Chapter 604: Considerations
Qin Bai didn't expect his old wife Niu to have such a thought. In the past, she attached the most importance to Brother Qian'er, the eldest grandson, and talked about it every year, if it weren't for his hard persuasion, she would not have left the child in Jiangning's old parents to live, and she had been separated from herself for many years.
Qin Bai remembered that not long ago, the Niu family was still talking about this. Where did she think that after only three or two months of hard work, she had the idea of passing Brother Qian out. It is certainly safer for the child to go out and change his identity, but in the same way, he is no longer the grandson of the couple, and he can no longer call Niu's grandmother. Could it be that in this way, the Niu family is also willing to do so?
Qin Bai asked Niu, and Niu sighed and said: "Of course I can't bear it! But he is my own grandson! Even if he goes out and I take him to Beijing, can't he still call me grandmother? Even if it's a nephew in name, I can take care of him. The most important thing is that Brother Qian'er will go out and return to the capital, and the rest of the family will not be so awkward when they see him. He grew up in his hometown in Jiangning since he was a child, and after changing his name, and even his parents were replaced, who in Beijing can tell who gave birth to him? I am afraid that Sister Lian Zhang'er may not be able to guess that this is her brother from the same mother's womb. Isn't that the best of both worlds?"
In the past, Niu was a little confused in many things because he was worried about his eldest grandson, but now he has slowly figured it out a lot. Brother Qian has been away from this family for so long, even if he takes it back, what if he takes it back? Qin An, who is a father-in-law, is indecisive in his son's affairs, and he may not be reliable in the future. As for Xiao Feng, she is certainly a virtuous person, when Feng Yuting was in Jiangning, she also went to visit Brother Qian as an uncle, whether she was sincere or not, but the Feng family sisters and brothers made a gesture. But if she really brought Brother Qian with her to raise her, she might not be happy in her heart.
Although Brother Qian and Qin Hanzhu are brothers and sisters of the same father and mother, Brother Qian has never been raised in front of Xiao Feng for a day, but Qin Hanzhu was raised by Xiao Feng, and he has never seen his biological mother, which gives people a different feeling. No matter how good Xiao Feng's heart is, she is also embarrassed when she meets such a child, because no matter how she treats him, it is easy to provoke others. If he is negligent, she will definitely be blamed, but if he treats him too well, what will Qin Ping's family think?
Although Qin Ping has remarried, and now his wife is pregnant again, no one can say whether he is really relieved of the death of his ex-wife. Of course, he will not embarrass a child, but he will certainly not look at that child pleasing to the eye. Thinking about it seriously, after his daughter seriously injured Qin Hanzhen, the He family was able to escape responsibility again and again, and even forced the Guan family to commit suicide, why not because of this son's body?
Qin Bai and Niu's didn't expect He's heart to be so ruthless at that time, and they didn't expect that Guan would be forced by her to have the idea of suicide, and after the tragedy, they were also remorseful, but it was too late. He left his own flesh and blood and left, and the old couple took pity on this grandson. But for Brother Qian, who had involuntarily sheltered the He family, it was not easy for Qin Ping to treat him with a normal heart, let alone take care of him, or be kind to him.
Qin Ping is now even Qin Hanzhu, but it is just faint.
Qin Bai and the Niu family both knew in their hearts that the family of Yongjiahou Mansion would be handed over to Qin Ping in the future, and he would be the future master of this family. Qin An's family lives as dependent on their brother, and there is no need to worry about any problems. Then, since Qin Ping is cold to Brother Qian, even if the old couple can shelter their grandson for ten or twenty years, they can't shelter him for a lifetime. Qin Ping can't be treated, Qin An's father is unreliable, stepmother Xiao Feng only has face affection, brothers and sisters have been separated from him for many years, not to mention how much brotherhood there is, so who will this child rely on in the future?
Niu Shi choked up and said to Qin Bai: "If there is a couple in the clan who has no children and is willing to be good to our Brother Qian, what if we give Brother Qian to them as a son......?" He will really have parents to rely on in the future. We choose a pair of parents for him with some heart, we want to find the one who is honest and has a good character, and the family background is not too bad, and we will help them from the side, so that their family can live a prosperous and stable life, and there is nothing to worry about. Even if we die, there will be people who will continue to care about Brother Qian and protect Brother Qian. ”
When Qin Bai heard this, he couldn't help but sigh: "Madam has this thought...... How long has it been? Why haven't you ever told me?"
