Which one do you prefer?

Qin Ping had never thought about this problem.

He felt that he definitely liked Guan Rongniang's kind. When he was young, the first time he saw Guan Rongniang, he couldn't help but stop his eyes on her. After seeing him a few more times, he began to wonder how nice it would be if such a beautiful and gentle girl could be his wife? She often came to his house, and she would smile at him when she saw him, so she must have a good impression of him, right? So Qin Ping tried to propose marriage, and the Guan family agreed to the family affair, and Guan Rongniang seemed to approve of it, so he felt that he was the luckiest man in the world.

He really didn't expect that fate would be so wrong at that time.

He naturally likes his beautiful, gentle and elegant wife, but he often thinks that it would be nice if his wife could be more frank and brave. She obviously has no intention of treating him, and the reason why she often comes to the Qin family is entirely for Wu Shaoying, why can't she tell the truth in front of him? He and Wu Shaoying have a very good brotherhood, even if they feel embarrassed for a while, they will never hold a grudge because of this, then the three of them will not delay each other.

However, Qin Ping felt that although his wife was not frank enough, she was too firm and a little admitted. After marriage, he asked himself that he was still good to his wife, but his wife had already identified Wu Shaoying, and after Wu Shaoying left, he still did not change his mind and was indifferent to his husband. If she could have been a little weaker, she might have waited for them, and it wouldn't be the end now.

In this way, Qin Ping clearly realized that he might not like the various temperaments of his deceased wife Guan Rongniang very much. Maybe...... He is just a superficial person, all he likes is Guan Rongniang's beautiful appearance and gentle and obedient temperament. But if he was asked to choose his second wife, he might have preferred that the other person would be more frank and brave, but not so stubborn?

What a contradictory man!

Qin Ping didn't know much about Cai Shengnan, he hadn't even seen him, but he just listened to the description of his mother and daughter, and he could roughly know what kind of girl the other party was. That is undoubtedly a completely different type from Guan Rongniang, with different appearance and temperament, and very different words and actions. In the face of such a predicament, she can act as usual, obviously a brave and steady girl, and she is not stubborn about her ex-fiancé. This is a trait that he admires, but it seems an exaggeration to say that he thinks he can marry the other person because of this. He didn't think that way yet.

Qin Ping said to his daughter: "These things are not what you should inquire about, so what are you curious about?"

Qin Hanzhen said angrily: "What do you mean I shouldn't inquire? My father is going to marry my stepmother, can't I still care about what kind of person the other party will be? Even if I am about to get married, I will still be your daughter." Of course, I hope that you will get along with your second wife in the future. I'm afraid that you will be entangled in your heart, and you will not be able to see what you want, procrastinating, casually, and dealing with things indiscriminately, and after marrying someone home, you will begin to regret it, won't that hurt the two of you? So father, you're awkward. If you can't make up your mind, tell me what you really think, and I'll consult with my grandmother and try to find you a wife you like. In the future, when you have a good life, we will be able to rest assured. ”

Qin Ping couldn't help but choke up a little for a while. He also knew that he was confused about the marriage, but when he saw his mother and daughter worried about him so much, he was moved, sad, and a little regretful: "It's my father's mistake, my father shouldn't have let you worry so much." "He is so old, it is too dereliction of duty to let the old father and mother and the daughter of Gang Jilu worry about his family affairs and life.

Qin Hanzhen waved his hand: "Don't worry about being sad first, let's get back to the topic." Which type of woman do you prefer? Specifically, would you like to marry a girl who is similar to my mother's temperament and appearance, or do you want to find a completely opposite type, or someone who looks like my mother, but has a different temperament?"

Qin Ping wiped his face, wiped the water from the corners of his eyes, and took a deep breath: "What's the matter with your appearance? As long as your facial features are correct." I only hope that I will marry a girl who understands things and has a strong temperament. I am a military attaché, and I am busy with official duties, so I may not be able to take care of my family. My wife, as long as she can take good care of the family for me, be filial to her father, love her brothers, care for her children and nephews, get along with her relatives and friends, and be able to take charge of the middle feed, so that her father and mother are satisfied, it is enough. I will respect her and love her, and I will not take a concubine, I will not force her to have children, and I will not let her suffer in front of others. As long as she lives up to me, I will never fail her. ”

Qin Han was really stunned. These requirements of Qin Ping ...... It was all according to the needs of the other members of the family, but what about his own needs?

She couldn't help but say, "Dad, I'm asking you what kind of girl you like." Now you're marrying your daughter-in-law, not your grandmother!"

Qin Ping smiled slightly: "Silly boy, what's the difference? I am your grandmother's son, and I marry a daughter-in-law, of course your grandmother marries a daughter-in-law!"

Qin Hanzhen stomped his feet and said, "You obviously know what I mean!

