"There are a few steamed restaurants, with an income of hundreds of thousands of dollars a month, and it is not well-off. "Su Ran's mother hit me directly and denied my perception of life.

"Hundreds of thousands a month, millions a year, how can you not be called well-off?" I am a little surprised that Su Ran's mother's definition of well-off is too high.

"Of course not. It seemed that typing was too slow, Su Ran's mother sent a voice directly, her voice didn't sound old at all, it felt like the voice of a woman in her thirties and forties, very soft and clear, "First of all, a well-off life must at least have a suite in a big city, right?"

"The house price in the center of Wuchang is 30,000 yuan per square meter, and I will be able to buy a house in the center of Wuchang in two or three years. I said, "It won't even take two or three years, maybe more than a year to be able to buy a house in Wuchang, and if it's just a down payment, the time will be faster." ”

"How can you be called well-off if you pay a down payment to buy a house? A well-off person means that there is no debt, no pressure on life, and if you have to repay the loan every month, there is economic pressure, which cannot be called a well-off. Su Ran's mother denied me again, "And let's not say that you don't have a house in Wuchang now, even if you have a house, Wuchang can't be called a big city, the big city I'm talking about is a big city like Beijing, Shanghai, Guangzhou and Shenzhen." ”

"It is impossible for all people to live in Beijing, Shanghai, Guangzhou and Shenzhen, and it is impossible for only those who live in Beijing, Shanghai, Guangzhou and Shenzhen to be qualified to become well-off families, your statement is too one-sided. Wuchang is not a first-tier city, but it is also a relatively high second-tier city. I said, "The basic living facilities are relatively complete, and it is also very convenient to live here." ”

"You don't have to tell me how Wuchang is, I lived in Wuchang, and that's where I came to Beijing. Su Ran's mother quickly grasped the initiative of the words, "You haven't been to Beijing, have you? You haven't been to Shanghai, have you? Shenzhen, Guangzhou probably haven't been either, you haven't been to these places, so you can't feel the difference between Wuchang and these cities, I advise you to go out for a walk if you have time, and have a good experience of the difference between these cities, and then you will understand that compared with these cities, Wuchang is a small country town." ”

"It's true that you say that you can have a well-off life in other cities, but those people don't just have a house in one place, they all have houses in Beijing, Shanghai, Guangzhou, and Shenzhen, and they can afford to buy a house, but what is your current situation? You don't even have the ability to buy a house in the center of Wuchang, and you dare to say that you can live a well-off life. ”

"I can always succeed if I try hard, and it doesn't take too long, I can buy it in a year or two. "I was a little unconvinced by Su Ran's mother saying this and looking down on me like this.

"People can't compare downwards, they have to look upwards, compare with those who stand on high places, there are so many rich people, why don't you look up to those rich people? and just be satisfied with the status quo?" Su Ran's mother said, "Your current situation is very bad in my opinion, not only the problem of the house, but also the medical problem. Just with the steamed food pipes in your hand, if you have a serious illness, you may not be able to afford the medical expenses if you transfer all the steamed food restaurants. ”

"How do you look at being well-off? It is nothing more than whether you are well-off from the two aspects of house and health. Another point is tourism, but I won't talk about tourism, you can travel abroad at least three or four times a year, which is barely possible for you, but it is only this aspect that can be done. Housing and medical care, you can't do it. ”

"I have health insurance. I said, "Now the national social security system is relatively perfect, although I don't have a job, but I can apply for urban residents' medical insurance, and I can be reimbursed for a certain percentage of serious illnesses." ”

"I still have to rely on the help of the state to be able to cure the disease, can this be regarded as a well-off?" I didn't expect that after I said such a thing, Su Ran's mother disapproved even more," I will have a physical examination every six months, and the doctor who comes to check for me is also very famous in the world, early detection of problems, early investigation, instead of waiting until the body has a condition, and then rely on the country's insurance to treat the disease, in case of illness, with your own money can be used to treat the disease, can you go to a medically developed country anytime and anywhere to see a doctor, can you do this?"

I was silent and stopped talking.

I really can't do what Su Ran's mother said, her words have deepened my understanding of the rich, I thought that Shao Siqi's family was already rich, but compared with Su Ran's mother's conditions, it was too far behind.

"If you can't give a woman happiness, you have to stay away from her, keep your distance from her, and don't hinder her from happiness. Su Ran's mother meant something.

I understood what she meant, she said so much, sent me photos, and said so many things to me with her voice, not to be optimistic about me, not to help me or inspire me, but for the last sentence, let me stay away from Su Ran, and don't hinder Su Ran's happiness.

"How do you know that Su Ran will not be happy with me?" I didn't expect to send a message to Su Ran, but what I got was such a result, she was seen by her mother, and her mother gave me a blow, and it seemed that she was against me being with Su Ran.

The right people were not only in ancient times, but also now, Su Ran's mother probably thought so.

"You can't even reach the level of being well-off, and you can't even provide Ran Ran with basic material conditions, how can you give her happiness?" said Su Ran's mother.

"I believe that if I am given time, I will definitely be able to meet the conditions you said before the age of 40. "I am confident that it will take about ten years to reach the height that Su Ran's mother said.

"Before the age of 40, you are now less than 30 years old, and it will take more than ten years to reach this height?" Su Ran's mother asked me rhetorically.

"Don't you believe me?" I asked rhetorically.

"No, I believe, I believe you can achieve it. But when you reach this height, how old is Ran Ran? Can she afford to wait? Do you still want her to share the joys and sorrows with you and struggle with you? Women should not be tormented by the difficulties of life, they should be born to enjoy life, Ran Ran is young and beautiful, with good skin, it is Fanghua, can you bear to let her live a simple life with you?" Su Ran's mother said.

"With my current conditions, she lives with me, and she doesn't have to wash dishes and cook, my cooking level is very high, I can cook for her, and I can't afford cosmetics, I can also provide them to her, if you want to travel and broaden your knowledge, I also have the ability to give her. "I'm very unconvinced, Su Ran's mother is too demanding, "And now that love is free, Zi Fei Yu, Anzhi Fish's happiness?" What does Su Ran think in her heart, whether she is happy or not, you have no right to make decisions for her. ”

"I'm her mother, why don't I have the right to make decisions for her?" Su Ran's mother said, "You are still too young to understand the truth of being the right person, only if you are right, can you talk about happiness in love in this case, the door is not the right household, the concept is different, the living habits are different, how can you be happy?"

"It's true that you are his mother, but you left her when you were a child, leaving her and your father behind, and even when Su Ran's father died suddenly in the office, you didn't come back to attend his funeral, or traveled outside, your heart is so ruthless, in your eyes, only material, only these external conditions can be called happiness, happiness does need a certain material foundation, but it is not as high as you say. If you really want to measure happiness according to your requirements, I'm afraid there are not many happy people in the world. I said, "You're married to a rich man, have you been happy all these years?"

In the mobile phone, the conversation record paused, and after a while, Su Ran's mother typed over: "I am very happy." ”

"Huh. I think Su Ran's mother is a dead duck with a hard mouth, "If you want to be really happy, you won't pause for so long, but just say it, I'm afraid you've not been happy all these years, right?"

"I am happy or not, at least not lacking material conditions. Su Ran's mother said, "And you can't even provide the basics, I won't agree to the matter between you and Ran Ran." ”

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