Chapter 180 What Do You Want to Do
It is said that husband and wife are birds in the same forest, and they fly separately when disaster comes.
He was in a car accident and the guy who hit him with his car ran away again, and he was taken to the hospital and urgently needed a large sum of money for surgery. Although Lao Ding didn't abandon him at that time, what was the difference between Lao Ding's approach at that time and abandoning him, isn't it the same chilling?
As soon as he thought that he was short of money to be sent to the operating room, his wife would only sit on the ground crying and patting her thighs and saying that there was no money, Qiao Dongliang felt cold and even cold.
What is the difference between Ding Jiayi's approach and leaving directly?
No, there is still a difference.
If Ding Jiayi left with Zijin, at least how did he die in the hospital, Ding Jiayi couldn't see it, and Ding Jiayi would only cry and shout when he stayed in the hospital that day, at least he could watch him die.
Thinking of the past ten years, even if Ding Jiayi didn't give birth to a son for himself, both of them are daughters, he has never treated Ding Jiayi badly, as long as any of the money he earns is not put at home, it will be handed over to Ding Jiayi for safekeeping.
Is Ding Jiayi worthy of him?
Living in the hospital for more than half a month, I saw how considerate and good the sister-in-law of the Zhou family was to Zhou Bing, and then looked at every time Ding Jiayi came to the hospital to take care of herself, she didn't even have a smiling face, looking at him with resentment in her eyes, complaining that he would not make money, complaining that he was not good enough for Zijin, and complaining that he was partial to Nan Nan.
Qiao Dongliang said that he was tired.
It's really not interesting to be a husband and wife to do this job.
Looking at the relationship between husband and wife, and then looking at himself, Qiao Dongliang had such an idea for the first time.
It's just that Qiao Dongliang is still an old traditional Chinese thought, and if he can't get through it, he generally won't say the word divorce.
Second, Qiao Dongliang is also worried that he wants to divorce Ding Jiayi for these reasons, will the two daughters, especially the younger daughter, not understand and be unwilling to hear it?
When Qiao Dongliang was at work, he sometimes heard that someone in the factory was so quarrelsome that he couldn't live his life and was going to divorce, but the children in the family were making trouble and even skipping school, so they refused to let their parents divorce.
Qiao Dongliang is not afraid of anything else, he is afraid that he will break Qiao Nan's heart and force Qiao Nan's good child to be like that.
So he said a word, and Qiao Dongliang closed his mouth.
"Dad, no matter what you think, as long as you are happy, I will support you. After thinking about it, Qiao Nan looked at Qiao Dongliang steadily.
"Nan Nan, do you know what you're talking about, or do you really understand what I'm talking about?"
"Yes. Qiao Nan took a deep breath and said with great certainty.
Although she has no feelings for her mother, her mother is still her mother, and she can't erase this flesh and blood affection, she owes her mother the grace of birth and upbringing.
So after returning from rebirth, in addition to Qiao Nan's firm belief in completing his studies, Qiao Nan never interfered in the matter between Qiao Dongliang and Ding Jiayi.
In their previous lives, Qiao Dongliang and Ding Jiayi often had quarrels, but husband and wife life was like firewood, rice, oil and salt, and quarrels, which was particularly common in every family. Until the day she was hit by a car and died, her father at least never quarreled with her mother to the point of divorce.
Qiao Nan can't encourage his parents to divorce just because he doesn't like Ding Jiayi, Qiao Nan can't do this.
However, if Qiao Dongliang himself has such thoughts, Qiao Nan is not really only sixteen years old, and he still has feelings and feelings for Ding Jiayi's mother, and feels that no matter how partial his mother is to himself, it is also good for his own mother.
What if my father divorces my mother and finds myself a stepmother after that?
In other words, Qiao Nan in her previous life really felt from the bottom of her heart that she would rather be bullied by her mother than see her parents divorced.
In this life, Qiao Nan's heart has calmed down a lot.
Her dad didn't want to divorce her mother, she would never speak, or even induce her dad to have such an idea, but her dad himself had such a thought, and she would definitely support her dad to do it.
"Nan Nan, you ......" Qiao Dongliang showed a smile that was more ugly than crying, it seems that Nan Nan usually doesn't talk much, but Nan Nan actually remembers the things that Lao Ding did.
has seen so many children, and it is the first time that Qiao Dongliang has seen a child who does not cry or make trouble after understanding that his parents want to divorce, and he supports it so simply.
"Dad, don't think too much, the reason why I agree is different from what you think. Dad, you live the life, so whether it's good or bad, bitter or sweet, you know, my sister and I don't know. If you think that this life is good, I won't say anything, do you see that I have been silent before? But Dad, you have such thoughts now, and I hope you can live a little more comfortably. At least I don't want to be a reason for you to wronged yourself. Dad, I'm also afraid of being wronged, I don't need you to carry this family for me. ”
Qiao Nan has heard enough, and the parents endure the excuse of not getting a divorce for the sake of their children.
In her previous life, every time her mother moved out with this excuse, it meant that no matter how much her mother asked of her, she had to agree.
Qiao Dongliang wants to leave, Qiao Nan has no objection, Qiao Dongliang still wants to live with Ding Jiayi, and Qiao Nan will not object.
Qiao Nan really doesn't want to live her own life, and she has to bear the marriage of the other two people for a lifetime.
Really, what she is afraid of is not that her father and her mother will be wronged, she is really afraid that she will be wronged again.
No, no need!
"Dad, you can't leave, think it out for yourself. I just want to say that you can't leave me, and you don't have to think about me at all. In order not to affect Qiao Dongliang's judgment, Qiao Nan even endured the sentence "For me, it is better for you to leave than not to leave".
"Nan Nan, you have really suffered a lot of grievances, you have such a mother, it is really ......" The calmer Qiao Nan and the more he cleaned up the relationship, the more Qiao Dongliang could deeply understand Qiao Nan's disappointment and despair towards Ding Jiayi.
Nan Nan's feelings for Lao Ding are so weak that he can see the issue of whether he and Lao Ding are divorced so calmly and rationally.
To be a sin is really to be a sin.
"It's like I owe my mother for a few lifetimes, so I'm here to pay off the debt, but I have enough to pay it off. "Her mother gave her a life, and she has given her whole life and a life back to her mother.
She was hit by a car and died, and it is estimated that the organs of her body can still be used, but her mother and Qiao Zijin looked forward to her kidneys.
There is an ancient myth that Nezha cuts bones to return to his father, and cuts flesh to return to his mother.
She gave her life back to her mother and her kidney to Qiao Zijin, no matter how much she owed, it should be enough.
"Dad, I don't complain, life is made by people. No matter how bad my mother's temper and temperament are, as long as I am angry, my waist is straight, and my ears are soft, I can live a good life. ”