Qin Ping smiled and patted her head gently: "Silly boy, of course I know what you mean, but that's all I want." What kind of girl do you think I like? Is it based on looks? Or look at background? Talent? Looks will get used to it after a long time, and birth is not important to our family, talent...... I don't have any talent myself, so why spoil a good girl? All I need is a good wife. As long as she can satisfy the whole family, I feel at ease and happy. ”

He has already married a wife by mistake because of his appearance, and he can't communicate with her, so he harms others and himself. Now, of course, he has to learn this lesson, and he can no longer easily set his life's events. What preferences, feelings, that is secondary. As long as the newly married wife can satisfy his parents, reassure his daughter, and make the whole family live a peaceful and happy life, that is his greatest happiness. He is thirty-three years old, long past the age of willfulness, and it is better to be practical. He has worried his parents for so many years, and he should have been a filial son a long time ago.

Such an answer naturally did not satisfy Qin Hanzhen, but she could also see that Qin Ping really had no special requirements for her second marriage. So she summed up his words: "Okay, father, what you like now is the kind of girl who looks good, that is, her appearance must be at least middle-class, she must have a resolute temperament, know how to take care of the house, speak and act kindly, can get along well with the people in our family, and has a good character, can not have bad intentions, cause the family to be restless for personal gain, and most importantly, can make her grandfather and grandmother like it, right?"

Qin Ping hesitated: "That's the case...... he paused, and added, "It doesn't matter if you look or have a family background, as long as you ...... My father thinks it's good. He felt that what his daughter summed up seemed to have many overlaps with the winning girl of the Cai family, so in order to show that he was not referring to anyone, he added this sentence.

Qin Hanzhen secretly rolled his eyes, thinking that Cai Shengnan did have many places that met Qin Ping's conditions, just saying that the Niu family liked this, he was simply invincible at the moment! However, his grandfather Qin Bai also mentioned that if the Qin family wants to marry the Cai family for the third time, it needs to be approved by the emperor. Because this time, it was the children of the Qin family who married the daughter of the Cai family, not the daughter of the branch who separated from the family to marry the daughter of the side branch of the Cai family, nor the granddaughter of the Qin family, but actually the daughter of the high-ranking official of the family Lu who married the prince of Yunyang. The meaning is different.

However, Qin Hanzhen felt that it was impossible for the emperor to object, Cai Shengnan said that she was the daughter of the Cai family, but in fact, she was only a distant branch, and her blood relationship with the Marquis of Yunyang was already far away. As long as Qin Ping is not married to the daughter of the Cai family, and will not get involved in the military power held by the Marquis of Yunyang because of the marriage, it is not a big deal. What's more, Qin Hanzhen privately felt that even if the marriage involved military power, the emperor might not object. The crown prince of the East Palace is about to take over the throne, since Chu Zhengfang can rely on his cousin relationship with the crown princess to become the prince's confidant in military affairs, then Qin Ping, as the prince's cousin, why can't he become the same existence? Isn't the relationship between Qin Ping and the crown prince closer and more reliable than Chu Zhengfang?

For the sake of the crown prince, the cousins of the crown prince or the cousins of the crown princess, which one can gain the trust of the emperor and the crown prince more? The answer is obvious!

After Qin Han really figured it out, he didn't bother anymore. She said to Qin Ping: "I will tell my grandfather and grandmother what my father thinks, and let them choose the most suitable marriage partner for my father." But the father also has to swear an oath, once the grandfather and grandmother have decided on the candidate, and the other party has nothing to find fault with, then unless you hate her in your heart and are unwilling to marry her, you can no longer find an excuse to prevaricate whether you are sure of your marriage or marriage! You don't want to disappoint your grandparents anymore, do you?"

Qin Ping couldn't help but smile bitterly. It seems that he really lied so much in front of his daughter in the past that she didn't trust him at all.

He had to solemnly promise: "I will not shirk again, and I will not run away again." Whatever girl your grandfather and grandmother set for me, I will accept it. ”

Qin Hanzhen whispered: "Then you don't have to ...... If you really don't get along with the other person, we won't force you...... It's a lifelong thing, and you shouldn't overdo it. Whether it's my grandfather or grandmother, or I, we want you to be happy, not to marry a wife for the sake of marrying a wife. ”

Qin Ping's expression softened suddenly, and he said with a smile: "What a stupid child, I don't want to wronged myself like this." What's more, if I am a person I hate, how could your grandmother have to make a decision for me? She has always been a good mother!"

Qin Hanzhen was satisfied with Qin Ping's answer and went to see Grandmother Niu's family. Niu Shi finally breathed a sigh of relief: "Amitabha! All these conditions he mentioned are easy to do, and I know a lot of good girls like this. Although I think Katsuo is the best, I'd better ask a few more and let your father choose from them. If he can marry someone who is truly satisfied, I will be relieved!"

After saying that, the Niu clan turned his head to look at Qin Hanzhen: "By the way, Ah Shou from the other courtyard came over and reported to me and your grandfather, saying that Guanglu has left for Beijing, and it is estimated that it will arrive in three days." ”

Qin Hanzhen's eyes lit up, and he was suddenly pleasantly surprised: "Really?!"