Chapter 103: Ignoring Home
Tong Wangjun took the food to the side to eat, as if he didn't want to see me drinking.
I ignored her, thinking that I was here to help her, but she still gave me a look on my face, which was more or less uncomfortable.
She's angry, and I'm angry.
I touched the wine twice with Tong Wangjun's father, and after eating, I took Chen Ke outside for a walk.
When I came back, I saw Tong Wangjun packing up and cleaning inside and out, just like my mother, I couldn't stop.
"It's already clean and doesn't need to be cleaned up. I said.
"Wash your feet and go to bed, leave me alone. Tong Wangjun's face was still not good, "I'll pour you foot washing water, you wash your feet." ”
After washing my feet, I went back to the room, Chen Ke wanted to follow me over, Tong Wangjun called out to her: "Ake, come here, wash your butt and go to sleep." ”
Two women, one is an ex-wife, the other is my daughter, she is eight years old, I definitely won't stay, I don't have such a fetish, I went back to the house, went directly into the bed, and played with my mobile phone.
After a while, Chen Ke also ran in: "Dad, I'll sleep with you." ”
There are two quilts on the bed, a one-meter-five bed, and the other bed I don't know if Tong Wangjun prepared it for herself, or for Chen Ke.
"Come on. I lifted the quilt and let Chen Ke in.
Chen Ke just entered the bed and hugged me like an octopus.
"What's wrong?" I asked, "Is Mom too fierce?"
"Hmm. Chen Ke nodded.
"Mom is in a bad mood because the family is sick, so she is a little fierce, don't blame her. "No matter what I think of Tong Wangjun in my heart, I don't want children to think Tong Wangjun is bad.
I want to spread positive energy to my children, and negative information will distort my children's three views and is not conducive to their growth.
I don't necessarily do everything right, but I've been working on it.
Chen Ke lay on top of me, watched me play with my mobile phone, and fell asleep after a while, five or six hours of travel, and didn't sleep much in the car, and got up early in the morning, Chen Ke was already tired.
I haven't gotten sleepy yet.
After a while, the door opened, and Tong Wangjun walked in: "Ake is asleep?"
"Well, slept. I nodded, "You're not resting yet?"
"Right now. Tong Wangjun's voice softened a lot, and he didn't know if he reflected on it when he was doing the sanitation just now, "Are you thirsty or not, I'll pour you some water." ”
"No, I drank too much water to get up at night. I shook my head.
Tong Wangjun closed the door, and when he came in again, he had a glass of boiling water in his hand and a flashlight: "If you want to go to the toilet, take this flashlight." ”
"You can sleep too. "It's already late, so I persuaded Tong Wangjun again.
She didn't stop after getting off the train, she was busy, her dad ran out after eating, and he was indeed a little careless about his family, in such a family, the pressure was high, and his personality became harsh, which may be understandable.
"Good. Tong Wangjun closed the door, walked to the other side, and cautiously got into the bed.
"You don't take off your clothes?" I asked, "I turned off the lights." ”
There are two bedrooms at home, and the other one is Tong Wangjun's parents, and Tong Wangjun can only sleep here.
But the two of us divorced, somewhat embarrassed, Tong Wangjun was embarrassed to take off his clothes in front of me, but took off his coat.
"No, I don't. Tong Wangjun shook his head, hesitated for a while, and then slowly took off all the clothes on his body and put them on the quilt.
Inside, he only wore an autumn coat, and then shrunk into the quilt.
I turned off the lights and lay down slowly.
"You told Ke about the two of us, in case she leaked her mouth, it would be bad. I suddenly remembered this question and said it to Tong Wangjun.
"Tell her, she won't talk nonsense. Tong Wangjun said, "Tomorrow my mother will come back, you don't drink anymore, she doesn't like people to drink." ”
Tong Wangjun felt very sorry for her mother, but she was a little harsh on her father.
"It's not easy for your father, he's so old, just drink some, as long as it's not an alcoholic. I persuaded to try to change Tong Wangjun's opinion of her father.
As a family, it's good to be in harmony, and there's really no need to quarrel all the time.
