As said in "The Little Prince", it is the time and effort you put into each other that makes this love more precious!

In this book, the gentle setting is a nutritionist, of course, this is her future decision, and it is her kind of heart that wants to do something for the torture shadow, so that she works in this direction. This is love, love makes people forge ahead, love makes people find themselves, love makes people see the direction, this is excellent love!

In the gentle love, she wants her beloved to make breakfast with love, eat it one bite at a time, and then start a beautiful day with a satisfied mood!

This is also the essence of gentleness!

"Gentleness" is also another major element of what I understand as love!

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Exceptionally good morning

Wake up half an hour early

I'm going to make him breakfast

Makes him feel as good as I do

Although he has gained a bit of weight lately

It should not hurt to nourish once in a while

Don't dare to be too loud with light hands and feet

Look at him rolling up and sleeping so soundly

Make a breakfast for a loved one

Let him wake up to the smell of coffee

He was not allowed to say that he was in a hurry to get to work

I want him to feel the warmth of home little by little

Make a breakfast for a loved one

Let him wake up in the scent of cream

Don't let him think the scrambled eggs are too old and the bread is too burnt

I want him to eat my love one bite at a time

——Zhao Yonghua "Breakfast"

In my impression, Zhao Yonghua is a smart and charming woman. She may not be very pretty, but I just can't help but like this style of woman. Her playfulness, her charm, her gentle character, and her singing voice like a little woman fill the little gap in her appearance and make her image more beloved, and I recommend her songs here.

In "Breakfast", Zhao Yonghua sang, I want him to feel the warmth of home little by little, yes, for women, maybe the way to express love is breakfast, and a breakfast with love is just a man's home, which can make men feel family and feel the warmth from women.

And for a man like me, there is another special requirement for the understanding of love, that is, I hope to have breakfast until two o'clock in the afternoon, which is my happiness.

I'm a writer guy. As I said in The Lop Nur Archives, as a writer of hard work, my schedule is often not guaranteed. Many times, while writing, you have to think about the follow-up plot, you must "look ahead", there must be a sharp foreshadowing in the front, there must be a stunning reversal in the back, etc., the waking time is completely insufficient, so even if you fall asleep, you will always be repeatedly entangled in the dream, in the form of a dream, keep using your brain, continue to create the plot, and continue to write diligently.

As a result, I often don't sleep well at night and don't want to get up in the morning. But it's not good to be lazy on weekdays, and there's no way to sleep until you wake up naturally, and on weekends and Sundays, I may let myself sleep all the time in the dark, sleep all the time, even if I'm awake, I have to stay in bed until I think about all the things I should think about before I get up, those things are usually not figured out in the previous plot, and I don't get up until I think about it, and then I get up yelling.

At this time, it may be ninety o'clock, it may be eleven or twelve o'clock, and even, most likely, it will be one or two o'clock in the afternoon.

At this time, the mood may be high-spirited, may be frustrated, maybe, if at this time, you can see a bright smile at the bedside, can hear a woman's soft words and warmth, and then be able to eat a breakfast exclusive to two o'clock in the afternoon, how beautiful it would be!

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A cup of coffee and a slice of bread

A fresh Sunday

One omelette and a little fried rice

A bright smile

The afternoon sun was shining

Listen to your soft words and warm words

I remembered that I hadn't been with you for a long time

Have a good chat

I feel sorry for you and I'm struggling to make money

You're worried about me working overtime

No matter how tired you are, no matter how bitter you are, it is sweet

No matter how difficult it is, because you share it

Let me sleep until half past one in the afternoon

Let me have breakfast at two o'clock

Even if it's chaotic day and night

Even if you are exhausted

With you, happiness will not be exchanged

Let me sleep until the next forever

Let me sleep until the world falls

It doesn't matter how dark it is

Not afraid of world wars

Just wake up with breakfast you made

One night and one day

Keep rotating for ever

One woman, one room

It's the home of men

I don't want to have a lot of money

Don't ask for three palaces and six courtyards

I'm striving for it

Just our tomorrow

——Zhang Mengmeng, "Breakfast at 2 o'clock in the afternoon"

Yes. As sung in the song "Breakfast at Two o'clock in the afternoon", a night, a day, continuous rotation becomes forever, a woman, a room, is the warmest home for men, and what men strive to pursue is just our beautiful tomorrow, this is home, this is love, this is happiness.

Don't ask for more, that's enough. This is what I understand as perfect love, another major element, the perfect division of labor!

It has nothing to do with the equality of men and women, it has nothing to do with the inside and outside of the master, but both men and women must find their respective positions in the world of love, identify their own positions, and in their own positions, work hard and pay voluntarily and happily, in order to harvest perfect love and get stable happiness!

Otherwise, how can there be a happy love for the "male farmer and female weaver" who is too calculating, can't find his own position, and can't be happy?

As long as you can find a balance in your love, then what does it matter who is inside and outside? Who is stronger and who is weaker, what is there to worry about? And for the comments of outsiders, don't care, in your love world, how to live comfortably, it is completely a matter between you. There is no need to refer to and listen to others.

In the world of love, there is never a perfect template that can be applied to anyone. The only thing we can guide and balance is our own love.

There may be many elements of happy love, but it may also be very simple, in the final analysis, it is just that pure love, for your heart, this is enough. This is the prerequisite for all love to happen, only with such a heart, love can happen, can start, can progress, can blossom, and even bear fruit.

And unhappy love mostly stems from the asymmetry of love. I pay for you, I am crazy for you, I give all my enthusiasm for you, but you, but you are cowering, not loving enough, only a little bit back, so that I can't see where your heart is, so that I can't see the sincerity that you love me, just like Liu Ruoying's song sings, do you dare to be crazy about love like me, do you dare to love me as you said?

For the sake of your right, I am willing to do everything to defend your glory and support you until you are brilliant, for your fault, I even dare to be the enemy of the whole world, just to pull you back to the right path, then, do you dare? Do you dare, like me, crazy for love to such a degree? I don't ask for more, only ask for your love for me, can it be as strong as mine?

(End of chapter)