I looked at Su Ran, I hope Su Ran can return to her previous appearance, her most attractive thing is not her appearance, but her temperament.

Femininity comes first, appearance comes second.

Su Ran's tolerance and generosity will make people ashamed of themselves, compared with the woman next to her, this advantage on her body is like the warm sun in winter, which can make people feel comfortable all over her body, and wants to make people close.

But now just because of Shen Chong's few words, Su Ran's temperament immediately changed, and this advantage of hers disappeared, which made me very disappointed and very frightened.

Why does one person like another?

It is impossible to be without a reason, whether it is because of appearance, money, power, fame, or something else, there must be an attractive element in it to be liked.

If there is nothing at all, then there is only a transaction between two people.

It's like the clubhouse kind.

Su Ran and I are obviously not in this situation, Su Ran's tolerance attracts me, and the loneliness in her body makes me want to take care of her, but when her tolerance disappears, can I still maintain my original intention for her?

Two people loved each other at the beginning, but some changes happened in the middle, the relationship deteriorated, and in the end, there were some reasons, the biggest possibility is that the personality of one party has changed, and the other party can't accept it, and finally can't be together.

There are many cases of this situation in life, two people who were originally in love have only known each other for a month or two, they are like glue, glued together every day, eager to find a rope to tie the hands of the two people together, and even want to go together when they go to the toilet, they can send hundreds of text messages a day, and they feel uncomfortable when they don't meet, as if they are addicted.

But after the two people got married and lived together for a period of time, they got to know each other better, and the originally hidden characters were also exposed.

In the face of such a situation, can it be simply said that a certain person has changed his mind, so it will lead to such a phenomenon?

In fact, I can't talk about a change of heart, but I know each other better, the person I originally knew and the person I know now, although the two people are the same individual, but in fact they have changed, their personalities have changed, their habits have changed, and it can be said that in addition to their bodies, they are already completely different people.

It's normal for a quarrel to happen after a while.

I'm afraid, I'm afraid that Su Ran will change, and I'm afraid that my state of mind will change after she changes.

"In fact, what Shen Chong said is not without a certain amount of truth, I know that he is deliberately provoking us, so it is not that I will listen to what he says, I am listening selectively. Su Ran also looked at me, "I love you too, but I'm a little worried, worried that you will be in the same situation as Shen Chong said, and you will be with other women." ”

"But when I was with Tong Wangjun before, you didn't say that it was like this. Shao Siqi and I, Liu Shuang really have nothing, and we are innocent. Shen Chong is just putting sand into your eyes, you have to recognize this. I said, "I hope you are still the same you as you were, or the same tolerant and generous person, don't change because of other people's words, I like you, I love you because of your tolerance and generosity, because you have these unique temperaments." ”

"If I don't let you have contact with these people of the opposite sex anymore, will you stop loving me, or will you stop loving me if I remind you not to contact these people of the opposite sex?"

I took a deep breath, not knowing how to answer Su Ran.

"Answer according to your heart, and do not tell lies. Su Ran seemed to see my thoughts and reminded me.

"I don't know, but I'm so scared you're going to be like that. I said, "The reason why people are human beings, and why people are different individuals, is because each person's personality is different, and if the personality changes, then the person will be different from the person I knew at the beginning." ”

"But in my eyes, you are no different from you were back then. Su Ran told me.

I was stunned for a moment, Su Ran's answer made me a little overwhelmed, and I didn't know how to deal with it.

"I went to take a shower. Su Ran didn't talk to me about this anymore, went downstairs, went to the bathroom, and closed the bathroom door.

I looked at the translucent glass door, looking at the reflection of Su Ran's figure on the door, I was thinking about one thing, my perception must be right?

Does a change in an individual's personality mean that the feelings for that person will necessarily change?

In the beginning, I recognized