"You also saw that my mother was sick, and he still went outside to play, to play cards, to visit relatives. Tong Wangjun's voice was a little hoarse and dark, and I couldn't see her expression, "I don't cook, my mother can only eat biscuits and steamed buns in the hospital." It's not that I'm prejudiced against him, it's that what he does is too out of tune and too chilling. ”
Tong Wangjun seemed to cry.
"Didn't he bring food back to your mother just now?" I said good things for Tong Wangjun's father.
"That's because you're there, he's doing this, you've been to our house, it's not that you don't know who he is, I've told you many times. Tong Wangjun looked at me sideways, "My mother does all the work at home, he doesn't care about anything, he is not self-motivated at all, and among the brothers, he is the most unproductive." ”
"My uncle, my uncle, both bought a house in the city, and he still guards this dilapidated house, which was not like this before, it was an earthen house, and it was about to collapse later, and he couldn't live in it anymore. ”
"When I went to school, my family was poor and couldn't even afford the tuition, so my mother went to sell vegetables to pay for the tuition, and then when I went to college, my mother sold the vegetables to provide for my tuition and living expenses. He didn't pay a penny, not only did he not help at home, but he also had a good face, ignoring my mother and me. ”
"The family planted rice, my mother planted seedlings alone, she had bronchitis, worried that the seedlings could not be planted, delayed time, got up at three o'clock and went to the field alone, my father didn't care about anything, went to play cards. When the rice is ripe, my mother picks it up alone, threshers the rice, and dries it, but do you know what my dad did?"
"What's wrong?" I said.
He gathered up the dried rice and sold it. Tong Wangjun was a little excited.
"This is a good thing, it means that he still took the initiative to work, is it because the price is too low?" I guessed.
"A good thing?" Tong Wangjun laughed twice, "He took the money from the sale of rice to invite people to dinner." ”
I was stunned.
It's the first time I've heard of such a strange thing: "Why did he invite someone to dinner?"
My first feeling was that I thought there was some secret in this, and there was a reason why Tong Wangjun's father would do this.
"There's no reason, he's just lazy to eat, invite a few fox friends to eat and drink, he usually goes out too early, and he has to have meat for every meal, do you still think he's good now?" Tong Wangjun said.
I was silent, and after a while, I said, "It's a bit of a disregard for my family. ”
"Okay, go to sleep, you don't drink anymore tomorrow, my mother will be uncomfortable when she sees it." Tong Wangjun reminded me again.
"Good. I nodded.
Lying on the bed, I couldn't sleep, I somewhat understood why Tong Wangjun was so harsh on me, born in such a family environment, it had a serious impact on her character, she would look down on unmotivated people so much, and would be so harsh on people.
Early the next morning, Tong Wangjun's father bought breakfast and called us up to eat.
Fritters, buns, steamed buns, soy milk, and a relatively hearty breakfast.
"Eat, you're welcome, eat more. "Tong Wangjun's father greeted me very politely.
He doesn't care about his family, but he is very hospitable and loves face.
In addition to his family, everyone around him probably likes him very much.
How should such a person be evaluated?
I suddenly felt that I myself seemed to be such a person, Chen Ke and Chen Le followed me before, and I didn't even have to eat, and I couldn't count myself as a family, I only cared about my own happiness and comfort, and I didn't think of children at all.
When Chen Ke and Chen Le grow up and face the pressure of life, I am afraid that Tong Wangjun's current emotions will also be born to me.
I was suddenly a little glad that it was Tong Wangjun who forced me to be like this, forced me to be motivated, forced me to work hard for my two daughters, and she woke me up with a slap.
Tong Wangjun's mother came back at about ten o'clock, and when she came back, she began to prepare meals.
"Mom, don't worry about it, I'll get it, you're not in good health, you can't touch cold water. Tong Wangjun said.
"It's okay, it's almost fine, you went to steam the rice, do you still have drinks at home?" Tong Wangjun's mother carried a basket of vegetables and fetched well water to clean it.
His face was better, but he was still slow when he squatted.
If bronchitis is not cured, it is easy to commit it in winter, and Tong Wangjun's mother can't stop, so it's no wonder if she doesn't get sick.
"No, I'll buy it later. Tong Wangjun said.
"I'll go. "I'd love to do something and help.