Niu wiped away his tears: "It's been a few days, but I've been hesitating and haven't made up my mind to speak." At the wedding banquet that day, the people from the long room and the second room came, and I saw Brother Jian taking a few brothers to socialize, so that they could get to know more people. Those boys who came out of the concubines, Brother Shun and Brother Su in the long house, the mother was not allowed to be on the stage, and the eldest woman did not wait to see them, even if there was Brother Jian to carry them, few people really took them seriously, that is, they were born in the Hou Mansion and could make friends with the concubines of other families. Brother Xun in the second room is obviously the only seedling in the family, and even the eldest nephew and daughter-in-law take good care of him, except for the Jinyi girl, who will step on him? But when he comes to outsiders, he is not as good as Brother Shun and Brother Su? Those concubines of the prince's mansion, or the children of small officials and eunuchs, few of them take him seriously. I saw that he was wronged like that, and he had to smile in front of others, and he couldn't bear it. The second room is close to our blood, even if it is separated, Brother Xun is also your own nephew and grandson, and under your nose, it is so despised. Our brother Qian is also nominally a concubine now, and he has been raised in his hometown, even if he is your own grandson, he really came to the capital, how many people can afford him?"
Of course, Qin Bai knew this. The reason why he insisted on waiting until Qin Qian gained fame in the exam, at least a child, before he could connect to the capital was precisely because of this. The status of a concubine who has a meritorious name is different from a concubine who has no meritorious name and can only rely on the descendants. After gaining fame, even if Qin Qian is a concubine, outsiders can value him a little, so that he will not be trampled into the mud.
Niu Shi said: "God knows what day it will have to wait for? What if Brother Qian can't pass the exam? I don't want to wait that long." Besides, he was originally born from a concubine, and he has been spoiled since he was a child, except for his own mother and sister who don't take him seriously, who doesn't love him? Now in order to prevent him from being affected by the slut of the He family, he can only call him a concubine, which is enough to be wronged. In case he took the meritorious test, went to the capital with the status of a concubine, and endured humiliation, but still let people find out who his own mother was, then what should he do in the future? Sister Zhang is still there after all, and now that she has returned to the clan, even if she is not recognized, her identity is not as good as before. I don't want to leave hidden dangers, I'd rather ask Brother Qian to change his parents, anyway, Brother An has nothing to be reluctant to look at. Passing the child out completely severed his relationship with his parents, and saved him from having to pick on his thorns in the future. ”
Qin Bai thought for a while: "This matter is not a trivial matter, no matter how easy Brother Qian'er's life experience is, he is still our own grandson, and outsiders will not be too harsh on him if they look at me." But if it is passed out, it is far away from us, even if there is an innocent background, it may not be able to be taken seriously. This matter needs to be discussed in the long run, Brother An is Brother Qian'er's biological father, and we also need to discuss it with him. Moreover, Brother Ping will be the head of the family in the future, and this matter cannot be hidden from him. If everyone really agrees to succeed him, we also have to ask Brother Qian again what he means. He is also older now, eleven years old, the age when he is about to die, he can no longer treat him as a child, and without saying hello, he will decide his future. ”
Niu Shi wiped his eyes and sniffed: "Just ask, just ask, anyway, if you really decide to pass Brother Qian out in the future, I will carefully pick who this heir's parents should choose." As long as they can really be good to my Brother Qian, I am willing to take them with me when I take Brother Qian back to the capital. Our family has a small population, Brother An is in the barracks all day long, Brother Ping is busy with business, you are old, even if several housekeepers are very capable, not everything can be handled by them. If there is a junior of the same clan to help with the dots, we can all save a lot. Of course, the fertilizer water cannot flow into the fields of outsiders. ”
Qin Bai was a little helpless: "Let's discuss this matter slowly." ”
Qin Bai and Niu's husband and wife discussed this time, Qin Hanzhen naturally did not know. When she learned that her stepmother was pregnant and her father had a successor, there might be more siblings born in the future, making her mother's family more lively and prosperous, and she was always in a happy mood. She and Zhao Mo were originally newly married, and the little couple were in a good mood, and when they got along, they naturally became more and more sweet and tired.
Although Qin Hanzhen is a little shy, after all, his nature is different from that of the ancients, and after the shyness at the beginning of the marriage, he slowly let go, and he and Zhao Mo became more and more affectionate. She will also give Zhao Mo some small surprises from time to time, such as sending him a bottle of hand-arranged flowers to his study, cooking for him and cooking soup for him personally, and doing some personal needlework for him, so that he can wear it all the time, and he can think of him anytime and anywhere, and even use some of the incense he has learned to personally match him with an incense for him to enjoy in the study or bedroom.
Zhao Mo thought that he knew his newlywed wife well enough, but he found that he could encounter new surprises every day, and he could discover her new advantages every day, but he felt that it was not enough to love her. In return, he would often give Qin Hanzhen some surprise gifts, and wanted to please her every day. The little couple is in love and sweet, whether it is in the palace, the Qin family, the clan, the royal family, and even the ministers, they can clearly feel the abused dog.
They are tempted to refuse.