It is said that rural people are simple, and I and my parents are all rural people, but it is undeniable that some rural people are really annoying, their words seem to be caring, but in fact, they have a good show.

I don't know what these people think in their hearts, as if others are down, rotten, and if something happens, they can get better.

This situation is not unique to rural people, but the rural neighbors know each other, who has something in the house and the whole village immediately knows, the city is a single family, guarding their own small home, many people may have lived for decades and do not necessarily know whether the neighbor living next door is male or female, and there are several people in the family.

"It's fine. Tong Wangjun shook his head, "Don't you often tell me not to care about other people's eyes, why are you so angry when others say a few words now?" ”

"I'm not angry myself, I'm just worried that you'll have ideas. I said.

Tong Wangjun and I are divorced, but anyway, she and I were husband and wife before all, and we also have two children, and there must be some feelings, and I took the initiative to call her when I came back this time, so it is reasonable to protect her.

Life shouldn't care about other people's opinions, but sometimes it's often involuntarily.

Not socializing with people, isolated from the world, mavericks are regarded as strange, become alternative in the eyes of others, and seem out of place. When interacting with people, you have to endure these gossips, without a good attitude, you can't do it at all, and your heart is a little fragile, and you are tortured everywhere.

"Dad, let's plant a tree together. When we got to the field, Chen Ke took a small sapling and ran over and said to me and Tong Wangjun.

"Good. I smiled, put down Chen Le in my arms, and didn't forget to advise, "Don't run around, be careful not to fall." ”

The land had not been cultivated for a long time, it was all weeds, the soil was very strong, and in the corner of the ground there were four or five fruit trees, two peach trees, and three orange trees, which had been planted for some years, and it was very pleasant to look at.

The peach tree also had some flower bones on it, and some greenery emerged.

Chen Le ran two steps and tripped over, I was startled, hurriedly ran over and dragged the hoe in her hand, stuffed a fruit sapling into her hand, coaxed twice, she didn't cry, grabbed the sapling and pulled the leaves, babbling in her mouth.

The weather was good, and after a morning of hard work, two bags of saplings were planted, watered, and fertilized.

In the outermost place, there is a sapling that is almost bare, and there are only four or five green leaves left, which is still snatched from Chen Le's hands, otherwise there will be no leaves left.

"Dad, how long will it take for this tree to grow?" Chen Ke asked me, looking at a sapling he had planted.

"What's wrong?" I asked her.

"When the tree grows, I'm going to write my father's and mother's names on it. Chen Ke pointed to the small sapling beside him, "I remember, it's this tree, I planted it." Also write Xiaole's name, and our family's name is written on it. ”

"Okay, when it grows up, we'll come back together, and you'll carve words on it. I smiled and nodded.

The tree that Chen Ke planted was an orange tree, and when the tree grows, it will take at least five or six years to be able to engrave words on it, and then she can still remember what she said now.

"Let's go, go back. My dad beckoned, patted the dirt off his body, and picked up Chen Le.

"No, I'm going to make a mark on it in a minute, so I don't forget. Chen Ke, who had taken two steps, stopped, as if he suddenly remembered something, and wanted to make a mark on the sapling.

"Put a few twigs in the side. I said.

"It's not good, the branches will wither, they will rot. Chen Ke did not agree.

"Use a headband, hang it on a branch. Tong Wangjun took a head rope from his pocket and gave it to Chen Ke.

"Okay, just use this. Chen Ke took the head rope and wrapped it around the tree she planted, very smart not to be entangled, leaving a very loose mouth.

After getting it done, Chen Ke looked at it again and again, and then clapped his little hands: "Okay, that's it." Let's go, we'll come back when it grows up. ”

After eating at home, my parents went out to visit a few relatives.

Not far away, in the village, there are a few elders, as well as my uncle's house, these are relatively close, far away is inconvenient, and it is too late to come up.

I didn't want to go, I don't like to go to relatives very much, my mother had to pull me to go: "It's not easy to come back, you still stay in the house and don't move, you haven't come back for the New Year, and if you don't go now, others should gossip." ”

"Let them say yes, and they won't move around much in the future. "I don't care, I don't care what they say about me.

Sometimes relatives are not as reliable as friends, and relatives who are related by blood cannot help you when you are in trouble, and may give you a chill, but friends may make you feel the warmth that you can't feel from your relatives.

Relatives, friends, in fact, the difference is not so important, it depends on the person.

In today's society, in addition to close relatives, the blood relationship next to it is actually a joke.

"It's not a relative who asked you to leave, your uncle should take a walk, right? When you went out to mess around, your uncle helped a lot and sent 100,000 yuan over, don't you understand this truth? And your uncle also helped a lot, carrying things with me. My mom said.

"Don't be so stubborn, you can't expect much help from others, but when it's difficult, since they help you, you have to remember the good of others. ”

"Go ahead, the third uncle and uncle have helped you a lot, you should go over and take a look. Tong Wangjun also said on the side.

I thought about it and nodded, my uncle and third uncle are my father's brothers, and I really wanted to go and walk around, so I followed my mother and my father.

There is actually nothing to say about visiting relatives, nothing more than to sit at home, chat for a while, ask about work, ask about boyfriend and girlfriend, and about children.

The proud are more proud, and the frustrated are more frustrated.

"Mom, why did the family still ask my third uncle to take 100,000 yuan because I gambled?" I asked my mother on the way back.

"What else can it be if it's not this, you kid, you don't know anything when you're so old, are your third uncle and your uncle outsiders? They may sometimes do something wrong, but they will help more or less when it's difficult. My mother said, "You don't like to go to relatives, the relatives next to you can not move, I can walk with your father, but your third uncle and uncle, every year when you come back, you have to move around." ”

"I see. I nodded, "What about my uncle, what did he do for me?"

"You almost went in at that time, and it was your uncle who asked people everywhere to find a relationship. My dad said on the side, "You have to pay back the favors you owe, although it is your uncle, but the good of others must also be kept in mind, and you can't be without a conscience." ”

"Got it. I nodded, a little ashamed, I didn't know anything about it.

Before high school, I didn't think that the uncle and the third uncle helped the family much, and the family was going to open a teahouse at that time, and they were short of money, and the third uncle and the uncle were not optimistic about it, so they didn't borrow money, but they didn't expect that they helped me so much when I had an accident.

The grace of a drop of water should be reciprocated by a spring, no matter who helped me in my difficult times, I will always remember it in my heart, and I will repay it no matter what.

"Wangjun, this child is a good child, she is willing to come back with you, which means that there must be you in my heart, you have to think about it carefully, my mother is a person who has come over, she must know better than you, you have to take what I say to heart." My mom told me again.

"They're all divorced. "I don't want to talk to my mother about this, "If two people can live together, they will naturally be together, and if they can't get together, it's useless to force it, so you don't care about it." ”

"I don't care, how can I let your temperament come, you're not too young, almost 30 years old, and you have two children. You can't live a life like this, you must find a daughter-in-law to continue to live. My mother said, and after a while, she whispered to me, "Su Ran, that girl is also very good." ”

"You know, you've said it twice. I was a little helpless and reminded, "In China, bigamy is a crime, you can't let me have both, right?"

"I didn't say that, I'm just reminding you that both girls are good boys and can't be disappointed. You can do it yourself, and I won't mix it. "My mom threw the problem to me.

"Oh, by the way, Mom, do you have more beds in the house?" I asked my mom about something.