Chapter 190: The Door Is Right
After listening to his introduction, Lin Wenfeng said: "You are looking for me to see the marriage, in fact, you just want to see if it is possible for you and that Su Jing Mushroom Liang?"
Tang Xiaobao nodded and sighed: "Hey~ Master, don't say it, it turns out that there may not be anything between me and Su Jing." β
Lin Wenfeng looked at him and said, "Actually, is there a possibility between you and that mushroom Liang, and you don't need to ask me, it is already destined that there will be no result between you." β
Hearing this, Tang Xiaobao was immediately unhappy, pouted and said: "Master, I don't like to hear you say this, what is it that it is doomed between us that it is impossible, isn't there such a sentence, everything is possible, what if Su Jing suddenly falls in love with me!"
These words directly amused Lin Wenfeng, and he said: "It seems that you still don't have the heart to die, even if you say this, then I'll make it clear, I don't know what will happen to you in the future, but with the way you are now, there is nothing to say between you and her." β
Tang Xiaobao said: "Why not, master, if you look down on me, you can say it clearly, there is no need to talk about me like this." After speaking, he lost his temper and turned his face to the side and ignored Lin Wenfeng.
Seeing this, Lin Wenfeng said: "I'm full and say you, if I really want to say that you can use around the bush, do you know why there is no possibility between you and her." β
Tang Xiaobao shook his head, if he knew, he wouldn't be as excited as he was just now, it was because he didn't know that he had illusions about Su Jing in his heart, fantasizing that there could be a little connection between himself and Su Jing, even if it was just a little.
But this was just his fantasy after all.
Lin Wenfeng opened his mouth and said: "If you didn't say the various conditions of that mushroom cool at the beginning, maybe I could still agree with what you just said, but since I heard you say it, even if I haven't seen that mushroom cool with my own eyes, according to what you said, I can know that there is no drama between you and her at all;
Because the distance between the two of you is not a star and a half, there is no right match at all, let alone the possibility between her and you, being an ordinary friend can be said to be the biggest fate between the two of you. β
Tang Xiaobao retorted: "Master, I can't agree with this, what age is this, what kind of concept is still talking about, it's already an old-fashioned topic, besides, I don't believe that Su Jing is such a superficial person." β
Lin Wenfeng knew that Tang Xiaobao was thinking badly when he heard it, but he didn't explain, but said: "Okay, let's not mention this first, I will ask you a question based on the conditions of the mushroom liang you said, and I hope you will answer me after thinking carefully." β
Tang Xiaobao said: "Master, you say!"
Lin Wenfeng looked at him seriously and said, "Don't you think there is a possibility between you and Su Jing, okay, let me ask you, what do you think about you can attract people's attention and make people interested in you."
I'll answer me later, and if you can say something that I can't refute, I'll immediately apologize to you for what I just said. β
Tang Xiaobao opened his mouth and wanted to say it after hearing this, but he couldn't say anything when the words came to his mouth, and he kept thinking about what he had that could attract Su Jing.
I'm sorry, but my dad is more powerful than your dad;
Before you start earning money, others are already worth more than a billion;
Appearance? With her identity, there is still a lack of handsome and well-established people around her.
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So the more Tang Xiaobao thought about it, the more he felt that the gap between him and Su Jing was really like what Lin Wenfeng said, the difference was not a little bit, and in the end, he raised his head, looked at Lin Wenfeng sitting in front of him with a flickering gaze and said: "Even if you don't have it, you can be friends first, and then slowly deepen your understanding, maybe it will be." β
Lin Wenfeng let out an "oh" and said, "It's a good idea to get to know each other first." β
Tang Xiaobao was like grasping a life-saving straw, and said with a smile: "Yes, master!"
Lin Wenfeng didn't look at him, but picked up the teacup, blew the tea leaves floating on the water, and said slowly: "Then let me ask you again, how can you be sure that Su Jing is willing to be friends with you, why did she want to be friends with you, is there anything different about you, or you and her have known each other before, and how likely do you think it is that you will meet for the first time and become friends." β
This series of questions, Tang Xiaobao was speechless, he didn't know what to say with his mouth open, he looked at Lin Wenfeng in front of him blankly, he really wanted to refute, but what Lin Wenfeng said was reasonable, why would Su Jing be friends with him, since he didn't have to be friends, then it was even more impossible for him and Su Jing to be good.
Looking at Tang Xiaobao, who had fallen into deep thought, Lin Wenfeng said: "Since you can't figure it out, then I'll tell you what I think, as you just said, you can become friends first, and then slowly understand, but have you ever thought about what you have that others can understand?"
You can't even make people curious, how can others be friends with you, and even if the two of you really become friends, how many topics do you think you can have in common in terms of your living habits in different fields;
There's no even a topic anymore, how long do you think your relationship can last?,It won't be long before your relationship will slowly fade until it disappears.,Even childhood sweethearts have this possibility.,Let alone the two of you.γ
This has to go back to the topic of the door, and make friends, you must have a living environment with little difference, so that friendship can be generated, and the relationship will be long-lasting, otherwise you will find that you will be more and more tired with her, until you can't hold on.
The match you think of is the equivalence between money and status, but this is only part of it, it is more that the two families should have similar living habits and a similar level of knowledge between the two, so that the two will have similar views on real things, there will be more common language in life, there will be common happiness, will maintain a longer mutual appreciation, and will keep the relationship between the two of you lasting vitality;
So instead of fantasizing about unrealistic things there, it's better to seize the time to enrich yourself, and when you're good enough, you can do these things, maybe you don't need to do anything more, and everything will fall into place;
Don't be afraid that it will be too late, because as long as you work hard, it is yours after all, and if it is not yours, no matter how anxious you are, you will not get it, and even if you get it, how long can you have it;
When you are really good enough, what suits you now may not be worth mentioning for you in the future, at most you will leave some good memories, and then when you look back at your current self, you will feel how naΓ―ve you are. β
After finishing speaking, he got up and came to Tang Xiaobao's side, patted him on the shoulder and said, "I said so much, it's up to you how to do it, when you think it out, when to stop and rest." β
Then Lin Wenfeng turned his head and went back to the room, leaving Tang Xiaobao alone in the courtyard squatting and thinking about these questions.