passing, but that does not prove that we have not made progress, does not prove that we have not gained, that can only prove that you are not lucky for a while, but you have not met the right person and done the right thing for a while, that's all......
Maybe the world is not fair enough, yes, some people struggle more, some people struggle less, but the results vary from person to person, very different, some people are born in war-torn countries and regions, life is difficult and you have to look at the faces of others, some people are born in the rich and noble family, eat and drink spicy, commanding, but this is the rule of nature, there is nothing absolutely reasonable and unreasonable, fair and unfair......
When God closes a door for man, he will inevitably open a window for you. There's really nothing wrong with that.
In fact, people who gain more lose just as much. Those who get more have the same amount of trouble. A billionaire has the troubles of a billionaire, the things and feelings that he can't get, the floating days that he can't steal, the places where he can't come and go freely, and the happiness and health that he can't buy......
Even the president of the country, who is the head of a country, will be entangled in countless affairs, but he can't live the free and leisurely time of ordinary people, enjoying the joy of family and family reunion......
People are very different, but why complain about your own injustice and hate others for their seemingly perfect lives?
You need to know that perhaps the life and taste you envy have a lot of indescribable bitterness in the eyes of the person concerned. And the life and rhythm that you want to turn your back on are exactly what the other person wants, who can say?
While you are looking at the scenery, you also become someone else's landscape.
You think it's beautiful for others, but others may think the same about the scenery here.
As Zhuangzi said in Qiushui, the child is not a fish, you know the joy of fish, the fish has the joy of fish, you have your sorrow, (this sentence is intertextual) why bother to look at others, and ignore the beauty around you?
It is difficult to be moved by people who have a lot of delicious food, peerless beauties, lovely children, friends who talk and laugh, in them it is like coarse tea and light rice, there is no taste and no feeling to eat, and you can't experience the great happiness of ordinary people, why?
It's very simple, if you see too much of the same thing and eat too much, you will get tired of changing it. And for those ordinary people who seem to have a lot less, how enjoyable it is to have a good meal, chasing a beautiful woman who they think is good as a wife, marrying a man who they think is good enough in all aspects as a husband, giving birth to two children who they think are handsome or beautiful, shouting and laughing everywhere at home, the family strives to create a warm atmosphere of a small family, and lives a better and better life both materially and spiritually, which is unparalleled happiness and satisfaction......
In addition to life, occasionally calling friends, calling relatives, going to the next restaurant, drinking some wine and eating some side dishes, "short parents", laughing and scolding, but also extremely comfortable and happy......
Isn't it?
Can't the vast majority of us live this kind of life?
Of course!
In these years, as long as you work hard, what can't you get?
Isn't the country we live in now, the dynasty in which we live now, a great power and a prosperous era?
Yes, our motherland, our social system may still have many imperfections, inconsiderateness, inhumanity, all kinds of things, but, in comparison, isn't our current life very beautiful and worth cherishing?
In such an environment, after we have really worked hard, will we always be nothing?
We've worked hard, we've worked hard, we've bled and sweated, and our quality of life really can't be improved?
Of course, it's not quite right to drill the horns.
As long as it is not too much, I believe that the answer to this question for most people should be undoubted.
As long as we work hard enough and work hard enough, anyone can find a job, be able to support their family through this work, and live a life that may be less than others, but still more and more hopeful and progressive than in the past, right?
As long as we are willing to work, we can find a wife, marry a husband, have one or two children, the price is very expensive, but we can still afford to eat, play, travel in our spare time, shop online when we are busy, and we can always find a way to treat and relax ourselves......
As long as we work hard, as long as we live, there is hope for everything!
Yes, of course, there are still a lot of problems for ordinary people, such as the housing prices are too expensive, and it is difficult to destroy countless couples for countless good men. Housing prices are a big problem, and housing prices are not only the problems of commodity society, but also the problems of supply and demand, and they will definitely not be solved for a while. But as long as we don't get into the nitty-gritty, we will eventually find a way to solve this problem.
Isn't it?
The tree dies, and the man lives.
As long as you don't get into the nitty-gritty, everything is hopeful!
So, we don't have nothing, but we are occasionally bent over our shoulders by the burdens of life. This makes us sometimes complain, makes us sometimes forget contentment and gratitude, makes us sometimes forget to cherish the beauty of the moment, makes us feel tired, and makes us sigh and ridicule "tired and not love......
It's okay if we're tired, as long as we don't go astray and don't fall into the strange circle and quagmire of complaining and cynicism, we have a way to continue to drink in big bowls, eat meat in large chunks, blow the wind, sing songs, and have endless fun, free and free......
As long as you live, there is hope!
Fall, get up, and keep going!
There will always be a time for transit, there will always be a time to meet the right person, there will always be a time when small luck and great touches will come to your life, make you happy, let you be free, and make you grateful......